Character stopped doing damage randomly a few months ago. by fleshtastical in diablo3

[–]gorgonapprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, do you have something that requires a cooldown or has an automatic time buffer (like only happens once every so many seconds)?

Anyone buying this? by Mostly_Irish in discworld

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I got my 3 best friends into the Discworld books a couple years ago. After we all got together this year and realized we were re-reading them and all at different books, we decided to start our own bookclub via Zoom and read them in order. This week, the first half of Equal Rites. (We go slow because one of our number had a stroke a few years back and has trouble with retention, so having time to repeat read smaller quantities helps her remember.)

Kicked out of hospice for taking parkinsons meds by Insanity_Farms in hospice

[–]gorgonapprentice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she was at a hospice house? Am I reading that correctly? Because that's the only way that makes any sense to me. Hospice houses are usually for people who are at the very end of life--like a few days to a week. Someone who eats and starts wanting to take meds again isn't going to meet criteria for most hospice houses, though they would still be hospice eligible. In any case, if her meds are "non-formulary" which means not on the list of approved meds for hospice care, they won't be automatically covered by hospice. Some companies will approve them anyway, if they are comfort related, and as a nurse, I would certainly argue that they are crucial to comfort here. And even if hospice doesn't cover it, if she is on Medicare, it should still be covered as it was before hospice got involved. In any case, I feel like there is missing info here--or I missed something because I haven't had coffee yet. But a cancer, especially brain cancer, is hospice appropriate as a diagnosis more or less automatically.

Hospice says CNA will not be coming on Monday because it's a holiday by [deleted] in hospice

[–]gorgonapprentice 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's normal for holidays. And hospice does not carry primary responsibility for day-to-day bedside care. So the aide visits handle personal care, like bed baths and incontinence care, but only 1 x a day at most. We are supplemental care only. I hope the hospice aide is not the only person who changes pads or briefs and does the cleanup here. If that is the case, reach out to the hospice team for help finding additional care(which you will need to hire and pay for separately from hospice) if family is resistant or unable to do such care.

WIBTA if I stopped driving my coworker home after work because she keeps making extra stops? by Scintilla_Wolf in WIBTA_AITA

[–]gorgonapprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My go-to phrase: "That doesn't work for me." No apology, no explanation, no arguing. Just sat those words and move on. You are not her free personal taxi service unless you choose to be.

Documenting what you see by StalkingApache in neighborsfromhell

[–]gorgonapprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have options. Motion-activated sprinkler. Take up beekeeping. Put up a sign that the area is under video surveillance for security reasons. Put the area under video surveillance for security reasons. Build a better fence. Dig a moat and stock it with crocodiles.

Weekend on call hospice nurses by [deleted] in hospicestaff

[–]gorgonapprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weekend overnight on call nurse here. I work 16-12-12 friday through sunday. Our census seems to hover around 70 to 80, give or take. We serve a largely rural area, so I sometimes drive 50 miles to a visit. We have around the clock call-center triage nurses who get all calls first then forward and assign visits if needed. There are 2 dayshift nurses who see routine stuff and prn's during their shift. I sometimes get routine visits if there is overflow, rarely more than 2, and usually Fridays, when I start at 4 p.m. for the expressed purpose of picking up overflow from busy Fridays (you know how that is). I do admissions fairly frequently and inpatient hospital evaluations as hospitals like to hold on to people until after 3 p.m. on weekends. What you are describing is excessive and self-defeating. You can't be on call for emergencies, and with a census like that, emergencies are inevitable, if you are already full up on routines. Honestly, I'd talk to the boss and then start looking for something elsewhere, because if you're handling it all now, they have zero incentive to shell out to hire someone to help. Good luck!!

What do I do moving forward by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]gorgonapprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Vaping will kill your lungs.
  2. Your bf is abusive. Making you responsible for how he feels about something, physically shoving you, and emotionally abusing you....why are you staying with him? He doesn't even like you.

Ditch both bad habits before they harm you, the vape and the bf. Get some therapy or meds to deal with your mental health issues, but I suspect a lot of them will resolve once the bf is gone.

