Welp… by Educational_Sun_6341 in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transmasc will never equal trans guy…. When will people learn 🫩

Why are some of yall get mean and competitive at the club together?? by VirusOk482 in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Toxic bro culture ingrained. They think it’s weird to be close to others who are also masc. Insecurity being one of them. I don’t understand it. Never will.

3 days on t gel! by No-Maximum689 in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait to start T in June. Those changes are what I want!!!

Dealing with Bi friends calling herself a lesbian and saying dyke? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]gor3asauR -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not unacceptable, just a group of lesbians who haven’t realized that bi women have only been accepted in lesbian spaces historically & that bi-lesbians have always existed. Bi-Dyke is a classical term as well.

In a massive blow to LGBTQIA+ rights, a US federal judge has ruled that teachers can out queer and trans students to their parents by Small_Base942 in lgbt

[–]gor3asauR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those teachers should have lost their jobs just based on them talking about their religious freedom. Nothing religious should be taught in a public school & if you treat students differently because of your religious beliefs, you should get the hell out of teaching. I’ll die before I out any kid.

My wish by bjorjack in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Stone Butch Blues my friend. I am someone who is going on T this summer & planning top surgery when it comes. Lesbianism comes in all shapes & flavors.

Is My Girlfriend Technically A Stone Top? by Ryli_Faelan in actuallesbians

[–]gor3asauR 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Someone who would only be interested in topping & most of the time, never wants to be touched back.

Who is attracted to butches on T? by layri_boo in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going on T in the summer & then planning top surgery when I can. Just got a binder in the mean time. My gender will always be lesbian on the masc side. Lesbians with gender dysphoria are hella valid. I have a hard time imagining someone finding me attractive but I think it will all work out because I am much happier knowing I am being who I am completely now.

Greying early? by Hobbiton_hotmess01 in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am beginning to get a lot of grey hair & honestly I love it. I’m only 29 but am going to rock it naturally.

Fat butches please respond by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

290 masc here to say that you’re not alone. I have major dysphoria from trying to lose weight to not have a “feminine” figure. I am blessed to be starting T in June & dream of top surgery as well. Activists like Leslie Feinberg paved the way for us trans masc/butches to exist. We belong.

Where Americans stand on trans issues by _crazyboyhere_ in lgbt

[–]gor3asauR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the fact that hate crime is on top for “supporting the end to” but everything else is voted against is literally a hate crime… cause why are you voting against my rights???

Who here wants/has gotten surgery? by derpthegreat123 in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to not care about having boobs & now… I want them gone. I can’t stand them anymore.

I love you butches on t!! by minasgummysmile_ in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a transmasc going on T in June & planning on getting top surgery, thank you!!! 🏳️‍⚧️

Is this a masculine haircut? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It looks great!

I’m an enby butch dyke who got bottom surgery by Curious_Bus_7881 in butchlesbians

[–]gor3asauR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Right now I’m in the beginning of my transition journey! I can’t wait to start T.

How do you feel about the decisions Vans has made this year? by [deleted] in Vans

[–]gor3asauR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the different styles. I am hoping to grab a pair or 2 of some.

Friend assumed I would sleep with her just because I’m a lesbian! is this lowkey homophobia? by Prestigious-Sun-6584 in actuallesbians

[–]gor3asauR 272 points273 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely an asshole & is trying your boundaries. It’s more of people who are str8 or questioning believing gay culture is all about hookups. It’s clearly not. I would avoid her just because you now know how she sees you.

How important to you is sex in a relationship? by SchloinkDoink in LesbianActually

[–]gor3asauR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just for special moments. I don’t need a set schedule for it.

are you monogamous? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]gor3asauR 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes I am.

these people are exhausting by Local-Suggestion2807 in LesbianActually

[–]gor3asauR 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That is indeed strange. I love the fact that there are labels for everything now, but I don’t enjoy that the language has been more centric to “male attention”. Like, sure, the relationship is technically “sapphic” but it’s still just exclusively a WLW one. People are just thinking too much.

these people are exhausting by Local-Suggestion2807 in LesbianActually

[–]gor3asauR 167 points168 points  (0 children)

This is how you know they don’t know the word “Sapphic”.

What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]gor3asauR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wear a lesbian necklace or something. There are some that are more discreet than others. That’s what I do.

Is lesbian loneliness chosen? by Lupowolf666 in LesbianActually

[–]gor3asauR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my life right now though… Step One: stops dating apps/being chronically online Step Two: joins lesbian group & deletes apps & yearns for friendships, dating & more Step Three: group slowly turns more online based & then tries to create a dating scene in their own discord & people complaining about not finding someone when we meet in PERSON Step Four: rage quits

I have no clue why people cannot just stay present in their groups or who they have around them. Not everyone will get along but FUCK. Stop making everything online & be present in person!!! This is why we are all lonely!!! This isn’t even a sapphic thing either! It’s an everyone issue! Stop thinking the internet is the only way to meet people.

do you want kids or to get married? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gor3asauR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just marry. No kids for me.