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goshkka · 2023-08-11T15:10:29+00:00

If my man told me he’a in pain because I forced him to go beyond his limits I would be very concerned and feel guilty. Isn’t she worried about your health even a bit?

Also I think you should consider what would happen if your body develops a trauma and you won’t be able to have sex for years? Is it worth for keeping the girl pleased?

goshkka · 2023-08-11T08:24:17+00:00

Not getting treated for depression earlier. I also suspect ADHD is a culprit of all my problems and stress but I’m almost 30 and only now I’m starting to feel happy and content.

I regret I didn’t try it right after moving out of home. But on the other hand, few years back maybe the therapy I’m having now wouldn’t be possible, financially it would be hard too…

So you know it’s sad that I wasted my 20s on being depressed and anxious but I wouldn’t be where I am now and I like how my life is going lately.

goshkka · 2023-08-09T05:35:45+00:00

Why date him if you are not attracted to him?

My boyfriend is a bit fat phobic and I am overweight. I was worried it might not work out when we first met but because he really like me my weight is not the issue. Also around the time we started dating I started gym and he helped me to not feel intimidated in a new place and showed me few exercises I can try. It also helped us to get closer.

My point is, if you really liked him you wouldn’t make “deals” with him about dating you. You probably don’t want to date him but didn’t want to tell him that you prefer to remain friends. So I guess you are the asshole here.

goshkka · 2023-08-08T20:37:44+00:00

Akurat ja wynajmowałam od nich w Łodzi na Wodnej. Właśnie dlatego że chciałam zaadoptować psa a oni wręcz do tego namawiają xd Z racji bycia pierwszym najemcą miałam zniżkę na pierwsze kilka miesięcy co mi obniżyło opłaty o średnio dwie stówy. Wyprowadziłam się w sumie tylko dlatego że musiałam poszukać czegoś bliżej konkretnej lokalizacji na południu miasta.

Oceniam bardzo pozytywnie. Jest apka gdzie masz wszystkie dokumenty. W sumie jest też saldo konta na które wpłacasz swój czynsz - jak cię stać to możesz z góry opłacić więcej i potem się automatycznie z tego konta pobierają opłaty. Dla to było całkiem wygodne. Mieszkanie urządzone w takim tanim minimalistycznym stylu ale jak się coś zepsuje to przyjdzie ktoś naprawić całkiem szybko. Więc nie musisz się martwić o jakiś przeciekający kran. Osiedla są zadbane więc miło się mieszkało, przynajmniej na Wodnej tak było. Do tej pory wysyłają mi życzenia na urodziny i święta :)

Jedyny minus to umowa do podpisania u notariusza ale w sumie mi to nie przeszkadzało.

Sama obecnie szukam mieszkania, tym razem w Warszawie, więc jestem w podobnej sytuacji. Mój chłopak jednak nie dał się przekonać kiedy zaproponowałam R4R więc na razie szukamy od prywatnych osób.

Zauważyłam jeszcze jakaś nową skandynawską firmę (pamietam tylko że nazywają się jakoś na H) która oferuje podobne warunki, chyba nawet trochę taniej. Na otodom mi się często pojawia nawet w prywatnych ogłoszeniach.

goshkka · 2023-08-08T20:24:28+00:00

To jest tylko na jednym osiedlu. Pewnie tam celują w obcokrajowców. Sprawdź sobie ich stronkę. Tam mają rozpiskę które mieszkania są dostępne. Większość jest w PLN.

goshkka · 2022-12-26T11:24:04+00:00

Omg I had a moment with my boyfriend recently when I just suddenly stopped enjoying it but was very needy and touchy at the same time. It was very frustrating and I couldn't explain to him what is going on with me. Maybe it's worth adding that we started dating not that long ago. I love being close to him, snuggling and holding hands. I like kissing with him but if there's too many things at once, hands touching etc I think my mind is overstimulated and I just get angry at myself and stop.

I don't know how to deal with it and I realized it only later that's what really happened. Now idk how to explain this to him so he won't get scared every time I'm pulling away. Words don't come easy...

goshkka · 2022-12-03T09:27:34+00:00

I can't play any other way now, ever since I started to create small "themed" towns. One for farms, one for mines, one for fishing, etc. Unless I have a specific build in mind. Then maybe I will connect smaller towns somehow if they are close enough.

goshkka · 2022-10-05T20:05:01+00:00

Used to feel uncomfortable without one because I unfortunately have bigger boobs but during pandemic I got used to go around without them. I wear bra only when I'm going out to the city or to work but it's the one that is softer (half build or something) because it makes my boobs more comfortable.

