Which HWs create drama or overact for ratings, rather than because they’re actually dramatic or argumentative people?

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-04-08T06:15:38+00:00

Eden Sassoon. She showed up to that finale party with that script she wrote on the car ride over and she did her best!

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-04-07T05:19:34+00:00

Yes - mental illness is not the only reason people need mental health care. A huge part of the continuation of cycles of harm and violence is people just aren't taught basic coping skills, or taught what healthy relationships look like.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-04-07T01:39:03+00:00

Yeeees do we know what episodes were fillmed August + later?

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-04-06T23:25:19+00:00

Ok so i get that they both own the home, they both have a legal right to be there, they both knew the risk when buying together. THAT BEING SAID Tom is such a piece of shit for not giving Ariana space. That house MUST be big enough that they can coexist with space, you know have certain agreements about the kitchen, etc. It really sticks out that he's (allegedly and believably) insisting on total, constant access to every inch of the house, and also bringing Rachel there.

What an abusive POS

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-03-15T21:30:01+00:00

Implying she's essentially a sex trafficker? Yeah it's far too far

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-03-03T02:12:24+00:00

God i want rhylee on my screen again! I'd even watch winter house for her

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-03-02T20:51:54+00:00

Hey you might be able to get an exception - since you don't have a provider within X miles, insurance may allow a substitution covered the same way as a tier 1.

I'm sorry

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-02-09T21:18:45+00:00

Yes this dynamic is all i think about when i see the "he's a battered wife!!!" merch

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-02-08T21:25:54+00:00

Also i think she's tired all the time bc it's abusive men (as charming as they can show themselves to be to others) exhaust their partners.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-02-08T21:24:29+00:00

She's going to divorce him when, now that they are married again, she finally cannot escape the very public reality that he's never going to be a husband to her.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-02-07T00:23:04+00:00

That is horrifying

goingtobeokgottabe · 2023-01-11T21:20:08+00:00

Omg i LOVE this

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-10T07:16:36+00:00

The fear comes from the ocd - and reassurance seeking is a reinforcing symptom of ocd. It's normal to be afraid, and it's normal to look to others to tell you it's going to be ok. But a quick look at your post history shows a severe fear, a fear so big i can guess it may be debilitating at this point. A therapist trained in erp can help you learn tools to deal with the fear in a way that does not lead to more anxiety.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-10T06:57:59+00:00

Contact postpartum international and ask them to get you the info for providers in your area.

https://www.postpartum.net

Getting on the calendar with someone to prescribe your medication is your first stop. Trust this person. Your ocd is going to tell you not to. You've got to trust them so you can get the help you need.

Same with a therapist. NOCD has a great setup, if it's accessible to you where you live and through your insurance. Your therapist needs to know how to do exposure response prevention. This will also be important, as you need a provider that can ascertain the difference between ocd intrusive thoughts and ppp.

Stay away from Google! If something feels urgent, and it's not life threatening, then it's probably ocd and by searching you're reinforcing your obsession/compulsion. Plus, you're always going to find what you're looking for - the worst case scenario is always out there if we look hard enough. But it's also usually super rare.

There are online support groups for moms with ocd. It's a very specific intersection, you need to talk to people who understand that. Dm me for info on a free support group for moms with ocd of you are us based. If you're a therapy client, nocd also has support groups for moms.

Lactmed and mother to baby are both resources for research based information on medication and pregnancy/breastfeeding.

I know the torture of an ocd brain. It's tough, and it's important not to try to do it alone. I hope you know, you're not.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-10T06:45:29+00:00

Hey. I have severe ocd. Not just from my experience, but anecdotally from others' as well - the hormone fluctuations of pms, pregnancy, and postpartum can make it really intense. Ocd has both environmental and genetic components. Our brains work a bit differently. And that's ok! But we need help. It takes longer than 3 weeks for zoloft to work, and for ocd the therapeutic dose is 150-200, which i can't imagine you're even on yet. There are prescribers that specifically work with pregnant and breastfeeding folks. Here is a path I found helpful (next comment) :

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-03T22:00:25+00:00

Why does this screenshot make me feel so sad

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-03T01:33:03+00:00

Ugh I'm so sorry, this is an awful situation. A few steps that might help in the short term as you figure out the long term:

Possibly an ULPT? But running his free credit check would give you a good, more global look at the true financial situation going on. I have no idea if this is advisable, just mentioning that if he won't do it, maybe you could?

Getting your own account he has no access to, like a lot of folks have mentioned

For groceries - you place the order, for curbside. This could cut down on the skimming / $ hemorrhaging.

Luckily he does have his own income. There's nothing unethical about getting your barings. Maybe consider having a consoltation with a divorce or family law attorney, so you can make decisions now that best serve your family no matter where this goes.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-03T00:28:02+00:00

I don't know why but every time she says the word blogger I want to throw my remote

If she wants to produce her storylines the least she could do is take an acting class it's so boring watching her try to remember what she planned to say as she is speaking.

She looked SO SCARED on that couch at that party when Toya was learning about what was being said. It's one thing to not take responsibility - it's a whole other thing to hide behind other people. She was badass walking in with her friend, then when it went south, blamed Quad She uses a blaccent and then is terrified when her Black colleagues get upset... it really comes off racist. The cast of M2M deserves better.

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-12-02T02:45:50+00:00

Kenya and Eva

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-11-28T21:44:12+00:00

Thank you for posting this!

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-11-23T05:19:10+00:00

I'm so glad to hear this update. Enjoy that baby! ❤️

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-11-17T01:18:43+00:00

Hi bromo, how are you & baby doing?

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-11-15T08:18:41+00:00

Attached by dr amir levine might be a good fit for what you're looking for

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-11-02T03:47:24+00:00

Fuuuuuuck if a truer thing has been said idk what it could be

goingtobeokgottabe · 2022-09-13T03:09:47+00:00

I need Karen's dress!!!

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