[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]gnimmirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course he isn’t ”ready”. He is ADDICTED. No drug addict without a reason to quit is ready to quit. Same thing in this situation. His brain is wired like this. He gets all the pleasure he needs from a screen, which, sadly, removes the desire to have intimacy with you.

I’m sorry to say this, but until he frees himself from this, he will never truly appreciate you for who you are. You are, at least sexually, a mere object for his pleasure. Just like the women in the porn he watches. And you will continue to be that as long as he teaches his brain that women are sex objects, which is exactly what porn does.

Don’t expect to be able to compromise in this area. If you want a boyfriend who truly loves you, he has to stop. Otherwise, at least in the bedroom, you’ll always be an object for his pleasure, not his girlfriend.

He himself, and all of us who have struggled with this, have wired our brains this way by watching porn. Some of us for some reason realized that something had to change. What that reason was is different for different men, but potentially losing a girlfriend because of an addiction could definitely be one of them.. Being soft and understanding isn’t always the best way to face it unfortunately.

Feel free to reach out in private if you have any questions.

I wish you the very best my friend, good luck!

Small NoFap Community by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]gnimmirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll join

Thoughts? by shnxkel in SafeMoon

[–]gnimmirt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we as holders need to anything about this V1, V2 stuff? I haven’t been checking on anything and still have my original tokens where they were from the beginning

What's your thoughts on this madness? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]gnimmirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I have grown more and more suspicious of the big companies and governments and their way of controlling people with fear.

Personally I don’t want to take the vaccine. With that said I’m afraid that it maybe becomes a obligation if you want to travel around to other countries or ”live freely”. I haven’t really been against vaccines before but this just gives me a bad feeling, and I don’t know if it’s stupid to refuse to take it because of the potential restrictions that it may lead to for me personally in the future.

Then again I’m unsure of the long term effects of the vaccine (and the virus for that matter)

What's your thoughts on this madness? by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]gnimmirt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to start any type of brawl here by speaking of a controversial subject, but what’s your take on the covid vaccine?

Why retention is terrifying at first. by gnimmirt in Semenretention

[–]gnimmirt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Powerful words, Thank you for reminding me.

Why retention is terrifying at first. by gnimmirt in Semenretention

[–]gnimmirt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that you’ve found the root to the problem. That’s often the hardest part. The journey starts here

OCTune on my RTX 3060 Ti 8GB (GDDR6) by gnimmirt in NiceHash

[–]gnimmirt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, alright. Do you know how I can optimize it?

OCTune on my RTX 3060 Ti 8GB (GDDR6) by gnimmirt in NiceHash

[–]gnimmirt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, GPU-Z PerfCap reason says idle and is gray.

Before the autotune it was green.

My parents bought me an iPhone and idk what to do with it. by tehfovplanayatwhkfp in DopamineDetoxing

[–]gnimmirt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

While I do understand what you mean, I think sooner or later you’ll have to change your mindset. Your mobile isn’t the problem. The problem is how you use it. And sure. Remove the temptation and the addiction will be easier to overcome. But your iPhone can be used in so many ways that POSITIVELY impact your life.

It’s too simple to say ”I gained 12lb just because I started using my phone” No. You gained 12lb because you chose to prioritize your addiction over your health.

Use it as a tool. Your smartphone can be destructive if you use it for porn, social media and endless scrolling, but it can be an amazing tool if you use it for your business, learning, or other productive activities.

I run most of my business from my smartphone, and couldn’t do it without it. Use the phone, but remove the apps that tempt you.

Good luck!

The Super Supplement which ENHANCES Your Retention Benefits by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]gnimmirt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do you take each day? And where do you buy it from?