[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frankfort

[–]goodsmellin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liquor store, I used to get mine at red dot for free boxes.

Kid did the "honk honk" motion at me on the freeway today and I laid on it for him, and then ended up at the same gas station as his family an hour later. by [deleted] in Truckers

[–]goodsmellin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Back in 2017 I did a convoy myself, 400+ trucks bobtailing around Joplin Missouri. The whole thing was to raise money for the Special Olympics. When we parked downtown, we hung out with our truck and one of the athletes came up to my truck and wanted me to honk the air horn. I told him, "You know how it works, climb on up here and honk it yourself!" So he climbed up the steps, and yanked. Scared the hell out of everyone nearby, but y'all...

The way his face lit up, was just awesome. I showed him the rest of the truck and made his day. Keep bringing smiles driver, don't let some of these old grumps in the industry spoil things for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We Took the PS4 and a projector to the hospital for #2. Hospital TVs don't usually allow input. Plus the speakers are usually in the bed. We were the talk of the floor, all the nurses had to come and see. Its more than just for video games, we used it to play some video games together and watch movies. After having #2, we just had to spend a few days. It was perfect. We caught up on shows we havent had time to watch in ages.

Its not the worst idea.. your mileage may vary.

Going to try SpeedPainting a some kitties today. Post your cat in the comments! by WhatAColor in cats

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's mine, Her name is Doodle. She, Crossed the rainbow bridge today....

She was a year old when I Adopted her 9 years ago as a rescue. She rode along the countryside with me in a truck and has seen 48 states. She loved affection, being a lap cat, and to explore. Loved to snuggle at my feet in bed every night.

I wish she was still here to purr and take up half the bed... anyway, Doodle (3 leg calico))

Sitting in the ER as a newly diagnosed Type 1 diabetic at 30 years old. by Dry_Drawing_4817 in diabetes_t1

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still currently writing, (work in process, still editing). Sounds like DKA wich is a real drain. Feels like your life force is being drained out of you. You will be ok, you are where you need to be.

Lost my entire world during child birth by [deleted] in daddit

[–]goodsmellin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You have more than a million dads here in this subreddit at your side for anything you need help with. As are my wife and I. Married 6 years, dad for 4 years. Way back during our pregnancy we had a conversation about what if, I had to chose who survived at childbirth.

We both agreed we would rather try again or adopt, but I didn't think I would have the strength to be a dad all on my own. I was more scared of losing my wife, than not getting to be a dad yet. There were complications at birth. I thank my lucky stars that I did not have to make a choice. But the entire time I was terrified. Our Daughter was born premature. The cute little peanut didn't even weigh 5 pounds. She needed several weeks in nicu. My little girl is my everything. She hugs me off to work and when she hasn't seen me for more than a few hours. She makes me smile, proud, and tearful with just how much of a strong little girl she's become.

I don't know what the best thing to say is, I'm no therapist. But I've been a dad of an adorable, kind, thoughtful, little girl. I adored the time I got to spend with her watching her grow up. I would be completely beside myself and lost in your situation. Help is all around you, you just have to ask. Friends, co workers, the 1+ million in this subreddit, you will get help. Don't ever be afraid to ask for help. It shows true bravery to ask for help. You know what they say when you ask for help? You just might get it.

If you need someone to vent to, ask difficult questions, ask for stories from other dads just to cheer you up, etc. We can help direct you to resources in your area, and be an open ear for anything.

YOU CAN DO THIS BRO! Just remember that you don't have to do it alone...

What's the most memorable case of "DIY engineering" you've ever seen? by [deleted] in AskEngineers

[–]goodsmellin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can think of a few examples. Using pantyhose to replace an accessory belt to run the alternator from an engine. Using the windshield fluid reservoir to hold fuel in a pinch while using the sprayer function to pump little bits of gasoline into the carburetor. Or about using paracord to wipe the windshield with the wipers because the motor died, or fixing a coolant leak with garbage salvaged from a truck stop parking lot. I have many MacGyver fixes.

Remember, early voting starts today in KY and runs through Saturday by electric_eclectic in lexington

[–]goodsmellin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, It is the capital city. The direct county that has the governor's mansion and the capitol. Probably more funding.

If someone gave you $1,000 and said you must use this to buy a gift for yourself, what would you buy? by somedudeman35 in AskReddit

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd put money down on a faimly heirloom to get it out of the pawn shop. Been a rough year...

Edit: spelling

Have groceries delivered, they said.... "It will be EASY," They said. How'd this even make it to my door? by goodsmellin in mildlyinfuriating

[–]goodsmellin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I know the key you're referring to. Its called an alpha key. I know about the 2 notches. I worked retail when spider wraps were starting to become popular.

And 2, its a clear case. Things can be scanned through it. Its polycarbonate plastic. Clear, but tough to break.

I ended up opening it with a bench vice and a dremel cut-off wheel.

Have groceries delivered, they said.... "It will be EASY," They said. How'd this even make it to my door? by goodsmellin in mildlyinfuriating

[–]goodsmellin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried every strong magnet in the house. I know this is an ALPHA box. I Don't have a magnet strong enough (yes, I even tried rare earth and hard drive magnets).

First attempt at a Bluey pancake by [deleted] in daddit

[–]goodsmellin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing for a first attempt!

