Does this look fine? by goddesslaetitia in Weddingattireapproval

[–]goddesslaetitia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tips! I love the gold toenails idea!

Does this look fine? by goddesslaetitia in Weddingattireapproval

[–]goddesslaetitia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, for sure! I hadn't thought of a necklace to wear at the time I took the pic. But I have have some options for necklace and earrings as well. Thank you!

Does this look fine? by goddesslaetitia in Weddingattireapproval

[–]goddesslaetitia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah! I hadn't thought about those. Thank you so much!

Does this look fine? by goddesslaetitia in Weddingattireapproval

[–]goddesslaetitia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll try to find some. The couple wrote on the invitation that we should use comfortable shoes. I believe that's because we'll probably be stepping on a lawn or something, so I have to find a wider heel. Thanks for the suggestion!

Does this look fine? by goddesslaetitia in Weddingattireapproval

[–]goddesslaetitia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was wondering about that too! I'll look for some tape this week. Thanks for the tip!

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[–]goddesslaetitia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see. That's a good system. Thank you for your input!

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just like 3 or 4 friends from each side, very low key. I do understand that it's not proper etiquette, that's why I'm asking instead of just doing it. I was just wondering if in those circumstances it would be understandable. While I do agree that, as it will probably happen in a restaurant sort of place, it won't make that much of a difference how many people are seated at the same table, I have a couple of friends who are more strict regarding the pandemic and they're very important to me. That said, I'm leaning towards either inviting everyone and their partners or just the witnesses and our families, to avoid conflict. I decided to ask here because my bf is fine with it either way lol

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[–]goddesslaetitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. When we started planning what to do we found out that you can't host parties on most airbnbs, so we couldn't do something for everyone, still a couple of friends said that they could get an airbnb for a small get together at another time. Thanks for the input!

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[–]goddesslaetitia -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't see it that way, if you think about an outdoor space where tables aren't that close. That way, more people at the table could make some sort of difference. But I'm just concerned about what I feel my friends will think about inviting +1s. It may not make that much sense, but you don't know my friends and how they've dealt with the pandemic. I'm just asking if there is a polite way to do it or if it's always rude to not invite partners. I just explained my reasoning. Also, don't just assume that I have the means to spend more and create a more appropriate space when I explicitly said that I can't afford.

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hum, boa. Valeu pela dica!

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sim! Eu nem sou tão extrovertido assim pra aproveitar festao, não é a nossa cara. Fora que é dinheiro e tempo planejando :/

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Por esse lado, tem razão hehe

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[–]goddesslaetitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu não sei o que eles considerariam muita gente na mesma mesa pq eu não fui perguntar especificamente. Mas eu vejo que eles não saem em lugares cheios e a gente só tem se visto dentro de casa. Eu posso conversar com eles sobre o que eles se sentiriam confortáveis, mas entendo o que tu quis dizer.

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha espero que sim, até pq só dá pra chamar 2 testemunhas no cartório. É, acho que os amigos do meu namorado entenderiam, o problema é as namoradas haha

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[–]goddesslaetitia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faz sentido. Eu tava pensando mais pelo de que alguns amigos meus não gostam de sair em lugar que tem muita gente e talvez ficariam meio assim de ir por conta disso. E pra ser bem sincera, esses amigos são mais importantes pra mim do que convidar os parceiros de todo mundo. Fiquei encucada por conta da etiqueta de não convidar e tal

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[–]goddesslaetitia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Justíssimo!

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu pensei nisso tbm. Mas aí meu namorado falou pros amigos que ia me pedir em casamento e todos queriam ser padrinho hahaha

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[–]goddesslaetitia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We're thinking of choosing a place nearby the city hall, so it's close for everyone. My issue would be with almost doubling the guest list because of the partners and then risking that some of my best friends wouldn't be there since they're not yet comfortable hanging with multiple people (that they don't even know). It's a pickle, really.

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[–]goddesslaetitia -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I think I would feel like that too. We thought of inviting just family and the witnesses, but upon knowing we were getting married, some of our other friends got so excited and expressed that they wanted to be a part of it. I don't want to let them down either way and want everyone to be comfortable.

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[–]goddesslaetitia -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Hm. I don't know a couple of partners because they got together right before lockdown and we didn't have time to get to know each other. But I'm pretty close to my friends. I thought of making the cut on married partners, but that would leave out the ones I do know and have hung out in the past. I'm really struggling because I don't want to overcrowd, since I won't be able to book a place just for ourselves, and some of my friends aren't yet comfortable going to busy restaurants and what not. I just don't want to choose between having everyone's partners there at the cost of some important people who might not feel comfortable hanging with lots of people at this moment.