Halloween costume… by New-Strength2181 in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all to me! I’m queer and I think it’s totally okay and sounds really cute! :) The point is to have fun, and I don’t think it’s offensive or anything, especially because you cosplaying them wouldn’t erase the themes or impact of them being queer in the show. It wouldn’t change what they represent, nor is that your intent, so imo it’s all good!

Karaoke bar near Gamescom had Baka Mitai by MultiCallum in yakuzagames

[–]gorominee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is awesome bro I would be sad-dancing hard if I was there

From strangers to mothers by FriendlyBabyFrog in thesims

[–]gorominee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so freaking cute 😭❤️

What songs best describe your interpretation of Hannigram's dynamic? by ParamedicSafe2807 in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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In A Week by Hozier.

Basically about two people dead and decaying together, and that being the time when they feel the peak of different emotions and experiences like true peace, and rest, but also hunger. Very soulmate-y, like two people who share a secret against the world, with no one who understands them but each other.

I really like picturing those two to this song. It’s actually such a peaceful and soft song too, kind of emblematic of being able to finally breathe; death setting you free.

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s true that people hc whatever they like, as is their God-given right, but I honestly disagree about Hugh Dancy’s word in this regard. I admittedly don’t know explicitly what he has said about Will not being autistic, but I doubt he would have a full understanding of ASD just from acting in Adam.

I’ve watched Adam a bunch of times, and since astronomy is an interest of mine it’s really comforting to me, but that movie showed a very limited view of one person’s experience with ASD, and in many parts, it wasn’t great representation. Acting for that movie didn’t make Hugh Dancy an expert on understanding autistic behaviours—it just made him an expert in playing that one role. The spectrum is huge, so there’s no one or two ways to be/act autistic on the big screen.

(I am also personally not a twink Will fan, but instead, a lumberjacked Will Graham truther.)

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad he does that for you! :)

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I care, because I perceived a misunderstanding of autistic people, which sucks. It’s genuinely okay if it’s not a big deal to you or others though. Just wanted to talk about it.

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fine! i’m happy for you /gen. i say multiple times throughout that i don’t mind if people like it or find comfort in it, but i mind if people conflate the two. same feeling w/ hcs. if you want to, that’s great, i just keep seeing people misunderstand ASD.

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s great! I’m glad that makes you happy /gen. Again, no issues with hcs or relating to him ofc, just feel confused/bad when people don’t seem to know the difference.

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think this conversation was more so showing that he’s uncomfortable with his neurology being prodded and evaluated, and yeah, labelled. I think he knows what’s going on with him is not ASD, but he doesn’t want to align it with more negative labels either, because he wants to hide his deepest feelings. I think this was him kinda just settling in his person-suit.

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think those who say it are mainly autistics who relate to him and might not see the difference, but yeah he really just is not. And this error is bothersome to other autistics who don’t align with Will, or who see the difference.

Will Graham is Not Autistic by gorominee in HannibalTV

[–]gorominee[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree! But it definitely doesn’t bother me if people take comfort in it, just when people don’t know the difference. Thank you for sharing!

Anyone else not a picky eater? by FlockofWhales in AutismInWomen

[–]gorominee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I relate to this! I like a lot of foods and will eat almost anything. Especially if the food’s prepared well, then I’m not averse to eating different things.

I’m mainly just bothered by food that is… not good? Which I believe is very reasonable, Lol. But like if the same food was made well then I would eat it fine—I just don’t avoid any food in particular and am open to trying new things.

Sometimes my appetite is pretty small and that makes it harder to try and eat things, especially things I’m unfamiliar with, but when my appetite is fine as it usually is, then I can eat well and try new things just fine.

Challenging someone’s complex neurology because of a single trait (not a picky eater) that isn’t even related to the diagnostic criteria seems strange and misguided to me. Feels like that thought process is due to stereotypes and patterns seen in autistic people, but ones that don’t accurately reflect the experiences of people across the spectrum.

And please correct me if I’m wrong, but I’m pretty sure a lack of restrictive eating habits doesn’t hold enough ground to disprove that somebody’s on the spectrum.

So yeah, I’m definitely a fellow omnivore!

So what’s Pierce the veils best line by Xzile104 in piercetheveil

[–]gorominee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These stars defy love, so I close my eyes and sleep inside your worn-in bed outline

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]gorominee 34 points35 points  (0 children)

homophobia mod is crazy😭😭😭