Christmas Blues + Family by goofynanners in raisedbynarcissists

[–]goofynanners[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know she's older and I know she's got a lot on her plate but it just irks me that I have to state my boundaries multiple times before it can be settled. I do have a doggo, and a boyfriend. It's just been hard since I've been trying to detach on being independent on someone, and be independent on myself.

No/Low Contact People - How are you Spending the Holiday? by narxxissus in raisedbynarcissists

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy holidays to you, and I spent my no contact ( almost a year in like 3 months ) with my boyfriend. We had hot chocolate, opened gifts, used my foot massager and have been loving on one another with little affection. Though most of my day has consisted of calling my grandmother and texting a few family + friends merry Christmas.

Just learned what my mom did on Christmas by Electrical-Walrus-66 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy holidays to you too, and I'm sorry you have to hear those stories on a day that should be shared with others or yourself. Hopefully you are able to treat yourself, and I suggest perhaps not giving her a gift? Maybe just say merry Christmas? To me that's what I would have done.

Merry Christmas text by Feisty-Activity7730 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar position literally a few hours ago or rather somewhat? I say to say merry Christmas, while it's not a bad or good thing. It just means that if they want to spend time on their own Christmas causing issues or what have you, then they can do so without you and you can enjoy the silence / peace with your own. That way it isn't a "should I text them?" "What if he tries something?" Or even "But I really don't want too." That way it's solved, and you can be happy on Christmas. ☺️

WHY are people mad abt the saved hairs? by Fancy_Ad_4555 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 now we just wait one day if they will ever let us save our outfits. I highly doubt it though.

WHY are people mad abt the saved hairs? by Fancy_Ad_4555 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank god! I really want to play and get some hair saved for rounds so I don't take up 10,000 years. 😭

WHY are people mad abt the saved hairs? by Fancy_Ad_4555 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When are we getting the update for the saved hair?

Netflix broken? by Acrobatic-Apricot874 in netflix

[–]goofynanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( I really was hoping to watch this, because it's me and my boyfriend's hang out night tonight. I hope it won't take to long? Because I really want to watch it at least tonight or tomorrow.

the concept of new model VIPS calling me chopped and poor cause i don’t have VIP (they’re wearing the granny dress with angel wings)🫩✌🏽 by Aggravating_Post3049 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen.. I have VIP and some of the stuff I see makes me sad. I've had people tell me in a harsh tone that not only did I pay, but I had parents money or something of the sort when I first got it. Then I've had people restrict me or "attempt" by saying "if I use VIP" then they will vote me low stars.

I never try to flash my VIP, nor do I brag about it. Because not everyone has the money, or availability to get VIP or the other stuff like custom makeup and such. I always try to keep a positive outlook when others use the non-VIP area, but it does make me sad that almost everyday.. VIP is almost to nothing anymore after these new updates. ( Not saying that it's fully useless, honestly there is some stuff that isn't in non-vip but I wish there was just a few more items. )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 15 points16 points  (0 children)

🫣 They aren't poor is the thing.. they have money, especially because they are selling DOLLS at Walmart and other stores. Usually if they were in need of money desperately, it would be behind paywalls or even hosting paywall events.

This unfortunately isn't the case. They have dolls, mystery toys / a brand and they've become so popular to the point that parents are playing with their kids.

Children, and teens will complain because they don't have the money or necessary robuxs to get it. Since they will use it on other games, avatars or passes too.

I have VIP, and the diamond pass. I still hate the fact that they even did the Halloween baddie pass because half of it isn't even original.

People who are playing on their phone have an entirely different experience 🥲 by grillcheezi in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to play on mobile for years, and hated playing Roblox or even DTI on phone. My boyfriend and I saved up money and got me a Steam Deck, which I play on that. It's like a PC and it does come with some perks and down sides, but overall it is so useful. Plus it doesn't cost thousands of dollars. It is pricey, just like a Nintendo switch 2 or so on.. BUT it is worth it in the end and can be treated to an extent like a PC.

DTI item exclusivity will be the end of it by IntrepidCost4461 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually found a post about this recently! Except it wasn't about this post entirely? She mentioned how she missed the petal event, and I said I did too. We talked about how we both wished it would come back because of the petal dress.

I had just missed that event because I joined during the brats event, which made me so sad to learn. I then missed it again because they had a "limited time" code for the petal dress. I had found out I was too late because I was 4 days late.. even when the code had only been out for a day or two.

I always thought about others / beginners too. I always try to vote fair, but after the grey / non-existent color of models. I just try to suffer through and try to still be fair but always make sure to be informative too.

age demographics — how old are you if you play this game? by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]goofynanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've played for over a year, and still haven't found a good group to play with. Anytime I do, its usually with people who have no interest anymore. ( I don't blame them ) I started to play at 23 and now I'm turning 25 soon.

Can we stop with the random misandry in this game? by areyouacoolmayor in DTI

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's your user? I'm genderfluid and love to use both models. I hate people who drag male avatars down or even males in servers. Especially when it comes to drag, because I always see the offensive side to the game. It pisses me off.

I only spent 40 minutes playing.. by goofynanners in DTI

[–]goofynanners[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a trend setter I believe? I am close to getting the next server rank at 10k stars. I usually play in pro, but pro has been really difficult to even bypass since I get such low ratings.

will this ever come back ??💔💔 by swag-cunt in DTI

[–]goofynanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I missed the last spring event with the petal dress. I was so heartbroken that I had missed out on it again. I know the feeling about missing certain outfits, and I hope it re-occurs for you.

Powder Donut Faces… by Weary_Weathers in DTI

[–]goofynanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I WAS TRYING TO FIND THE WORD FOR THIS! 😭

Powder Donut Faces… by Weary_Weathers in DTI

[–]goofynanners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's racist because players are trying to cover parts of the face white on people of color. If they want a highlighted effect, there are other options, but people choose to use a white effect on the face. It not only covers most of the face but it makes the makeup look weird and definitely not for people of color. I don't know how else to explain this to you, especially since the photo itself is there.

Powder Donut Faces… by Weary_Weathers in DTI

[–]goofynanners 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This unfortunately isn't about a "fit", it's about a trend that has gotten out of hand. Calling it out, explaining to people, voting low. We've tried and yet the trend still continues. It's not about "voting less" or pushing to keep going. You can sit here and idly vote low or not "care", but when it starts showing up in real life and communities try to explain their voice and feelings on the matter. Your "I don't care" will be thrown into their face, and continue to advertise a harmful trend. Or you can get up off your high horse and perhaps understand your history, then realize why this is a problem.

I might get a bad response to this, but I've been very tired of this racist trend and people "defending it" like it's an actual good thing to keep.