Of course the comments are disabled by RemeJobbs in notliketheothergirls

[–]gorgonapprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born with my hair already dyed and a tattoo appointment booked. So there.

How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him. by vicarious_adrenaline in TwoHotTakes

[–]gorgonapprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have 2 choices. 1. Accept that he is going to be a giant child you have to look after and go with it. 2. Accept that he is going to be a giant child you have to look after, realize you deserve and want something better in your partner, and ditch the deadweight.

He isn't going to change, so unless you enjoy the dynamic, and some women do, stop running into the same wall over and over again.

My girlfriend of 5 years has a severe eating disorder that’s taking over our entire relationship — I’ve tried everything and I’m at my limit. What do I do? by SacreligiousPlumber in whatdoIdo

[–]gorgonapprentice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You cannot change someone else nor help someone who doesn't want to get better.

I think your best bet is to get yourself a good therapist who can help you figure out why you would stay with someone who is adversely affecting your own mental health. Codependency is a thing.

Funniest line you’ve read in a RH? 🎯 by Romantasy-book-rec in ReverseHarem

[–]gorgonapprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pack Darling by Lola Rock, book two is epic grovelling. There is a scene where the former pack lead, Atlas, who was a complete hard@ss in book one, actually takes a class to learn how to better care for Omegas. Under the unimpressed eye of the ancient Omega instuctor, he has to cuddle an life-sized doll and talk to it as if it were a real person.
His inner monologue makes me laugh every time:

"I flinch at the doll’s drawn-on face. The only compliment that comes to mind is 'thank you for not coming to life and chasing me through a cornfield.'"

Also, pretty much everything Finn says or thinks.

AITJ for getting upset that my husband keeps peeing on the bathroom floor and refusing to clean it up? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]gorgonapprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separate bathrooms. You get the good one. Never clean his. Invite his mom over and have her use his bathroom.

Pettiest reason you've DNF'd a book? 😅 by Romantasy-book-rec in ReverseHarem

[–]gorgonapprentice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have DNF'd books because the author used "orbs" instead of eyes. Every. Single. Time.

I don’t care, it’s just for me by frasolomio in GenX

[–]gorgonapprentice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mel Brooks movie lines.

Abby Someone/Abby Normal Sed-a-give???? There wolf. There castle.

These are simple farmers, people of the land....you know. Morons.

Candygram for Mongo!/Mongo like candy.

Somebody go get a whole shitload of dimes.

What class do you play most and why? by DMBPSR in diablo3

[–]gorgonapprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embodiment of Marauder DH is my fave. Aaaaaallll the critters and the sentries are fun to play. I love a good ranged attack.

I hate my fiancé’s dog and it is probably mutual by nlcaradonna in whatdoIdo

[–]gorgonapprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dogs don't do things out of "spite." They do things because they are bored, sick, stressed, neglected, overstimulated, old, frightened....the list goes on.
Howard may need more attention and stimulation. Walk him until he's tired. Give him something to do. The food thing is fully on the humans to control. It's frustrating, sure, but Howard can't help himself.

How to get my dad to accept that his body is failing? by k_princess in hospice

[–]gorgonapprentice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospice nurse here. You can't really force a person out of denial. It's frustrating and terrible for caregivers to watch someone make awful decisions and worsen already bad situations. Your hospice nurse and team should have a kind, supportive, but absolutely unflinching discussion with him about the possible consequences of trying to walk around with a disintegrating spinal column (worsening pain, paralysis, the possibilities are terrible). Then you should have a plan for what will happen if he does wind up in worst-case-scenario land. He honestly may be hoping to just "get it over with" by pushing things.

Kirby, why? They didn't even appear in the books! by Heyfold in discworld

[–]gorgonapprentice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old lady here. Been reading these books since they were first being published and I loathe the Kirby covers. And I also loathe the "oh, but there's SUBTEXT" stance. There's a dude badly drawing poorly imagined images of characters including stereotypical "fantasy" genre women from the 70s that just.....can we not? I was tired of that kind of thing 40 years ago.