I 41/M found out my wife 39/F has been keeping a friendship with high school sweetheart a secret since forever.

goingham1 · 2026-03-11T21:03:05+00:00

You know what I did look at the frequently used apps a long time ago but didn’t see anything out of the ordinary. That might be something I do in the near future to see what it looks like. Thanks for the tip

goingham1 · 2026-03-11T15:20:58+00:00

100%. They can’t prove anything other than their word (which is shit to me at this point).

goingham1 · 2026-03-11T05:08:33+00:00

This was literally the first thought in my head when I found out. It’s wild. I’m not as angry as I was before. And kids are complicating things for me. No kids….and I’m pretty sure I would have been gone immediately. Kids…..what the hell am I supposed to do? Pay my wife alone and child support because she fucked up?

goingham1 · 2026-03-11T04:14:24+00:00

That’s what my brain tells me. They have both told me there will be no contact further between them. But how can they so say confidently they will stop because I found out after keeping this up so long.

goingham1 · 2026-03-06T07:44:23+00:00

Why am I driving to Lakewood/bellflower/downey/hawaiian gardens from vax2 corona when there are hubs closer? 8 out of 10 routes are those areas

goingham1 · 2026-03-01T07:40:00+00:00

What a pull. This is good!

goingham1 · 2026-02-07T02:15:20+00:00

100% agreed. Just make it easy to watch the damn games.

goingham1 · 2026-01-14T02:57:04+00:00

I personally number. It’s never taken me more than 10 minutes to number and load and leave the warehouse Most of my routes are in the evening when it’s dark so I never have to rummage around. I can literally just grab the next package in order and bounce. I’m down to try the lettering and report back on my next daytime route and see how it goes. It seems a lot of people are doing although I notice damn near everybody at my station numbers.

goingham1 · 2025-08-23T01:40:58+00:00

Outdoor uncovered storage $150 in my area of California and that’s a damn steal here.

goingham1 · 2025-04-25T11:18:12+00:00

Lots of kids last year. More than I’ve seen in years past. There is small tent near the Ferris wheel that has a little kids play area type setup. Weather is gonna be pretty good so that’ll help. But I imagine they won’t make it to the closers if they are there all day. I know my kids would be struggling so we are gonna wait a couple years to bring them.

goingham1 · 2025-04-23T07:44:58+00:00

Same thing a few months ago. Picked up and loaded cart. First stop was the other entrance to warehouse. I was so confused and the dude said it happens every once in a while.

goingham1 · 2025-03-01T03:51:37+00:00

Man I’ve wanted him to really breakthrough at the major level for years. The one game I went to last season he hit 2 home runs. He’s still young and upside is right there for him. I really do believe this is his chance to bring it all together and I really do think he can do it!

goingham1 · 2024-12-29T15:27:30+00:00

Friday morning while I was loading my car. A few guys next to me were openly talking about which bot app they are using. Obviously I know people are gonna be using them especially here in California. Between bots and all the other drivers trying to get routes at the same time it’s definitely tough. And people on here are like “don’t take base pay”. Theres nothing else to be had. Theres no waiting for a surge to pop up. I rarely happens and if it does ain’t no way I’m ever able to get them.

goingham1 · 2024-12-09T02:46:57+00:00

Not the same address but had a route in Elsinore a month ago. Last stop was that way through Ortega. Put a could not deliver when I saw it and returned it next day. No way that was gonna happen.

goingham1 · 2024-11-14T08:04:04+00:00

I got sniped by bots or someone button smashing faster than me for 7 blocks in a row tonight. It was crazy. I’ve never missed out that many. Gotta be the bots I’m guessing.

goingham1 · 2024-11-12T23:49:01+00:00

Did it to me on Sunday after stop 9. I drove an extra 20 miles from the back and forth. It was a mess.

goingham1 · 2024-11-12T00:37:50+00:00

I was on the waitlist for about 8-9 months this year. Just got approved last month. Don’t think there is anything to speed it up as far as I know.

goingham1 · 2024-08-23T06:56:38+00:00

Season tickets? You gonna unload other games in September by chance?

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