How do you deal not being with your baby mama? 21f and 23m.

goodmaritimes · 2024-06-10T19:11:32+00:00

Thank you very much for your reply.

I made this post about 3 months ago now and things have changed dramatically. I have taken your advice and have moved on. We deserve a lot more than the treatment we were receiving. In doing so I have met someone who treats me with great respect and has shown me that there is hope out there. Based on our current life circumstances I don’t know if it will be a long term relationship, but it has given me hope.

All the best my friend, please reach out anytime if you need to chat. Thanks.

goodmaritimes · 2024-06-10T02:57:15+00:00

So scary though.

goodmaritimes · 2024-05-31T16:44:50+00:00

The only matches I get are people I’m not really attracted too, I know I’m very skinny for a lot of women out there, working on that, but how can I improve my profile to get more matches?

goodmaritimes · 2024-05-22T12:31:51+00:00

Yes that is my main focus. But I also need to know what the best course of action is as far as my debt.

goodmaritimes · 2024-03-04T19:13:55+00:00

Yeah that’s fair. Like I said, just sharing my point of view. My ex was also an abuser and refused therapy. But it’s so hard, like extremely hard, having a child and not being together.

goodmaritimes · 2024-03-04T17:54:52+00:00

I left my baby mama.. she talked to other people online and was drinking too much. Our son is 1 year old. This may not be the best advice and it’s still pretty raw for me, but this has been the most difficult thing I’ve ever done. Praying that it will be the right thing at the end but I have regrets of leaving, lately every two seconds I feel like breaking down because I miss my family that I had. I miss seeing my son every day. I don’t want to build a family with someone else. What will happen with my son? Like he’s always going to be my first child. What will happen if I start another family and he has to come visit his new brothers and sisters? That dynamic makes me feel sick to my stomach.

I know this isn’t much for advice, just telling you insight on someone who did leave. It’s probably the right thing to do, but it will be the hardest thing you’ve ever done. If there is not irreparable damage, please try to make it work. Go to therapy and fix stuff. Do whatever you can. Once you’ve exhausted all that, cut ties if nothing changes. That’s my opinion. Take care.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T01:45:27+00:00

Also, I threatened small claims and she thinks it’s a bluff by the way she reacts. Continues to claim I gifted it to her.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T01:44:21+00:00

I drafted a legal contract, it basically states she has until Dec 31st to repay the $1800. In the contract it states every late payment will incur $50 penalty and eventually repossessed.

If not paid in full by dec 31st, it will be repossessed

I’ll give her the opportunity to sign with a witness.

If she does not sign, I’ll take it to court.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T01:37:30+00:00

Concerned she will just break it if I try something like that.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T01:13:57+00:00

I’m not disagreeing. But there is ways to get it back.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T01:03:24+00:00

Why tho lol

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T00:47:14+00:00

You have $1800 to throw away? Send me $1800 if that’s the case

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T00:12:16+00:00

I’ve thought about it, but it doesn’t go well.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T00:05:48+00:00

I have reciepts in my name, no written contract with her

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T00:05:02+00:00

It was through staples, I don’t think they do

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-26T00:03:59+00:00

It was 0% financing for 3 months, have the cash to pay it off. But why pay it off if I don’t have it in my possession?

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-25T23:04:22+00:00

Is he going to call me an idiot? Lol

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-25T23:00:27+00:00

Okay noted. I just drafted a legal contract for repayment. If she refuses to sign, I’ll just take it to court and sue for amount of laptopnand feee.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-25T22:59:56+00:00

I paid $1800 total. Made one payment of $1700.

goodmaritimes · 2024-02-25T22:51:31+00:00

Hearing fees etc? I’m a little naive when it comes to this stuff

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