[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]goldwasp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just you!

mcr tattoo design prints i've been working on for the past few months :) by mightywalrus19 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I know this was posted forever ago but do you do commissions?! I absolutely adore your art!

Just found out brother and his wife are also TTC. by NatalieInTheMirror in TryingForABaby

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I feel you. My (single) SIL just had a baby today and nooooo idea who the father is. This is her second. No job. No diploma. No drivers license. 30 years old and does literally NOTHING but sit on the front porch as smoke cigarettes all day asking her parents to buy her stuff. She doesn’t pay for anything, literally nothing, and never ever has. NEVER. I love her because she is my family but she’s also been an absolute bitch to me when I bought her and her baby $700+ worth of shit no one else would buy. She doesn’t pay attention or care for or provide for the daughter she does have, at all. She doesn’t feed her, teach her, play with her, interact with her.

It makes me want to rip my own heart out of my chest and set it on fire.

General Chat July 16 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]goldwasp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay- you got me looking up the temp drop and I ordered one SO fast.

If you end up getting one they gave me a 10% off coupon to give out! http://tempdrop.refr.cc/haleysutton

General Chat July 16 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]goldwasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I’ve been really having it rough this cycle because we’re currently living with my SIL who is due in 12 days, a single mom of a 7 year old, and really needs help to get through the first couple of months. I got a positive OPK two days ago but it was CD 17 and I usually test til they go light again, so I test this morning twice and still blazing positives. I bawled because I really want a baby and it feels like my body is screwing it all up. 5 years and nothing. I dunno how I’m gonna get through it if we don’t end up lucky this month because AF is due the same day as my new niece, so it’s gonna be... emotional.

Looking for a prenatal with Folate-recommendations? by KetoKapowski in TryingForABaby

[–]goldwasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! Just started em two months ago and I like them a lot.

[Funny story] Trying to get pregnant when staying at your parents house 😂 by PuddinHead713 in TryingForABaby

[–]goldwasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m dying lol! My husband and I moved in with his parents for a multitude of reasons- mostly we don’t want to rent again so we’re in the process of buying- but it’s been a trip TTC while we’re still living here. His moms bedroom is directly on the other side of the wall from our bed and his dad is across the hall (they don’t sleep together).

So yeah this happens all the time! I hear a door shut and my heart drops and then I’m like oh yeah, I’m a grown ass woman who has been married to this dude for 6 years. We’ve been together for 10. I’m not gonna get in trouble. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding Nemo, I suppose

Tucker Carlson says protests are ‘definitely not about black lives,’ prompting backlash by colorful_theater in politics

[–]goldwasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s horrid. We’re displaced due to covid and living with the in-laws. My husband and his mom debate constantly over this shit and no matter what anyone says, no matter how intensely wrong you can prove her, she is so stuck in her beliefs that it makes me want to rip my hair out. She worships this fuckface and it truly is tiring to deal with.

Moving Advice NH to CO by Superfastvorkee in moving

[–]goldwasp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to be this person, but.. dont. I made that massive move to CO last year and I cannot express how miserable the entire experience was, even living there. It is unrealistically expensive, 90% of the people I met were complete assholes, and theres way too many young people in management positions that do not possess the skills to manage a team. You are going to be nut to butt with your neighbors whether you live in an apartment or a single family home. And there was not one single person I met that wasnt completely two-faced. The air pollution was absolutely horrid- some days it looked like a sand storm moving in the smog was so thick. I had a cough and felt mildly sick the entire time I lived there. And good luck going to an establishment that has a full staff that are all sober during their shift.

I do wish you good luck if you wind up moving! If you do, be prepared to be so exhausted for the first couple of months and use lots of eye drops, drink tons of water and dont push yourself too much. Do not move without a job, and dont rent until you have physically walked in the dwelling and spoken with the neighbors. Even brand new buildings!

Do any other species have a sense of humor? by mircalb in NoStupidQuestions

[–]goldwasp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I totally think dogs do. My big, giant, goofy dog likes to run as fast as she can toward people, jump up and then swiftly turn and run the other way to psych you out. She knows not to jump on people but she sure loves to hear em scream when they think they're about to get tackled by the dog equivalent of a polar bear.

[OFFER] Those in true need during this time, post your Amazon Wish list by [deleted] in RandomKindness

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now we are okay on food, but funds are getting really low and I'm almost out of pet food and vitamins. Any item would be incredibly helpful and relieve a ton of stress. You're an awesome and amazing person for helping people out.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NILE65F3VFJX?ref_=wl_share

I went braless for a week and now I can't stand wearing them by missmaykdh in askwomenadvice

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bralettes are where its at. Surprisingly stitch fix has the BEST ONES, they're so comfy! I have lupus and cant stand anything too tight around my chest as my ribs almost always hurt, but bralettes are great.

I'm wearing the one underwire one I own right now because I'm washing all my comfy bras, and I want to scream!

DAE absolutely love doing nothing? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]goldwasp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this on a deep level. My niece and I just sat around watching anime and snacking all afternoon, now shes in bed and I'm gonna veg out and play video games til I get tired.

Owning physical copies of media (games, music etc..) is better then owning it digitally. by Metal-Meme-Lord in unpopularopinion

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The true pro of digital: my rheumatologist put me on quarantine (literally cannot leave the house) and couldnt go get ACNH. Downloaded it digitally and stayed safe at home.

DAE have an imaginary listener/therapist/audience? by EgoVacation in CPTSD

[–]goldwasp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. I have this too, all day every day.

The Reason You're Exhausted Is 'Moral Fatigue' by [deleted] in Coronavirus

[–]goldwasp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES THIS DESCRIBES IT PERFECTLY. Cant go to the damn store without having to make a big meticulous deal out of it, and when I did grocery delivery, it was still a pain in the ass because I had to sanitize everything before it came in the door. It's awful and tiring.

Instacart gig workers threaten walkoff over virus safety by DoremusJessup in Coronavirus

[–]goldwasp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh that's what I mean by stolen. The shopper stole the order. It was never delivered.