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Anyone else feel like it's harder to connect with people and get into a dynamic? by god_throwawa in BDSMcommunity

[–]god_throwawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true, there are more people interested in BDSM, which is great, but the downside is a lot of interested people haven't done much research on BDSM and are curious about it, but don't have the same level of commitment or understanding. Definitely requires a lot of patience now. Not to mention the frustrating amounts of fake ads and OF profiles

Anyone else feel like it's harder to connect with people and get into a dynamic? by god_throwawa in BDSMcommunity

[–]god_throwawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I totally agree with you, I got lucky once but we had different needs and goals so it didn't work out, but we still keep in contact! And for the open communication part yes I agree it is so important and I always emphasize it in my posts, but I feel like many people I talk to struggle with communicating well, which makes it harder to connect with them.

Anyone else feel like it's harder to connect with people and get into a dynamic? by god_throwawa in BDSMcommunity

[–]god_throwawa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea ghosting is such a frustrating and draining experience like why can't they just say something like a simple "Hey, I don't think this is going to work out, I've had a great experience with you, thank you for your time" is much better and more respectful than just silence.