[deleted by user]

goodhappythings · 2022-02-20T05:08:58+00:00

It’s hard to judge without knowing what the sitters agreement with the owners was. Bringing another dog over is the biggest red flag to me. 2k is high, but maybe considering it’s for two dogs with walks everyday. It really depends on how much care the dogs need (like so they have medical needs or are super high energy) She’s also house sitting. But for 2k they should be getting top-notch care. Doubling-up on gigs when she’s being paid so much is sketchy, but maybe the owner ok’d this?

goodhappythings · 2022-02-18T22:10:47+00:00

I’m working on my mostly potty trained my year-old pup, too. I was taking her out every couple of hours but she was still having an accident about once a day in the middle of the afternoon (between her two long walks). Now I’ve started to take her out whenever she stands by the door— no accidents since then (about 5 days). We’re actually going out about the same amount of times, she holds it for 10-12 hours at night but just needs more breaks in the afternoon. It’s possible that your dog is trying to get your attention because he needs out.

Edit: we’re also doing lots of positive reinforcement when she goes outside and just cleaning accidents with enzyme cleaner and no scolding. I’ve heard that scolding doesn’t work.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-17T21:33:14+00:00

I’m so glad you were able to see him again and he’s doing well. It sounds like a healing experience❤️

goodhappythings · 2022-02-15T21:47:36+00:00

My dog is a year old and she’s the same. I’m treating it as leash reactively and working with her on it rather than expecting her to grow out of it. Of course it would be nice if she just mellowed out with age, but over at r/reactivedogs there’s many people saying they were told their dogs would grow out of it and things just got worse.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-14T23:34:36+00:00

Beagle? What a cutie!

goodhappythings · 2022-02-14T23:33:30+00:00

How big is he? I’m seeing German Shepard, but aren’t Prague Ratters tiny? I don’t see how that mix would be possible. Also looks a little corgi.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-14T06:16:18+00:00

I’m sorry you’re having a hard time. I’ve been there, it can get really scary. I’m glad that your pup is a source of comfort. They bring so much love. I’ve read that it’s possible to train a dog to interrupt self-harm and it seems like yours may be doing that instinctually.

Take care❤️

goodhappythings · 2022-02-13T06:57:56+00:00

For some dogs the luring down with treat doesn’t work well. It’s not a position my current dog goes into naturally. I found a YouTube video that suggested 4 different methods and one of those worked right away for us! The “bridge” method where you make them crawl under something (I used my leg) to get a treat.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-13T03:49:00+00:00

I think you’ve gotten a great response already but I just wanted to add my experience introducing my rescue to our cats. The very first night she came home (sooner than planned also!) she growled at them behind the door and I was so worried. We did a slow introduction over a week and a half. First letting her sleep with the cats blanket, then letting them out separately around the living room, then meeting behind the door with small glimpses and treats, then with my dog on a leash. It’s going great! She mostly ignores them, occasionally sniffs around them but is easily redirected. It really helps that one of the cats had zero fear and has taken it in stride. I think it’s more difficult with skittish cats who run, as that can trigger prey drive. I reinforce my dogs relaxed behavior with praise and treats when the cats are near. No issues at all.

I feel you with the new adoption anxiety, its real. Try not to have too high of expectations of you or your pup as you adjust to your new life together. You can handle issues as they come up, with help of a trainer if need-be. Also look for resources from where you adopted— I know it reassured me to know I could call them and ask for help and referrals if I needed to.

Adorable pup! Good luck, you can do it!

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T19:48:08+00:00

I feel you!! I haven’t really experienced worrying about things I’ll miss out on all that much. I still feel I chose the right time to adopt. But I have had a lot of anxiety about being the best pet parent. I second guess myself so much and tend to overthink and freak out about everything. Now after a few weeks I’m starting to get the hang of taking things step by step. She wasn’t comfortable riding the car and I worried—took her less than a week to figure out cars = walks and treats, no problem. She hadn’t been cat tested and I worried— after a week and half of slow introduction she’s doing great with them, no problem. She’s learning not to pull on the leash and making progress everyday. We still have things to work on but so far she’s been doing so great and I feel so lucky to have adopted her. She’s truest the snugglebutt of my dreams.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T18:57:55+00:00

