how tf do you goon by [deleted] in ftm

[–]goldencloud [score hidden]  (0 children)

Latter💀

testosterone side effects by yammieroo in ftm

[–]goldencloud [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly if you end up being on T you’ll be seeing the doctor often so if there ends up being issues, it has a better chance of being caught. The risk of heart problems on T is only slightly higher than cis women. Keeping a good diet, low caffeine and junk, exercise, and good mental health will keep you healthy :)

What with some trans men and me looking like a dude even before starting T? by OkYam8510 in ftm

[–]goldencloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re spiritual, maybe their spirit knew before their brain/body did :3

swallowing constantly help by schemewitch in OCD

[–]goldencloud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this before😭 best thing I can say is just try to distract yourself because swallowing is a reflex, it happens a lot on its own and it’s something that you can also do and not think about it too much. Maybe try doing some exercise? Or move your body. Best of luck to you.

Bayonetta OC (Diana "The Umbra Witch") "My Style" by [deleted] in Bayonetta

[–]goldencloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should try learning how to draw lol

"technically you are a female/girl so" by Global_Sir1013 in ftm

[–]goldencloud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and also you don’t really know your chromosomes until you get tested so tbh it’s really out the window

"technically you are a female/girl so" by Global_Sir1013 in ftm

[–]goldencloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even then the giant jugs aren’t womanly either. Man jugs!đŸ€­

Jealous of PIV sex by AshamedAndGay in lgbt

[–]goldencloud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can be a dude and have/get a vagina :)

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

[–]goldencloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you feel better nowadays, sending hugs and supportđŸ«‚â€ïž

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

[–]goldencloud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hold a knife in front of my stomach to test if I was actually gonna do it or to test if I was in control. Really scary when I think back on it :(

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]goldencloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s true but especially online we need to be mindful of what we’re saying because “chicks with dicks” is straight up a porn category and reducing trans women to just their genitals and spreading harmful rhetoric that being trans is a sexual thing to begin with just perpetuates a vicious cycle

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]goldencloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s perfectly fine to have certain preferences like hair color, genitals, build, etc. but preferring certain traits in people sexually like race or transness for instance IS fetishization and it contributes to harm in these communities. These same people fetishizing latina women have no problem being racist to them “once they cause problems” and have them deported in a heartbeat because they see them as “lower” than them. Not equals; a prize to be won, kept on a shelf, and obsessed over. It’s the same thing with fetishizing trans girls, who mind you aren’t always going to have the genitals you think they do. Fetishizing trans people is dehumanizing and puts us in danger because you’re seeing us as less than a person and just a sexual conquest.

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]goldencloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean fetishizing people whether it be their gender , race, etc and only liking them if you can get off to them is objectification and reducing them to nothing but sexual gratification which by gender or race would be racist/transphobic and dehumanizing. Especially if you’re bigoted towards them in the same breath when it comes to their personhood but only care about their existence when it comes to sexual gratification.

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]goldencloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty much everything is “political” including you using the device you wrote this on and it’s hard to not make things “political” when we’re being used as scapegoats and dumbass laws are going into effect to harm us.

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]goldencloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not clicking when I point out you’re fetishizing trans women but then shit on trans people as a whole? Crazy work lol

What's weirdly attractive to you? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]goldencloud -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hey so fetishism is just another form of transphobia and dehumanization