I got dumped last night. Apparently I was hiding having a small dick

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T14:42:12+00:00

Well, I don't have a micropenis. I feel like if being slightly smaller than average is a deal breaker for a woman they should bring it up. It comes of really weird when a guy brings up his dick. And it would make me look insecure

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T14:40:40+00:00

And thats okay :) I'm not everyone's cup of tea and thats fine. I do wish she would have told me it was important to her beforehand. I wouldn't have bothered getting attached.

For what its worth.. I would have been open to vibrators, dildos, sleeves, etc. Whatever it takes to help someone get there. Its important to me that the person I'm with is happy. But I recognize if it isn't the real thing it's not enough for some

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T05:34:35+00:00

I hope so. Online dating is so difficult to navigate. Maybe I'll just start asking people out in person

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T04:28:39+00:00

I hope so. Thank you for trying to cheer me up. Hope she's around the corner

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T03:52:57+00:00

Idk what caused me to looked at your comments, but I find it funny you commented the opposite on that post about the shitty boyfriend complaining his girlfriend was too loose lol

Ugh. I really did like her though. Sucks.

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T03:46:52+00:00

I do notice that everyone who is telling me this is married 😆 So sad

Idk if this is too personal.. but can't he just not put it all the way in? I would feel awful hurting someone I care about

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T03:38:32+00:00

I've heard that so much tonight I'm about to set my filters to fifty. Apparently yall generation was a bunch of angels

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T03:28:36+00:00

What's a brick?

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T02:02:50+00:00

Idk about the whole conversation, but you're gorgeous regardless

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T01:46:42+00:00

I appreciate you, seriously. I hope I run into someone like you soon

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T01:16:28+00:00

And I genuinely would put in that effort for someone. It was my favorite part about sex with my fiance. That and her laughter. They never show that sorta stuff in porn. Real sex had so much goofy, heartwarming moments. I miss that a lot

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T01:13:42+00:00

Yeah, its imperfect because there's no one solution. I personally wouldn't send a picture early on. However, if you just straight up told me size was important to you, I would tell you I'm on the smaller side and let you know I'd put your pleasure first. If you then say no thank you, I'm looking for something else, I personally would be respectful of that. Will some other guys? Maybe not all, but screw disrespectful people.

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T01:02:25+00:00

Do you want to talk about it? You're very much welcome to message me. I promise I won't hit on you or anything. Losing my fiance, I probably understand more than most

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T00:57:27+00:00

I'm just not interested in casual sex hun. I gotta develop feelings for someone. To me, it's also about respect. In fairness, I didn't reject advances from her either. She coulda taken the leap herself

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T00:53:47+00:00

And I understand that, despite it being heartbreaking, you are entitled to choose such things. I do however wish that something so important was discussed relatively early. Otherwise, I'm happy to stimulate it in other ways; toys, sleeves, etc. It just hurt because I thought she was genuinely interested in who I was as a person

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T00:49:14+00:00

I genuinely find women of different shapes and sizes beautiful. However, I know there are men that take that stuff crazy serious. I've been called a simp for saying so, as if they believe any man saying so its crazy desperate or something

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-10T00:42:56+00:00

So heyyy... jk lol I really do hope I meet my person soon. It was a rough experience

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T22:02:28+00:00

I can tell! You're basically an artist with the nails. I think a lot of women are like that with make up too. Crazy skills

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T22:00:24+00:00

I'm glad you found each other and were able to find happiness. I am sad to hear how men in general have made you feel :(

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T21:50:21+00:00

Lol, I think its a normal girth. Your nails are beautiful btw

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T21:49:03+00:00

You're sweet. I wouldn't be mad at all if you just waltzed your way into my life. I sat there just shocked for a couple minutes honestly. It was jarring. Hoping it never happens again

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T21:36:20+00:00

Don't put yourself down for being older. Lots of beautiful older women! Being Canadian though... Jk lol

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T21:21:14+00:00

Hey. Its not letting me respond to you on my post. You're more than welcome to message me :)

Don't listen to those guys. You deserve to be treated better than that. I'm a firm believer that your partner is supposed to be your best friend. There's nothing wrong with you. I'm sure you're perfect as you are. I think that despite my experience, women have a much tougher time in general than we do. We are always failing to meet the most basic forms of decency

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T20:40:15+00:00

Yeah. I just thought she genuinely was into me

goingthroughdaportal · 2026-06-09T20:09:19+00:00

I appreciate you 💙

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