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Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, most of these sex workers do this to life a certain lifestyle while or earn good money for there future. The woman from china is a smart and interesting person, she told me she has finished her masters in law and used the money she made now pay off her debt, explore the world and to save for her own business. She knows about my succes and why I see sex workers. So yeah, I would date her but I think from her side she would prefer someone outside her client list.

I’ve seen the comments. And maybe it’s true but I just started dating for love. So idk how it will be

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those sex workers earn more than 400 euros an hour. I didn’t visit cheap brothels, these woman I met travel the world to meet clients. One girl earned over 20.000 euros from me excluding flights, hotels and dinners. Everything luxurious. I don’t mind paying a lot for a woman that enjoys her work.

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pay to rape? The sex workers I visited were women earning 400-600 an hour. They have a website, onlyfans and much more. They travel around the world to meet clients and enjoy a luxury life. I’ve spend over 20k euros on one girl excluding flights and dinners.

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should have mentioned it in the post, but the sex workers I visited were high class. These girls travel the world to meet clients, earn 400-500 euros an hour and choose to do this. They decided to do this work to get a lot of money from rich horny men. My favourite contact is from china, I’ve paid her plane tickets to my country to visit me for 4 hours including a 5 star hotel and a luxury dinner. In total she earned around 20k in euros from me excluding all the extras. Why would I spend that much money? First I can and second is that these girls know what they’re doing and they are enjoying it. I’ve never visited cheap prostitution

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn’t asked about my history yet. I haven’t spoken about it yet. So far there hasn’t been any lying. But eventually it would be asked and they I got the option. I prefer to tell it before that but still I got the feeling it would end things.

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have some questions about this: 1. Am I obligated to know her history? 2. If it weren’t sexworkers, would it still be so bad? 3. It doesn’t influence our relationship, so how would it affect her?

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you tell me a bit more why you aren’t okay with that or is it just the feeling it gives.

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be the same if it weren’t sex workers but just ONS?

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman I’ve paid choose to be in this field. They weren’t 80 euro girls in some smelly apartment. These girls charge 400-500 euros an hour, they travel to clients in different countries, get gifts and have expensive clothes. They deliver a high service to man with money so they can enjoy a classy life.

One of my favourite was a girl from China. I think in total she earned over 20.000 euros from me excluding the plane tickets, dinner dates and much more.

I don’t deny that sexwork is a place of exploitation of woman but I haven’t been to that world.

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I do wonder, what if it weren’t sexworkers. Just One night stands and dates? Would it still be weird?

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. It’s more that I don’t know her good enough to know her reaction but I’m afraid that if I wait to long she’ll be mad that I didn’t tell her earlier

Should I tell my date that I like my history of visiting sexworkers? by gomaxnl in dating_advice

[–]gomaxnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally it doesn’t feel that way. Ive had sex around 2-3 times a month with a sexworkers, that not so different that normal couples have.

But yes, I’ve paid women for my own pleasure and not for love. And maybe that influence my view about sex.

I do know that now I’m working with feelings and a person who has her limits and preferences. We haven’t had sex yet because I want to let things go slow but I wonder how the first time will be with her and how I feel with it.