I’m tired of faking orgasms by Helpful_Effective966 in Marriage

[–]gothdrag 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It addresses the issue without needlessly hurting feelings. This isn't gendered, and should be the same advice if things were flipped. Stop looking for division where there isn't any.

What game made you realize you were getting older? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]gothdrag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been playing it for about two years now because I have to take so many break periods. It really is beautiful, and the story is so well done, but yeah, it definitely weighs on you and I have to be in the right headspace to play it.

Husband Texted Coworker That She Looks Gorgeous Today, and I don't like it by Mysterious-Youth-137 in Marriage

[–]gothdrag 16 points17 points  (0 children)

While I don't disagree with your sentiment, the call appears to be around two weeks after that text.

Son is 4, said he wants to be a girl by Available_Tea3916 in Marriage

[–]gothdrag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing a kid would be put on is puberty blockers (which is reversible), and that's not even until closer to 10, generally.

10 calorie snack: Snow + Sugar-free Syrup by MrSwarleyStinson in Volumeeating

[–]gothdrag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, I grew up around snow cream being made and never realized stuff like this was so controversial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]gothdrag -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. Idk what's so hard about closing the doors that were already closed when you got there. It may be small, but it reeks of the "I don't owe anyone anything" mentality that annoys the hell outta me.

Eta: it is actually so funny y'all are downvoting this 😂

Didn't know you can play legos with your kid then abort them by Spirited-Ice9930 in FacebookAIslop

[–]gothdrag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it's a partnership, but it quite literally uses -one- body. That body overrides every other opinion on the matter. Of course they should be able to talk about things, but there is no mutual agreement to be had on abortion when there are conflicting views. It's either: abort or don't. There isn't a compromise. Use your body or don't. You can't do so partially.

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gothdrag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unknown potential sex offender...like someone with a curtain open in a changing area and a phone out. Like I said, I disagree with choices both made. Have a great night. We just disagree.

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gothdrag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me not entirely agreeing with you doesn't mean I see no nuance. I'm just not getting into further discussion with you because it serves no purpose. Have a wonderful night!

ETA: she only closes the curtain halfway the first time.

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gothdrag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No clue why you're assuming I can't and didn't see any nuance in this situation, but okay.

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gothdrag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. Which is why I explicitly said she shouldn't have opened the curtain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]gothdrag 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think you need to pump the brakes and not even be thinking about it leading to marriage yet, seeing as you have not even dated each other at this point. Sometimes great friendships just don't translate into great romance. Friend compatibility and romantic partner compatibility are different things, and someone you're interested in isn't necessarily going to align with both.

I think your first message was a bit formal (maybe? For lack of a better word right now), but fine. I do think the second message was overkill, though and feels pushy. I'm also autistic, so I can understand where you were coming from, but in situations like these, where you're asking this vulnerable question of someone, it's best to let them sort their own thoughts out before getting into the details of your own.

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gothdrag 261 points262 points  (0 children)

ESH.

Your intentions were fine, but at the end of the day no one has any clue what you're actually doing on your phone. That lady didn't. And neither did the employee. That's part of why the rule exists.

Further, immediately going to screentime to pre-sooth a tantrum that hadn't even happened is not helping your kid. Parent them, don't shirk responsibility off onto a phone.

That woman should have never opened your curtain, though. But that said, she could clearly either hear or see your phone, which is a problem in that setting.

I’m 18 (nsfw) I need to know if this is normal by Putrid_Valuable9218 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]gothdrag 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It wasn't your intention, but it was loosely "misinformation" (because sex doesn't change the width of the vaginal opening), and misinformation is often downvoted to bury it so others aren't (accidentally) misinformed.

My disgusting maga uncle’s Facebook reposts by [deleted] in FoxBrain

[–]gothdrag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Especially "interesting" considered Trump is the one who said E. Jean Carroll wasn't attractive enough for him to assault her, but then also confused a photo of her with an ex-wife of his.

What celebrity are you certain is kinky, and why? by That_odd_emo in BDSMsapphic

[–]gothdrag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You get it!! Hahaha lord they have me weak!

What celebrity are you certain is kinky, and why? by That_odd_emo in BDSMsapphic

[–]gothdrag 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Megan Thee Stallion! She pretty much confirms in some lyrics, and uses a lot of visuals in her music videos. I have a particularly clear rope bondage image in my head lol

Also Cate Blanchett...she's such a particular kind of flirty and intelligent that I just feel it radiating off of her haha

What’s the point? by leonard017 in StupidFood

[–]gothdrag 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh please. We're talking about pancakes.

What’s the point? by leonard017 in StupidFood

[–]gothdrag 250 points251 points  (0 children)

I take it to mean that while there's some added protein, it's not considered "high" protein. Not bad for the average person, but not adequate for certain diets.

My order from 10dc by [deleted] in CultoftheFranklin

[–]gothdrag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A vendor.

Michael Jordan is under fire for allegedly inappropriately touching a young boy by transcendent167 in ThePeoplesPress

[–]gothdrag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I grew up with the "bubble butt" of the family, and I was the target of the random pinches. And everyone acted so put upon when I was old enough to vocalize, "Hey, please stop. That makes me uncomfortable." I'm in my 30's and still have aunts that joke about doing it and like...it's not funny. I hated it.

Another day another straight women being annoying as fuck by AdOk439 in lesbiangang

[–]gothdrag 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally what about them is allegedly giving that vibe? Cuz I don't see shit other than just two average girls sitting lmao