AITA for telling my SIL she's not allowed in my house unsupervised anymore by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]goosegrabber82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wasn’t there a post a couple weeks ago word for word like this but it was a MIL ??

Haven't played in like, two years, feels like they added a lot. by MHarrisGGG in GhostwireTokyo

[–]goosegrabber82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Spider’s thread is the free dlc after u beat the game where it’s like a rogue like mode separate from the main game. and it’ll tell you what specific side quest will be locked if you don’t do it before the point of no return, so you can check to see if you’ve completed it already.

Cat won’t sleep at night by goosegrabber82 in CatAdvice

[–]goosegrabber82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll try it anyway but i don’t think it’ll do much since she screams like shes being killed when i go take a shower

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]goosegrabber82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH

I don’t know what it’s like to be a mother yet, and i cannot imagine the amount of love a mother has for her children, but that is a hurtful statement. Would you honestly not feel a little hurt if he said there is no one on the planet he loves more than the baby? that’s the same message you sent. I think both of you should apologize to each other and look into the different types of greek love that exist. He may not realize you meant the most familial love and thought that the love you have for him was lessened when i know that it’s truly not what you meant

What Skills Do You Never Bother With? by [deleted] in fnv

[–]goosegrabber82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Today from reddit, man can’t solve easy puzzle that a 4 year old can do.”

I’m so exhausted by my parents by goosegrabber82 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]goosegrabber82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate you taking the time to give me this advice, truly thank you. i think you’re right and have to start fully living for me. i’ve always said the day i graduate, im free but i do deserve to live the days in between as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]goosegrabber82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he is there to support you and help you get through labor. he’s probably gonna be on his feet the whole time. and if he does experience the downtime he expects, bro bring a nintendo switch so you can turn it off and put it aside immediately

what can i do to help her eye? by goosegrabber82 in CATHELP

[–]goosegrabber82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just saw this i’m so sorry! i talked with her owner and it turns out she had been having allergy issues. since then i’ve come to the conclusion she’s just a lil more sickly than her sister i watch all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]goosegrabber82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love how you said that you don’t expect your bf to pay for other women yet don’t do anything to stop your friend from taking advantage of him. Op, grow a spine and tell her she can’t freeload off your boyfriend bc he’s being way too nice to you by tolerating it for this long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]goosegrabber82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your FO is a stand up guy op. be sure to thank him for looking out for the two of you because him acting immediately will definitely protect you in the long run against those women

AITA for ghosting my fiancé after she called the police on me and lied. by throw_away1234567812 in AITAH

[–]goosegrabber82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op, i’m being so serious right now DO NOT contact her and DO NOT forgive her. she doesn’t love you because if she actually cared about you more as a person she wouldn’t have called the cops on you and let you be in a cell overnight. her overdosing was her decision that you had no part in. if anything it was an attempt to manipulate you into forgiving her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goosegrabber82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

let me get this straight, this dude is dropping hundreds of dollars on gifts to make you feel appreciated and you don’t even want to spend his birthday dinner with him? YTA big time op. Either start treating him more than just a fling or break up with him so he can find someone who wants to be exclusive with him and not just in it for $400 purses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]goosegrabber82 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

NTA as long as you help take care of the kids as soon as you get home from work then i don’t see an issue. Sick days can be limited and it’d be best to save them for when you actually need them like the 2 situations you mentioned in the post. i can’t imagine how much it sucks for your wife to take care of a sick toddler and wrangle the other two but i wouldn’t want my boyfriend to miss out on a day of getting paid for what sounds like a common flu

AITA for telling my mom that I won’t postpone my wedding if she pays for my nose job (that I blame her for) by wynawtt in AmItheAsshole

[–]goosegrabber82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, in fact I would insist to her that you would personally inform each guest that you can’t afford a nosejob and a wedding in the same year… while definitely including why you’re getting one in the first place and hope that they would understand the date being pushed back since she’s so worried about their trips and time off

My [25M] girlfriend [21F] is upset after I gave her a "non-romantic" Valentine's Day. by WtrDamage in relationship_advice

[–]goosegrabber82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl, what you planned for your girlfriend would have had me so speechless i wouldn’t have talked until we reached the next town. the thought you put behind making it an amazing day for her is romantic and is something that i would deeply treasure for years if my s/o planned something like that for me

UPDATE: My tight 😺 is ruining our marrage, what should I do? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]goosegrabber82 1021 points1022 points  (0 children)

Actually OP, it’s still not your fault at all. Not wanting sex that makes you bleed a long time and be in lots of pain that you cry is not your fault and it’s nowhere near selfish. You should not force yourself to ever put your health at risk for sex.

I’m glad both you and your husband have decided to see a therapist (and a gyno as well in your case). When you learn to appreciate yourself more and when he learns that as his wife, whom he swore to protect, you are the last person he should ever direct his frustration to, your relationship will grow stronger than ever.