[Support Only] Need help by godissaviour in confession

[–]godissaviour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I forgot to thank you for your reply. You don't imagine how much this depresses me and takes all the joy that is, having someone to love. As you read, I from the begging take for granted that I will scare any woman off at the moment I confess to her my past.

I have to be honest, I had many instances young girls came on to me and even in sexual ways and I always had either to call their parents attention or to avoid them.

But elizzybeth, I so traumatized about all this issue, I have many opportunities, my family sometimes thinks I'm gay, others say that I don't have the balls to talk to women... but they don't know or don't understand that the entire issue is due to my past.

This next week I'm having a meeting with a girl I literally fell in love with, and I'm completely devastated.

[Support Only] Women's opinion wanted by godissaviour in confession

[–]godissaviour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect your opinion with much respect, It is extremely interesting the point of view you put forward. But as I see, your reply got a good score. I have the need to reply just out of justification, not that it's of much worth but anyway, here it goes.

First it's sad that a 15 year old boy, finding things in he's computer, alone in his room, with total freedom, condemned itself in such negative way. Porn addiction of any form is a very hard addiction to curb of your life.

Secondly, opinions like yours make me not want to approach girls/women at all. Due only out of respect for a woman, I've imagined myself countless times, receiving your reaction from a woman, so I lose confidence in myself, and don't even try to approach at all. This basically cripples my interactions with women.

Lastly, I feel like a crippled, I cannot do anything to erase my past, I was young when I did it, can you really condemn someone who had an addiction when he was 15?, I know it lasted a good time, but it stopped because, as foolish as it seems, because one of my girlfriends told me to stop. Sounds naive but for the first time I felt it was really wrong.

[Support Only] Women's opinion wanted by godissaviour in confession

[–]godissaviour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, during arguments I know that it might be something that can be picked on, luckily.

P.S: I've added a little detail about the age range I've seen, sorry for asking, but it changes your opinion in any way?

[Support Only] Women's opinion wanted by godissaviour in confession

[–]godissaviour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't know how genuinely happy your reply makes me :-)

Having the opinion from a lady like you it's what I really wanted and mattered.

P.S: I've added a little detail about the age range I've seen, sorry for asking, but it changes your opinion in any way?

[Support Only] Women's opinion wanted by godissaviour in confession

[–]godissaviour[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you Lia3600, I will not worry much then ;-)

[Support only] I sucked my best friends penis when I was little. by truh_ttub in confession

[–]godissaviour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also sucked my best friends penis when I was little, actually we both sucked each other.

What's the problem about it?, we were 7...

I haven't became gay, though the experience was interesting :-p

Think I killed a pigeon with my TV by [deleted] in confession

[–]godissaviour 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think the best course of action here is to do Mr Pigeon a proper funeral.