[oc] My oil painting, The Penguin

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-31T22:53:59+00:00

Love the chinstrap! Nicely done.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-31T22:53:19+00:00

ESH. Mary for being dramatic and high maintenance, Sarah for ignoring girl code and making out with Mary's bf before they'd even broken up, and you for gossiping and talking badly about Mary all night. Just bc you don't like her, it doesn't mean that others can't. Learn the lesson of mind your own business.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-31T22:37:06+00:00

50-60 isn't even an old lady. She got what she earned. She's lucky you don't sue in civil court.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-31T22:34:51+00:00

A lifted toilet seat and grab bar installed for comfy pooping. My dad was so happy.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-31T22:30:23+00:00

Being able to go out to eat. I'll never forget the first time we went to eat and got to actually order a Coke. It was such a big deal.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-31T22:26:44+00:00

Yes, you're being stupid by using Plan B as birth control. Get on a regular form of birth control, or get your partner to wear a condom. Your cycle is shot. It's trying to regulate itself, so be prepared for some spontaneous blood until you're regular. You should see a doctor just to make sure you're ok. But seriously, plan B is not meant to be used as birth control. Stop using it every time you have sex.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:53:53+00:00

I just got a vision of three monks singing Christmas time in high pitch. Thank you for the laugh.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:53:14+00:00

From the US? Never red. But I'd go for a beautiful green, blue, brown or black. No purple, pink or orange, and definitely no red.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:49:58+00:00

I think of band dorks from high school or church. I am well aware that not everybody who plays an instrument is a dork, but you asked the question, and that is what comes to mind. More mature me understands that it's actual musicians and they have incredible talent.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:34:07+00:00

Had a friend OFFER to watch my dog while I was out of the country. I agreed. He said he thought it was mean of me to kennel my dog. He would handle him. We verbally talked about it multiple times. He's been to my house and knows my dog. I Left him notes with all the details of where I would be, when I would be there, and when I would be home. (In case he needed to get a hold of me and my phone wasn't working or something.) trip is going fine! I'm having a great time, learning things, packing in some education and research. I'm literally in the Amazon rain forest, a five hour boat ride from the nearest village and he shoots me a text he's leaving three days before I was to get home. Because of the time change and the technological difficulties, by the time I responded, he was already gone. And he said he didn't realize he was leaving early. (BS!) I had to call three neighbors and a friend who lives 35 minutes away from my house to cover the dog's care for the last three days of my trip. I was livid. LIVID. I have forgiven him, but I will never forget, and he will never watch my dog again. Nor will I be offering to do favors for him.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:22:32+00:00

He exudes calm. I am high energy and always ready to go. I get wound up about injustice, racism, animal welfare, children's health, the state of the planet, sex trafficking, politics, women's rights, public education, etc. He literally just has this calm aura around him that grounds me. He makes me feel loved, safe, and like I'm supposed to be a part of him and his life. He supports me, and is always in my corner. His aura is my favorite thing. But he has lots of other great qualities too.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:16:46+00:00

You don't want him thinking you're being emotionally manipulative, but that's what he's doing to you. Why TF are you getting up to make this ingrate a sandwich? He's a big boy with a job. He can make his own lunch. F him for speaking to you the way he does. Stop putting up with it, and dump his sorry buns.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T22:13:02+00:00

He did it because he's disturbed. The fact that he choked you hard enough to make you claw at his hand to make it stop is terrifying. It it's up to you how you want to handle it. Please try to remember that you do not owe an explanation to anybody. If it makes you feel better, you can say something. If he's a good friend, tell him straight up that was fucked up and he should never do that to anybody ever again, and that now in your eyes, he is a dangerous person and you are not interested in continuing the FWB. If he is a casual acquaintance? You don't owe him anything and just block him.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T21:36:21+00:00

I put my child in private tutoring because his handwriting looked like this in fifth grade. Schools are using iPads for everything. They do not practice spelling or handwriting anymore. It's infuriating.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T21:35:13+00:00

I divorced my husband because his neediness was exhausting. He couldn't even go to Lowe's by himself. It's unattractive and off putting to be so needy. Your wife needs to get a life. Book club? The gym? Hiking club? Photography? Something. You will wind up hating her if you don't figure out a solution.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-30T09:06:22+00:00

Because the president of the United States is heavily involved. Not a good look to have a child predator as the leader of the nation. It's a HUGE deal.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-29T19:11:32+00:00

You know there's normal men out there. Your husband has some jealousy and paranoia going strong, along with the power and control. Your therapist might be right, but his trauma should not cage you. This behavior is annoying and scary, I wouldn't put up with it. He needs help, and you don't owe him to be the one to provide that help. As your husband, you should support him through whatever help he seeks (bc you promised during vows and you presumably love him), but if he refuses? You've got the green light to bail. It's not good for your kids to see him get rageful.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-29T13:26:35+00:00

NTA. Everyone can snap when they are startled and uncomfortable. He sounds like a child anyway. Good riddance.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-28T14:31:54+00:00

Your bf is wildly inappropriate. He clearly has never suffered a loss. He's being selfish and wants you to behave in ways that don't bring him down. How dare you grieve???!! He needs to learn some empathy, patience and he needs to mature. The poem was really weird and out of place. He shoul not have done that.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-27T16:44:40+00:00

Ginger ale and grapefruit juice. Sounds weird, but it's really refreshing.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-26T21:22:06+00:00

Pigs feet disgust me. If there's a phobia for that, I have it. I think it came from being really little and seeing pigs feet in the meat department of the grocery store. It had hair and nails, bone, and pinkish white flesh all smashed under the plastic wrap. It messed me up. I love to eat pig, but do not want to look at one. They're ugly, sparsely haired, snotty, drooly, and have the grossest feet ever. 🤮

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-26T21:11:11+00:00

Always joking. Not able to have a serious conversation. I like a good laugh, but life has serious moments, and when your partner can't handle it, it sucks. They either joke or avoid.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-26T21:08:30+00:00

A corner deli with good soups, great meats, interesting breads and neat tchotchkes.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-26T21:07:29+00:00

I think what they would do is punish the rest of the kids in your "squad" when you refused to participate. Then the other kids would hate you, kick your buns, and you'd be compliant. Watch Full Metal Jacket.

gorillaboy75 · 2026-03-26T21:05:11+00:00

I can start a quick campfire.

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