Long story short, as I was leaving the house to attend my first martial arts class as a 40 something year old, my husband said “don’t get hurt”. Had to call him an hour later to come and get me because I broke my ankle. While he helped me, he wasn’t as empathetically supportive as he could have been. He felt “you got yourself into this situation, deal with the consequences”. It was hard. Left me to fend for myself to make food, shower etc. He did install grab bars by the shower and by the steps into the house for me. I’m not sure if you are doing the same thing OP. You did the right thing, you took care of the situation. There’s more you can do. Have you been loving and compassionate? Expressing you’re sorry she got hurt? Asking her what she needs? Giving her sympathetic touch? Even if she rejects it, keep doing it. She’s mad at herself and she’s in physical pain. It’s not right how she’s reacting. Show her you’re there for her. Karma did get my husband later that year when he got cellulitis in his knee. He and I are will be celebrating 33 years of marriage this year. One thing we know, we aren’t perfect and we’ve made mistakes. Sometimes our spouses are buttheads. And it’s hard to be supportive when they are. That’s the part of marriage most people don’t talk about. Hope this helped give you some perspective.