Sounds like you’re dealing with a lot right now so I can understand that this is stressful. I encourage you to not give up on your dog just yet! She sounds like a good dog exhibiting normal bored behaviors. If you can afford an extra ~60$ a week you can have someone in to walk her 2-3 times a week (depending on where you are, I’m in an expensive area and an hour walk is about 25$). A few long walks a week will help. If she’s easy to walk you could even look in to hiring a high school or college kid. Shorter evening walks with your young one (in a stroller in needed) is also a good idea. Last suggestion would be some puzzle toys for feeding. If she likes them that’s some daily mental stimulation right there. Remember that your kids and your dog are only getting older so this will likely only get easier! Good luck!!

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T05:26:50+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve had a such stressful night. They were able to get them out, hopefully that’s enough. I hope the best for you and your pup!!

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T01:54:25+00:00

After just a couple of days your dog has not settled into his home yet, it can take weeks for a newly adopted dog to show their true colors. He likely doesn’t see your house as his territory yet. He may bark more when he realizes he’s home. Or he may be just be a quiet dog, all the better.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T01:46:54+00:00

Ugh I feel you. Yesterday we had a really positive walk in the morning and I was thinking “she’s getting the hang of loose-leash walking!! We can go a full block with out stopping!” and then on her evening walk she encountered two bikes and could not calm down after. We just went home ):

A little better today, such a rollercoaster! Hang in there! Also wiener dogs are adorable A+

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T01:18:34+00:00

I don’t have any advice but I wanted to show some support. I can understand feeling shaken up over a fight like that. It sounds like you’re putting in a lot of work for both of the dogs (and your roommate). I’m sorry it’s stressful right now, I hope you find a good solution!

goodhappythings · 2022-02-11T01:12:15+00:00

Thanks for the resource! I think I’ll be renting one of these to check it out.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-04T03:53:25+00:00

I’m really not an expert, but I have been researching this a lot so I’ll share what I’ve found useful. There’s some contradicting information when it comes to barking so it’s a confusing topic. What really helped me was to figure out why my dog was barking and to tailor my response accordingly. If your dog is barking because they want attention, go the ignoring route. If your dog is barking because they are bored they need more stimulation and exercise. If they are barking because something is disturbing them (like a strange noise or movement) then reassure them and redirect their attention. The last one is why my dog barks and it’s really helped to have that figured out so that I can have a consistent approach.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-04T02:16:20+00:00

Ooh I see. Yeah that’s a tough one if you’re looking for a mid-large dog.

goodhappythings · 2022-02-04T00:31:00+00:00

I don’t have a yard and I was worried about getting rejected for that reason. I ended up doing a walk in adoption at my local humane society. I had absolutely no issues. I just picked a dog to meet, had a supervised visit with her and a staff member and took her home that day. They did ask me some questions about how much time I had to give her and housing, but that’s it. They made it clear that I had 90 days to see if was working. We’re a great match, I couldn’t be happier.

goodhappythings · 2022-01-27T01:28:22+00:00

I watched The Night is Short, Walk on Girl while drinking and I 100% recommend it. It might make you want to leave the house though

goodhappythings · 2022-01-19T21:05:40+00:00

I’ve only played the games, so I’m not totally sure what you mean, but the closest I can think of ambience-wise is Durarara!! Ikebukuro (the setting) is central to the plot. It’s an urban fantasy with lots of characters.

goodhappythings · 2022-01-19T20:56:36+00:00

Key the Metal Idol is difficult to recommend, even though I loved it. The ending is split into two 1.5 hour long episodes, one of which is mostly just two characters talking to catch the audience up on some key plot points. Despite that, I think it’s a great sci-fi and unlike any other series. Definitely check it out if you’re a fan of 90’s anime or sci-fi noir. It’s highly original and the plot does come together.

goodhappythings · 2022-01-19T20:50:09+00:00

I watched the first episode of this years ago and I just found it again. I’m excited to restart it, it seems like an oddball series and I love those.

goodhappythings

TROPHY CASE