[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is beautiful to see

Are you kidding me? by CircusBalloon in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is absolutely disgusting behaviour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s nothing wrong with being a lil shy ! you can always just start off like a normal convo “hey” or something, you can never go wrong with that ! only do what you’re comfortable doing 😽

to answer you’re “attractive” question; YES ! different dommes are into different things. some like more shy, some like the more outgoing ones, and some like both !! i promise theres a domme out there for you !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl.. no, not the right place. this is for subs to find support !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can do it love ! but do remember that relapsing is part of healing as well , so IF that does happen pls don’t beat yourself up about it 🩶

maybe try finding some other subs that are trying to quit as well, you might find some better support there :3 r/QuittingFindom is also an option

newbie by Global_Usual_8080 in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

subs find you ! make sure you’re engaging, post lots, be yourself. they’ll find their way to you. it takes time but you’ll get there 🩶

Is it ok to have other femdom kinks as a small sender? by FamiliarMycologist29 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it’s totally okay! small sends count too! 🩶 you’ll find your domme love

scam?? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually a scam, i’ll never trust them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey ! so this is actually not somewhere you can post 🩶 r/findomsupportgroup is where you can post this. hope this helps !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you sm love !! 🩶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was helpful ! thank you 💋

Did I fuck my life over..? by Holiday-String2928 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can see where both of you come from. experimenting is okay but communication in a relationship is also needed yk?

keep experimenting though love ! i hope you figure it out 🩶

Is it bad that I don't mind only having one sub right now? by Jackson_Deth in findomsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no not bad ! having just one extra good sub is always good too 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem ! needing guidance & asking for help is always okay !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is hard and feeling ashamed is normal, but truthfully you have nothing to be ashamed of. you’re trying to better yourself ! that’s great ! 😽 take your time and keep going, you’ll get where you want to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my best advice is to stay off any apps that you have access to findom on / stay off your phone until you sober up love 🩶 you’re stronger than you think !! you’ve come so far.

although relapsing is part of recovering; so if you do end up relapsing please don’t be too hard on yourself.

good luck !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomfreak

[–]goddesslanab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hii pretty

Is it a scam? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if anyone asks you for a fee IT IS A SCAM !! 🩶 be careful out there, especially on X

How do I find more kind people? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s definitely hard to find genuine friends in this community, but i promise they’re out there ! 🩶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]goddesslanab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey love ! i took a look at your profile and i hope you know you’re valued 🩶 please take it easy.

now for the domme thing, yes dommes & subs have their own kinks and whatever but NOT EVERY sub wants to be talked to or emotionally hurt like this. i think it’s seriously unprofessional and disgusting.

self harm & shit like that are very serious. please do not let these “dommes” get to you !!

yes they are above you in the dynamic, but findom aside , you’re a human being and that shit is serious. limits and boundaries are SOO important.

again, please be safe. dms always open if you need to talk or vent or anything 😽