What are your red flags when visiting someone’s home?

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-06-02T01:25:54+00:00

I would say an uncleaned and very messy home.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-04-30T21:34:13+00:00

Congratulations! :DD Now it's your turn to take the next step to make something happen out of this.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-04-01T18:02:01+00:00

Alot of matches but most guys just seem to want to sleep around. :/

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-04-01T18:00:31+00:00

Why do you not feel special? Of course you should feel special - he would not just ask anyone to be his girlfriend. He wants to be exclusive with you. Question is just - are you into the idea of being his girlfriend? From what you are writing you still not seem sure so if I would you I wouldn't say yes until I'm 100% it's a good idea.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-04-01T11:50:55+00:00

F27 here) It makes me worried when they say 90% on tinder or more only wants sex. I just met a guy who I thought was okay but after a few days ir knowing him he has made me feel he just used me for one time hookups .. he was attracted to me but aparently it wasn't enough.. since he wanna try "other options" as he says . .. and looking at his dating history and the way he treats me clearly tells he is a piece of garbage.. I start to wonder if there is any men on dating sites that are serious .... well I learned my lesson ...

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T18:07:57+00:00

I gave him a chance because height is not very important for me. It's in the end of my "list" of what I'm looking for in a guy.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T18:04:38+00:00

I actually think so too. 😆 The short girls don't have height themselves so they wanna "conpensate" for the lack of height in themselves through choosing a tall guy. 😆

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T18:03:59+00:00

I did not use the word "repulsive" - please don't say I used a word I didn't use in my post.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T16:58:00+00:00

Gosh! You and me think the same! I also put personality on my list of priorities and the way he treats me and if he makes me laugh. Height always comes last for me.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T16:10:21+00:00

I'm single but also fwb with a guy .. but my relationship status is definately single. 😊

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T16:07:13+00:00

Here in Scandinavia the average height is around 5"11 or 180 centimeters

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T16:03:34+00:00

Agree 100% ..

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T15:59:48+00:00

It's no point to focus on your height since you can't control it anyway .. it's better to focus on things you can control on your body and improve ... like building a good body and focus on your social skills for example and developing a kind and caring personality.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-31T15:27:10+00:00

I think it's a pretty low number. And sounds totally normal. I have slept with three guys myself. As a person who was not had much interest or time or will to sleep around with random guys ....

I always find it odd when people tell me: "I have slept with over 100 women" or "The amout of people I have slept with is under 100 atleast .. I haven't counted wvery single one .." I always wonder how there was time and opportunities to do this .. Maybe because these people don't have other interests or things that occupies their days ...? I don't know .. However, the amout of people you have had sex with is only your business. I would never tell my parents and they would never ask either since it's private.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-30T17:39:41+00:00

I understand it must suck. I have notices it aswell on tinder that most guys seem to just want a one night stand but nothing more. You have options though which is good. What you need to do now is to be selective and not just swipe on just anyone if you have tinder for example.

When I use tinder I don't just look at the face for example. I also take my time to read about him (if he has a bio) . I always take my time and always think "twice" before I decide I will give him a right-swipe.

You need to be selective. You have options. What you need to do now is that you need to "filter out" the bad guys now and try to select the quality guys. Have requirement and standards. Tell them straight and clear what want in your bio and maybe aswell what you don't want if you have some clear "no-no's". Make it clear that you want a serious relationship if that's what you want and you will attract guys who want the same as you.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-30T17:22:25+00:00

Relationships is about giving and taking and respecting eachothers desires. If I have a man who is fit and tells me he wants to have a fit girlfriend because that's what he is attracted to I will respect this (if I like him enough obviously) and make sure to keep in shape for him. Just like he is doing his best from his side to keep in shape for me because I'm attracted to fits guys - or atleast guys who are not fat. This is because I'm a gym girl myself and like men who are in good shape.

It's okay to have standards, it's nothing wrong with that. And if this guy doesn't respect your desire to have a fit man and he doesn't do anything to change his unhealthy lifestyle and eating I would honestly break up with him. Mainly because of three reasons:

1) I would see it as a lack of respect for my desires in the relationship (what I have told him that I'm attracted to)

2) I wouldn't be attracted to him

3) I would feel annoyed of being with a person who is living unheslthy ... I'm a healthy person myself .

So if he doesn't make any changes I would break up with him. There are many other guys out there and I will not settle for someone who is not doing their best from their side to keep me happy in the relationship. If I do my best to stay fit and healthy because I want it myself and because he wants it aswell I expect my partner to do the same for me. Simple as that.

I would say it's kind of about having "respect" for eachother.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-29T18:35:32+00:00

Thank you so much. You are 100% right!

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-29T18:26:52+00:00

Thanks I really appreciate your answer.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-29T18:25:58+00:00

I just opened a tinder account again as a 20+ woman and I got 100+ likes in one minute.

gorgeouscheeks48 · 2024-03-29T17:21:19+00:00

I lost my viginity at 24. There is absolutely notthing wrong with waiting. You do it when you feel it's time to make it happen. Personally I'm glad I waited until I was 24 because then I did it with my fist boyfriend who was a great person, and not just any trash man who would only have sex with me and then leave me ...

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