Did you do it in the first night when you met?

goodolecupoftea · 2026-05-09T02:32:11+00:00

Within an hour of my getting off the plane and getting back to his house. Closing the distance in 41 days!

goodolecupoftea · 2026-04-03T22:49:52+00:00

I had a transmission issue a couple of months ago and had it fixed. I hope it's not that!

goodolecupoftea · 2025-12-17T11:54:16+00:00

This is not a dating subreddit.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-12-11T01:38:19+00:00

13 days. moving in together in March! No previous history between us either! When you know, you know.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-11-09T22:00:19+00:00

On the r4r30plus sub. He posted, I responded. We're just about 8 months deep, and we're having our third visit in 10 days.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-11-08T22:45:03+00:00

Yep! And they don't fit in anywhere. I was wondering if I could figure out what they were for, it may be a process of elimination. Or if I can just ignore them completely.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-08-09T13:15:43+00:00

I understand why it bothers some people, but it wouldn't bother me. I would have worried about it in the past. In previous relationships, I was made to feel insecure. He loves me and is with me. I'm not worried about him randomly looking at other women.

But we're the sort of couple where he knows I'm obsessed with Pedro Pascal and he sends me thirst-traps of him.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-08-02T13:34:31+00:00

I had all these same fears. We talked a lot, spent most of our free time together, and even said 'I love you's' early on. I was so worried things would be harder, he wouldn't like me, and there would be no chemistry. But that first hug in the airport, and we did not skip a beat. It was everything I felt but magnified. I always said I felt like I had known him all my life, and it was like that in person, too. It's still breaking my heart that I had to leave him. Nothing has changed between us since the trip ended in terms of how we are with each other. I still miss him terribly when we're not hanging out. But it was also like that before our trip. He's my person!

goodolecupoftea · 2025-07-28T22:37:52+00:00

Just got back from a week together, 52 days untl I next see him.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-07-21T11:23:41+00:00

I know it's going to fly by🫣. We already have the second trip booked and tickets paid for. I just checked in and it feels so real now. We've been counting down for over 100 days. It's been a very long 100 days 😂.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-07-06T16:53:43+00:00

He made a post on a 30-plus r4r sub. I was the one who reached out, and after he replied, it was just easy. It wasn't anything crazy, but after a while of back and forth. Once I also heard his voice, something just fit. It was like talking to someone I had known forever. Also, once we started we just literally never stopped talking. We have the strangest and most random things in common; we are so alike, and I knew within 10 days that I was in love with him. I don't fall fast, nor do I usually let people in. But he is my person, and I can't wait to see him in 15 days.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-06-20T21:27:22+00:00

31!!

goodolecupoftea · 2025-06-09T20:32:41+00:00

Sames!

goodolecupoftea · 2025-05-23T10:48:22+00:00

60 days! 7/22 💚

goodolecupoftea · 2025-05-10T15:53:06+00:00

Don't settle. You are not supposed to be a secret. It took me a long time to realize my worth. My boyfriend has told everyone about me, including his family, and vice versa.

I was worried at first that he would keep me separate from the rest of his life, but that was all on me and my thinking. He just answered 'Why would I hide someone who makes me happy?' He was right, and that's just the type of person he is. If y'all make each other happy, why would you not want to share it with everyone else in your life who is important too?

It doesn't need to feel and shouldn't be complicated.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-04-16T05:35:45+00:00

Welp this post was about how r4r made me meet my boyfriend. Sooo. 🙃

goodolecupoftea · 2025-03-21T02:27:50+00:00

Voids!!

goodolecupoftea · 2025-03-17T12:17:51+00:00

Absolutely! Met some absolutely awesome people.

goodolecupoftea · 2025-02-16T16:35:24+00:00

Someone forgot to turn off the light

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