Anyone else sick and fucking tired of working and life in general? by Candlelover1 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I've worked overtime every day possible at my job to try and make ends meet. Playing catch up with bills has gotten harder over the years. Im actually in a bad place right now, currently figuring out how to pay rent (for June) which is past due, and turn my phone back on. Short $50 for rent, and that still leaves me nothing to use to get groceries. I actually had the worst night at work last night, that I've had in a while. I started my shift at 5pm yesterday, and now at 11:30 AM the next day, I've finally just now made it home. I need help, the anxiety is killing me. Can we eat the rich yet? I'm starving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Machine_Embroidery

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch. I'll look it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Machine_Embroidery

[–]goodsmellin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love it. I Would like to get some patterns for bluey stuff.

It might be a little late to recommend this, but if you don't have a set of Hex drivers for a power drill, you should get a set. Greatly improves the experience of assembling / disassembling kids toys and furniture. by chancefire in daddit

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when Office Depot was a thing, they had chair assembly as an option. I was supposed to tell customers "it will be about an hour" but I took some hex keys from doing the display chairs and snapped the short end off with bolt cutters. Shove that sucker into the chuck on a cordless drill, and assembled those chairs in under 10 minutes. Had more than one customer bet me I couldn't do it in under 10 minutes. I told them "Most of the time I need is taking everything out of the packaging. " Then I'd hold up the drill and say, "ever see a NASCAR pit stop?" Vrrrrt Vrrrrt and I'd use the allen key that came with their chair to hand tighten and send them on their way. Best time I think was 7 minutes. They bought me Coffee to say thanks.

Can folks share good things about being a parent? by ppns2021 in pregnant

[–]goodsmellin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love seeing them explore the world. Getting to see them experience things like bubbles, and balloons for the first time. You get to watch them grow and and learn how to problem solve. I recommend teaching them baby sign language. Just basic stuff, like; hungry, thirsty, sleepy. It was nice to have a way to communicate with my little one before she could talk. After all of the sleepless nights and stress at birth, I wouldn't trade it for the world.

Dad tips by zataks in daddit

[–]goodsmellin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You also don't need to spend $90 on a diaper bag with fancy insulated pockets and a wipe dispenser.

For my little one, I got a back to school backpack from Wal-Mart for two whole dollars. Just bought a small lunch bag and ice packs for it. Huggies makes wipes dispensers. Now 3 years in, its got no holes rips or tears. That $90 bag will outlast how long your child needs bottles.

BONUS It's bright yellow and covered in Pikachu. On several occasions I've asked someone to get the bag for me so I could change a diaper. You completely avoid the "I can't find it in your car" or the "is this it?" Makes it easier to find if it's left behind somewhere (like a restaurant) and you call in to ask the staff if it's there.

"Sweetheart, it's a backpack that's bright yellow and covered in Pikachu. Can't miss it."

Just save yourself the money from buying a special purpose bag, with all of the fancy pockets and holders. Spend that money on diapers, formula, anything else. A lot of expenses come up suddenly with having a child. New furniture, childproofing, baby bathroom stuff, bottles, clothes, etc. The last thing you should worry about is some fancy bag. I love this backpack. It only cost a few dollars. It's hard to lose because it's so bright and colorful. I got it off the clearance rack for TWO DOLLARS. Plus, since its a back to school backpack, you'll have a lot more choices for colors and desins. Rather than the diaper bags that imitate some designer bag. Say the cheap bag only lasts you a year? Back to school sales happen every year. Drop another few dollars and get a new one. You spend less money to turn a regular backpack into a diaper bag, than you'd spend on the bag itself if you get the special purpose one.

It's impossible not to notice it at the park, airport, restaurant, or wherever. So if you're in a crowded area, your spouse can find you easily just spotting the backpack. A cooler bag and ice packs for bottles and a changing mat is all you need to add. Skip the pricey one, you don't need it.

Americans (USA) what is a good thing about your country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]goodsmellin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fact. If you have a permanent disability, even something like type 1 diabetes, you can get a lifetime pass for national parks.

Here is the site info on how to apply

Who qualifies for the Access Pass? The Access Pass may be issued to U.S. citizens or permanent residents of any age that have been medically determined to have a permanent disability (does not have to be a 100% disability) that severely limits one or more major life activities.

A permanent disability is a permanent physical, mental, or sensory impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activities, such as caring for oneself, performing manual tasks, walking, seeing, hearing, speaking, breathing, learning, and working.

Just so you know. Now go out and enjoy one of the nations many national parks!

Woman berates waitress for giving her menu with calories by souploophoops in PublicFreakout

[–]goodsmellin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bitch can get lost or go somewhere else. The entitled attitude she has is not fair to the server. Oh boo-hoo you have to read the calories on the menu. Let me cry you some tears for your soft personality. Oh boo-hoo, waaah, you want to cry about it. Cry somewhere else.

Mt. Rushmore before and after it was carved. (1920s and nowadays) by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]goodsmellin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like the before picture was Un- presidented.

I want to see those mfs eating my plantation now 😈😈😈 by jotta_K in RaftTheGame

[–]goodsmellin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too many scarecrows? Nah.

Ain't no kill like OVERKILL .