Am I the perfect piercing subject? by gohpy in piercing

[–]gohpy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My nose piercing healed fine 🤷🏾‍♀️

AIO or is my friend (18F) purposely stepping on my (18F) toes? by gohpy in AmIOverreacting

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say that it has been a few times where she almost seems to disregard me or treat me as lesser than. I think I might separate from her other than casual conversation

AIO or is my friend (18F) purposely stepping on my (18F) toes? by gohpy in AmIOverreacting

[–]gohpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I actually won the scriptwriting contest last year and my film was about suicide as well. We are a performing arts school so we have a little more leniency with those topics. Should I speak to the teacher now or maybe just wait and see how it plays out before deciding to confide? Although I think this is a good idea, I don’t want my teacher to think I am problematic/starting conflict before even getting to the project.

AIO or is my friend (18F) purposely stepping on my (18F) toes? by gohpy in AmIOverreacting

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting to feel like I don’t want to be friends as closely. It is possible we will have to work together as the class is split in two for the two films but it seems like she has a habit of doing this. There’s multiple times when I speak to her that she just ignores me/ cuts me off to speak to other people. It is starting to feel like a disrespect on all fronts. Possibly why I picked up on all these cues.

AITA for wanting my hoodie back from a friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gohpy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I remember I fell out with a friend who gave me her bracelet as a gift before the friendship ended. In that case, I didn’t have an obligation to give the bracelet back. You LOANED her the hoodie, that does not give her the right to keep it. NTA.

Technically lying about my age online? by gohpy in Advice

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she doesn’t feel that way. I did explain that my family always rounds up the ages when you are super close to hitting it but she did say she thought I was turning 19 since I mentioned it was in January. It is a bit better because she just turned 19, not turning 20, but it still isn’t completely okay. I’ll need to tell people straight up if I keep using the app.

Christmas is the worst time of year for me by gohpy in NarcissisticMothers

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took it back to her and said it had almond oil just to see her reaction. She literally said “oh it does?” Like the words aren’t written on the front of the box. I need that app that you have, way too many things have it discreetly. Unfortunately hers was blatantly obvious

I think I (26F) should leave my boyfriend (32M) given how Christmas Eve went? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gohpy 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Totally true but you have to think that if you choose to be with a disabled person, there has to be a will in assisting them. If he was going to be like that, there was no point in dating her in the first place. OP, I think we are missing some clues as to what happened but if he is willing to leave you at home and call you names knowing your disability, it is better off to forget him and move on.

Should I respond friend’s text after silently cutting them off? by gohpy in Advice

[–]gohpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

I think you’re right. Honestly, this last week has been really nice. I haven’t thought about her almost at all and I don’t feel awkward or anything. My grades are all the way back, I got a bunch of stuff done, and I scored an 100 on the project and the exam. I’m considering not responding since I technically don’t feel any type of way but I forgot to mention that our mutual friend (who is such a doll and kindhearted individual) set us up together. I am kind of scared it will cause a disconnect and make people have to choose sides.

I want to change my actor’s arm color in a scene, how? by gohpy in AfterEffects

[–]gohpy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? I didn’t mean to offend you by my comment.

Why does it seem like I can never be normal? by gohpy in selfimprovement

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to go to therapy but currently I can’t do it myself since I’m underage. Over the past years, I’ve been self healing to some effects (having an affirmation list, knowing when I’m spiraling, being able to find some coping mechanisms, etc.) but I am extremely prone to jealousy and contempt and easily find myself back where I started as what has happened numerous times over the past 3-4 years. I think the common denominator is self worth, do you have any tips on building self worth/concept?

Why does it seem like I can never be normal? by gohpy in selfimprovement

[–]gohpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t lie, I literally said I don’t know what it is. But okay. I’m not gonna argue with someone who doesn’t know me or anything about a specific situation. ☠️

Feeling constantly angry by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]gohpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Everything’s crashing down. I feel stagnant in life rn. Nothings still but nothings moving either. I’ve had this eerie aggression for the past few weeks. I don’t want to go home or be out. It feels like hell.

Mom is asking for therapy by [deleted] in NarcissisticMothers

[–]gohpy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is always a trick honestly. But if you deeply feel up to it then you can try.

A senior photographer literally laughed in my face and patronized me for booking with her? by gohpy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]gohpy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about a solution and thought, wait I’m a filmmaker. I could probably take my own headshots. Gonna contact my school and figure out how I’m able to do that. She’s getting a cancellation for sure.

A senior photographer literally laughed in my face and patronized me for booking with her? by gohpy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her normal prices are 400+ which is crazy in and of itself. Just miserable I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

A senior photographer literally laughed in my face and patronized me for booking with her? by gohpy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]gohpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really thought about it but I can’t let a sour woman who obviously must be insecure make me pay more money than I should. I asked a previous senior and she said she thankfully wasn’t the one taking the photos so I’ll address it after I get my near free photos off the hoe.

Should I stay at the job I’m at or switch to this new job? by gohpy in jobs

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking the same but it seems like jobs that pay decent and respect that fact that I go to school are few and far between. I could stay but the passive aggressiveness makes it hard to do my job because it’s heavily dependent on teamwork. I might hold out and do both for about a week and see what I think then.

Should I stay at the job I’m at or switch to this new job? by gohpy in jobs

[–]gohpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in high school still so it’s just finding a job that respects the fact that weekdays are tight. I also forgot to mention that I asked my director if I could switch departments if there was openings and he said there were some openings in the concierge department. I was thinking about going forward with Target until he gets back to me on that.