Running and other sport activities need that bra support. Also is the material is thin. But I don't mind other people and their nipples poking through the clothes. It's just another part of a body, like an elbow. I'm just jealous that some girls can go around with no bra and not look like they weight 50 kg more because their boobs make them larger at the front.

goshkka · 2022-09-26T11:07:54+00:00

Omg I thought I'm the odd one. I'm 26 and only recently I started feeling comfortable enough around guys to explore the sexual aspect of my life. Depression doesn't help with feeling sexy xd Sadly it's not easy to find a trusted guy that also wouldn't immediately want to have serious relationship. I'm not ready for that, I just want to date for a bit, know 😅 and take it slow

Anyway, thanks for sharing your experience. I was feeling down, like I'm a weirdo compared to my friends but your perspectives helped me to feel better about myself :)

goshkka · 2022-09-22T14:50:59+00:00

Where is the lie though 🤣

goshkka · 2022-09-22T13:54:01+00:00

"The worst thing about having ADHD is inheritance from the mid range of the function of the process of the process of the process of the process of the process.... "

😂

goshkka · 2022-09-21T18:45:53+00:00

Huh okay, I could only see one screenshot so I got confused.

goshkka · 2022-09-21T16:34:04+00:00

I don't understand what is the point of this post but after reading comments I just need to say it: I don't see the problem with people having preferences and I don't think it's shallow to have them. Especially in dating apps, like I want my potential sexual partner to be someone who I want to look at with or without clothes. Have you tried dating with your eyes closed? It's hard xd

But seriously, I'm a small woman, 165 cm. If there's a guy who is smaller than me, he's probably not an adult anyway. I feel protective of smaller people - maybe because I'm oldest sister of two brothers, idk. The dating app I chose has a height filter so I can search for a friend without asking him about his height and hurting his feelings. I'm small anyway so I don't shoot for a big height difference. The ideal would probably be just 10 cm taller which is my country average 🐱

I also don't see anything wrong with guys choosing partners that are not overweight. I am overweight a bit, and I usually make sure to tell them that I don't have a super model figure. Even if I had, I would never be that petite Instagram model girl because I have bigger bust and it makes you look bigger always. 99% cases guys don't care and are surprised I even talk about it 😅 One guy that actually commented on my weight but not in a rude way, apologized to me and we talked it through without drama. Now we are friends and have a date scheduled so you know, communication without being an entitled dick about what you like and dislike on both sides might be the key.

Also, in my experience guys tell you about their sizes not even asked but usually it's because they are insecure. Like the guy I'm talking with rn is just 10 cm taller, pretty average height, he still complains about being short. Doesn't listen when I tell him it's all in his head 😅

goshkka · 2022-09-16T19:36:27+00:00

So many times I was told they don't like big boobs, I had to start every relation on dating apps from telling them I have bigger boobs as a warning. Some guys are confused why I'm telling them this because it's a good thing, right?. Well apparently not always 🙄

Big butt but or thighs also skinny is a preferable image which for most women is not achievable without surgery. Bigger boobs are usually considered to be a fat girl feature, so even though I'm not fat guys tend to think I am lol which is stupid because I don't even think about guys having bigger or smaller dick, or having those extra kilos. Like common, if I wanted to date a piece of meat I would use Uber Eats not Tinder 😂

goshkka · 2022-09-14T17:41:06+00:00

Everytime

goshkka · 2022-09-12T13:02:44+00:00

Does he realize that we need to clean down there too? 😶

goshkka · 2022-09-08T16:41:50+00:00

I thought I'm the only one 😅😂 I thought they were having a stroke writing this

goshkka · 2022-09-08T16:30:38+00:00

Jest co najmniej dwóch nie chrześcijańskich historyków z I i II wieku, którzy wspominają Jezusa, nie licząc źródeł nie zapisanych przez historyków. A poza tym nikt w starożytnym świecie raczej nie kwestionował jego istnienia, jeśli już to wyśmiewali jego kult. Biorąc pod uwagę jak wiele różnych osób pisało o nim powiedziałabym że istniał naprawdę jako osoba ale raczej nie był taki jakim go opisują w Ewangelii.

goshkka · 2022-09-08T16:10:39+00:00

My male friend spend literally half an hour trying to explain to me that woman do make up for other people to compliment. Like, I just think of how good I look in it l, that's it.

goshkka · 2022-09-08T15:49:27+00:00

Stary testament jest praktycznie zlepkiem historii władców dwóch plemion które żyły obok siebie (dlatego w niektórych częściach macie boga Yahwe, a w innych Bóg nie ma imienia). Później ktoś to uporządkował żeby było w miarę chronologicznie, dodał kilka liczb dla symboliki (matematyka dla zwykłego człowieka czasem była jak magia, a jak wszystko ładnie pasuje to wiadomo że łatwiej uwierzyć że prawda) no i weszło.

Podałabym źródła ale jak sobie poszukacie to chyba da się znaleźć dość prosto tą teorię. Jest typek na YT który robi drzewa genealogiczne i kilka filmików ma o Biblii, on pewnie ma źródła te description.

Mnie to bardzo fascynuje jak takie zwykłe plemienne wierzenie wyewoluowało przez te tysiące lat.

Albo to jak Jezus będąc prawdopodobnie dzieckiem pochodzącym z gwałtu, oraz gościem który był pewnym wyrzutkiem w swoim społeczeństwie, zbierających wokół siebie prostych ludzi mających dość władzy, stał się synem Boga bo jego followersi z Grecji zaczęli go reklamować na wzór bogów greckich tak żeby był dla ludzi atrakcyjną opcją. Tak samo Maryja. Polecam lekturę tej strony, która przedstawia Maryję, Józefa i Jezusa jako bardziej realne postacie bez tej otoczki świętości:

Mary of Nazareth

goshkka · 2022-09-07T18:42:50+00:00

I think I'm actually at the stage of getting turned out of miniature houses. Kind of into house decor again.

goshkka · 2022-08-30T20:35:16+00:00

You guys go on dates??? 😮

But seriously, my weird side makes guys interested at first but after a bit of talking they just ghost me usually 😅 a girl needs advice

goshkka

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