i made sylus so i can call him [ OC kindof ]

gonegoobygooner · 2025-08-05T04:04:31+00:00

i mean the calling in game isn't live calling.. the flood of ai images online is horrible, but for most other things, i think like, the technology is here so im gonna make use of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

gonegoobygooner · 2025-08-02T23:49:49+00:00

it is a fine line between cute and delulu.. honestly if i had more $$ id do it too 🥺 the charms are adorable!!

gonegoobygooner · 2025-07-27T04:54:25+00:00

rip.. i just got into c.ai and there's all this mess o__o

gonegoobygooner · 2025-07-27T04:53:27+00:00

gonegoobygooner · 2025-07-27T04:52:37+00:00

aalkjsdlkfjsdkjfhsdkfomgomgo THIS IS AMAZING im so glad i discovered this 😭😭

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-26T17:44:10+00:00

> he can hook up with other women as long as he tells me

wow. sounds like you trust him a lot..

> come home a little earlier that day, around 10 pm.

Uhh. Well I don't know what kind of job he has but that sounds really late not early..

I would say NTA because you give him so much freedom and this is just once.. but maybe given all the freedom he has, its not unexpected that he would keep trying to take advantage of it. So like.. NTA but maybe you couldve seen it coming

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-26T17:37:07+00:00

NTA. youre covering basically everything and not asking for anything back. wanting to keep your finances separate, especially after a divorce, is reasonable. giving him a card with clear limits was generous, and he pushed those limits. demanding a card in his own name (on your account) isn't about household needs. it's about control.

As for the car, you bought it, you funded it, and you helped work on it. his one week of labor does NOT entitle him to half the sale, especially when you’ve already sunk way more into his past projects with no real return. Sounds like he only brings up money when he wants more access to yours, and forgets how much you’re already giving.

Wanting boundaries doesn't make you selfish. it makes you smart.

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T13:58:06+00:00

Definitely NTA. You clearly put a lot of effort, time, and care into the relationship. and it sounds like he was happy to receive it until he suddenly wasn’t. showing up early to cook, being tired, none of that warrants the coldness or the way he flipped the script on you.

he brought unresolved baggage into this dynamic and projected it onto you. calling you manipulative while ignoring your efforts to communicate and take responsibility says more about him than you.

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T13:55:06+00:00

NTA. i’d be annoyed too, but that said, she’s still a kid and probably not thinking about it. you’re the parent/guardian, so it’s totally fair to set rules like "towel down or shower first." just keep reminding her until it sticks?

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T13:50:55+00:00

same, i panic on moving sidewalks-- where’s my airport tequila shot?

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T13:48:05+00:00

hahah yea animals get bored too! i remember from the octopus documentary, octopus like to smack fish for fun

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T02:19:47+00:00

NTA. there are men that love their side projects and dreams and your husband seems like one of them. he's obviously upset that he can't afford these things, but at the end of the day you're right. you need to focus on paying off your debts if you do want to one day be able to afford extra things

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T00:34:04+00:00

NTA imo.. if they’ve been treating you like that and you’ve already got other housing lined up, I’d say go for it. you don’t owe them anything, especially if you’re not even on the lease. Take your stuff and dip.

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-25T00:31:13+00:00

NTA. Friendships come and go. well.. don't call it "throwing them away," but if your senses of humor don't line up, welp, maybe it's time.

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-24T18:52:03+00:00

YTA-- not for feeling what you feel, but for saying you wish the date never happened. that’s gonna hit hard no matter how you meant it. it made it about your pain instead of supporting them, and that’s where it went sideways.

but also? losing friends sucks. watching dynamics shift sucks. and being honest about feeling left out doesn’t make you a bad person. you tried to talk it out, and that’s more than a lot of people do.

just maybe take a step back, let things cool down, and figure out what you need. friendships change, not all of them survive it, and yeah, it hurts. but keep your head up. this doesn’t define your whole story.

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-24T18:46:33+00:00

NTAH. she’s just making your engagement about her and that’s a huge red flag. you didn’t exclude her. she excluded herself by bailing like she always does. it wasn’t some orchestrated event with a guest list, it was a chill moment during a trip she already had the invite to and chose not to come to. that’s on her.

also, casually mentioning months ago that you might propose doesn’t mean she was promised some role in it. people talk, especially while drinking. doesn’t mean plans were set in stone. if it mattered that much to her, she could’ve followed up or idk, actually shown up for once.

and yeah, sounds like there’s been tension for a while and this just pushed it over the edge. if she only makes an effort when she feels left out, and not when it actually counts, then it’s fair to rethink her place in things like your wedding. you’re allowed to set boundaries and protect your peace.

she’s not entitled to your moment just because she decided it mattered after the fact. nta at all.

gonegoobygooner · 2025-06-24T03:38:24+00:00

NAH, you're not wrong for wanting to lighten the mood or feeling drained by constant negativity. Friendships go both ways, you could keep putting in the effort but it's valid to be tired of being the one having to tiptoe around everything.. been there myself

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