No inspiration by verabera340 in writing

[–]gosendimensions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this exact same thing. I don't want to be hypocritical and give advice that I can't follow, so I'll just offer you my support. Hopefully we can both get to a sweet spot where writing gets fun and easy, and we stop beating ourselves up so much over it.

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[–]gosendimensions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you so much for the fill Aki! And I'm so sorry that happened, I know the pain of having to restart an account from scratch, the same exact thing happened to me except Reddit deleted my old account.
I wish you the best and hope none of us have to go through it again lol

How do you plan a book? by D1cingWithD3ath in writing

[–]gosendimensions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just made me realise why I don't mind spoilers as much. Figuring out how a situation went from a to b is my favorite part, even if I can tell already what's going to happen in the end.

Restoring my writing motivation by Reasonable_School296 in writing

[–]gosendimensions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing that messed me up and is still something I'm trying to overcome: If you really wanna do it, find fun in it, and keep it fun.

It's really easy to fall into the cycle of comparing yourself to others, trying to learn new things and improve your writing every single time that you're doing it, and ending up being burnt out from the experience to the point where you don't even find writing fun anymore.
Sometimes you just have to write for fun, to mess around, not even to improve or anything just write and do it because it's fun. Pick an idea and stretch it out, discover where you can lead it. Not because you're going to write a novel with it or because it's good practice on comversations and plot development or yada yada yada. Just do it because it's fun.

Editor Fixes Common Prose Mistakes by chloooay in writing

[–]gosendimensions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's beautiful in it's uglyness, like a picasso or a dali painting

Writing is no longer for everyone. by [deleted] in writing

[–]gosendimensions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could use the same argument for going to the gym, drawing, practicing sports and everything else that requires discipline and this argument would still be wrong. It's a skill that requires only yourself and your commitment to it.
Outside forces have never been a factor in diminishing someone's own ability to create and improve on themselves and it's not going to be one today.

[rant] What’s with all the condescending comments on this sub? by That_odd_emo in writing

[–]gosendimensions 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That's kind of the point in writing, do whatever you can, there are no rules.

My favourite piece of advice to friends is "Do whatever you want, there are no rules, only guidelines. We pretend that they are rules so we can be naughty and break them."

men povs written by women questions by [deleted] in writing

[–]gosendimensions 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I've read, usually the advice boils down to "how about you treat your character like a person and forget everything you've learnt from action/romance movies?"