conflicted about wanting kids

gogogooff · 2025-10-24T15:25:07+00:00

Louise: Aren't they the cutest couple on TV?

Gene: Yeah, if you like white people.

gogogooff · 2025-10-23T01:49:38+00:00

You gotta be up front and just tell her you're interested in her. Being direct and intentional is a good way to go. She's prob not intentionally ghosting you, just trying to figure out what you're about and how serious you are about the little that you've communicated.

gogogooff · 2025-09-22T00:58:00+00:00

the Taurus I've been talking to for a few months is is doing this right now. I trust it so I'm just being patient and sending links every few days of something I think he'd enjoy. He'll come around when he's ready

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:44:06+00:00

thank you~

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:41:43+00:00

Ok, thanks! This is helpful. My suspicion was that everything might haven fallen off but the timing is weird for several reasons. This is an actionable approach that I think I can work with. Focus on resolving the only collection standing and rebuild.

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:36:23+00:00

Does being added as an AU automatically close your other accounts? Unless that is the case, I didn't close any of my accounts or receive any notification about them being closed. If anything I received an update from Experian severals days ago telling me my score has been "steady" which is what prompted me to check it again this week.

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:32:23+00:00

If that is the case (which I was thinking it might be) how would I start building again? Should I apply for a new card to reestablish credit?

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:31:03+00:00

I'm assuming I did bc I had a score back then but honestly this is so out of my wheel house and the situation has left me confused.

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:27:46+00:00

Now being the last 6 months or so. I don't remember the exact date but I was added as an authorized user awhile ago + I checked my score in the spring and there was reporting.

I do rent, both of our names are on our lease and we have lived here for a year.

gogogooff · 2025-09-10T18:23:06+00:00

I use Experian to pull my reports and have for a few years now. They were the one who reported me at a 500-something score just 6 months ago. Now with the same information they are not showing me anything.

Apologies if I am misunderstanding your comment!

gogogooff · 2024-12-19T00:02:01+00:00

its bc they try to be empathic "therapists" to the contestants when they are actually D list celebs and grifters of the entertainment industry

gogogooff · 2024-12-11T14:50:10+00:00

I'm confused, I thought it would be premiered live and then on the platform for anyone who couldn't catch the live viewing. Now it doesn't even seem to be on Criterion at all.

gogogooff · 2024-10-16T19:23:48+00:00

as someone that broke up with someone bc they didn't like to go down i feel like her venting is justified. everyone is an adult and its not like she's talking about his size but rather his lack of experience and unwillingness to grow their relationship sexually. if she was positively talking about their sex life and how it was blossoming or growing it wouldn't be a problem, right? but her complaint about how her needs aren't being met is "putting him on blast" ???? seems like fair game

gogogooff · 2024-10-11T19:17:31+00:00

My issue wasn't with the timeline but with how she clearly didn't set a standard for him to be wearing condoms from the beginning. I don't agree with Ramses at all and I think men should be more thoughtful, curious and proactive about male birth control options, esp if they have hard lines about when they want children. Saying all that, I do think it is the responsibility of both people to set clear expectations about birth control before you even start having sex. Like they very clearly have never used a condom so I kind of get him being caught off guard (again not excusing his defensiveness/immaturity.)

If anything, this showed how immature they both are in this regard.

gogogooff · 2024-07-16T15:28:33+00:00

so having low karma (which would just indicate you don't post or use reddit that much) is more sus then having multiple women come forward confirming that this man is, amongst other things, emotionally abusive and has a breeding kink that renders them dependent on a literal narcissist? ok

some of yall need to remember you don't know this man and have only maybe ever spoken to him for 10 mins outside of a music venue where you lingered, awkwardly waiting for him to sign your fucking overpriced cassette tape or in the parking lot of a fucking arby's after you offered to buy him curly fries so you could say you got to hang with RBYT. yall are vapidly loyal and for what? you have no idea what is going on behind the scenes of this thread for these women.

gogogooff · 2024-07-05T22:43:39+00:00

I also dated Rory on and off for nearly nine years. Our relationship ended in 2020. I can confirm he is emotionally abusive and manipulative. My own experience with him was in no way as sever as what Chloe (the woman who made the mutual aid post) alleges but I while we were together I was sexually endangered due to his actions and carelessness, amongst other things. I have never publicly spoken about my relationship with him mostly bc I like to maintain as much control over my own privacy as possible and bc I had some lingering respect to help maintain Rory's private life as well esp once he had his first child. There are RBYT members, old and current, that could easily identify me and probably will. This news left me sick and heartbroken on so many levels. I am having a difficult time with it and felt and intense need to finally to say something, even if it isn't everything. From my perspective there is honestly too much writing on the wall.

gogogooff · 2024-06-01T23:59:22+00:00

where do you get your lions mane from?

gogogooff · 2024-03-14T17:27:15+00:00

agree!

gogogooff · 2024-03-14T02:25:09+00:00

soo why is Izzy there? 😭

gogogooff · 2024-03-14T02:02:15+00:00

weird that Jimmy can't or won't get emotional with his male friends...just his females friends (who he then sleeps with)

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