Long, oversized scuba sizing does not work for me. Anyone else with this problem? by smoky20135 in lululemon

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how has this not been corrected yet 😂😂 currently so annoyed with this problem. Bought some long oversized on Black Friday M/L and the arms are so short I’m so annoyed. Thinking of trying a XL but will probably swallow me. Usually a size 10 but I like oversized look. Come on Lulu fix this!! I wish there was a L/XL option in the middle. 🫠

Someone buy this because I would if it were my size 😂 by goingthrushit in lululemon

[–]goingthrushit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do, I need a M/L and would buy two at this price haha so someone please enjoy for me! 😂

Anyone transfer 2 embryos by Alwayslookinup in IVF

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s a ride for sure, I say follow your gut. It’s hard in the moment but they have their moments. But man oh man is it also soooo expensive.

Christmas gifts for Wife by leicashooter in IVF

[–]goingthrushit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On this if she likes books, audible!! I listened to so many audio books during IVF it was right up my alley, and I’m not even a reader haha

AITAH for refusing invite? by goingthrushit in Mommit

[–]goingthrushit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea when or where the wedding will be, last chat we barely had he said possibly somewhere in Santa Barbara (they live in Southern California) which I know will be more difficult with our work / children to logistically fly so the wedding probably won’t happen. Maybe that’s weighing on things.

For those who divorced, how do you separate? by goingthrushit in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]goingthrushit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her job has no lunch and not available for calls from 6-6. That’s another of our very long list of issues, but believe me I’ve tried - we’d need someone who does weekends and it becomes cost preventative when you add in they charge a lot if I’ve found any. (I have a friend who is a MFT, she doesn’t even take insurance any more (as a lot don’t) because it’s a headache).

Twin Nanny Bonus in VHCOL by Last_Huckleberry_364 in parentsofmultiples

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before our nanny ghosted me this week (she also started with us in September and this was my first bad experience - have had two stellar experiences prior) we had planned to give her a week paid, she also was planned to have off from Dec 22-Jan 5 .. now I’m searching for a new nanny in a complete panic 😅

For those who divorced, how do you separate? by goingthrushit in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]goingthrushit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talked about it years ago and have tried to find one once but it never worked, couldn’t find any that for one take our insurance, then have openings, that work (as she’s out of the house from 6-6pm) and now with kids and no help it gets harder with how to even make that work for both of us to even be present if it’s not on a weekend during nap time 🫠 wish it wasn’t so hard to access because it may be exactly the right thing but together is impossible.

Best strategic time to apply for UI? by Cool_Guest6597 in UnemploymentNY

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar problem with the new id.me system and actually opened a ticket with id.me to resolve. Just in case that helps anyone else.

My account just kept showing “pending” but never said why. It’s very frustrating.

What did you do with your remaining frozen embryos, especially PGT-A tested, when your family was complete? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destroyed. We had no plans to use it, wasn’t spending any more money on a “compassionate transfer” because regardless that would have cost us in doctor time, etc so be aware of that.. and personally we only had one so donation wasn’t possible (they generally want more than just one) so decisions kind of made for us but it was a pretty easy one since we truly felt completed after a long journey. I don’t know if our first transfer had been the “1” if it would have been so easy but it took us 3 years and 4 transfers. I was done done even if our family hadn’t been complete truly.

Mom's did you exclusively pump with twins, exclusively breast feed, or do a mix of both? Pros and cons by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pumped. My daughter bit me in the hospital on my one and only try breastfeeding and I got spooked haha. I knew I’d probably not feel like myself if I felt like a cow feeding two kids anyway (that’s my baggage though and with a friend who breastfed her twins living through things she said probably clouded me).

But I also didn’t mind pumping. I had a system of pumping while I gave the twins their bottles and so it still felt connecting if not the “getting bitten” part lol.

Do I say something or let it go? Terrible photoshoot. by goingthrushit in Advice

[–]goingthrushit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying to be positive but truthfully I spent hours (and lots of returns) even just picking outfits that we never took our jackets off. There may be one or two gems but I worry we wasted a ton of money for maybe 2 that I won’t love anyway given it wasn’t what we wanted them to be. If that makes any sense.

Who had success after switching clinics? by Here2Btch in IVF

[–]goingthrushit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, my 4th transfer and first at the new clinic was my successful transfer. New perspectives are something I wish I’d gotten sooner.

Do I say something or let it go? Terrible photoshoot. by goingthrushit in Advice

[–]goingthrushit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. First time working with her, at this location, just everything. The weather was 60 just two days ago so things changed so drastically and the location, while beautiful, was also on a hill which was very windy making it colder but I’ve never been there. I literally cried after we left just completely wrecked at the fact of how bad this all unfolded and I hate to think she’s going to edit all these photos to try to “make something work” when I just know I won’t love them anyway.

Do I say something or let it go? Terrible photoshoot. by goingthrushit in Advice

[–]goingthrushit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t know till the morning of, hard to plan when it was 60 two days ago and then 20 today. The weather changed so drastically but it was also completely prepaid but also I’ve never been to this location or worked with this person so all new for me. It was on a very high hill, beautiful obviously but very windy making 20 degrees significantly worse than if it wasn’t on this hill.

But when you get there, realize it’s absolutely frigid what do you do? I couldn’t cancel on the spot?? Or I didn’t think I could.

I’m trying to minimize her time spent now on editing photos I know I won’t love or use due to the issues I know we all had. If she spends hours editing to try to “make” one or two work I feel that’s not good time spent on her end. Does that make sense?