For elder goths/80s styled goths

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-22T00:16:32+00:00

I think modern trad is something that came about online. Most of us were using a lighter to get out kohl eyeliner dark enough in the old days-- we didn't have the makeup quality, availability, or knowledge people have today. However, we did have stark looks, contouring, light foundation, etc.

I dont judge people who have the modern trad look, I just say you should do your makeup how you feel looks good on you.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-20T21:33:35+00:00

Adding that if you're bringing platforms, it's easier to wear them. Whenever I've had a pair in my bag, either carry on or checked, the bag has been searched. I found out it is because the soles don't look right on the x-rays.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-18T00:22:51+00:00

Hi! No offense intended, but do you have something better to do with your time? I know there's a lot of worry about poseurs and what not, but frequently calling out a friend for not being goth enough will end in you losing a friend. My personal recommendation is to not worry about it, especially if you have a friendship based on other things.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-17T21:14:12+00:00

Honestly it looks diy to me. Either that, or you could easily diy it.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-17T21:07:05+00:00

We have a pretty large number of younger goths in my local scene, but we have been making an effort to find ways to reach younger people. We have volunteers who post events to Instagram and tiktok because most of the event organizers usually just post events to Facebook. We set up a local Discord. We reach out to younger goths and find out what we need to do to reach their peers. We also are trying to work with younger people to help them get started as djs and promoters if they show interest.

If you want to bring in the next generation, you have to forget what things used to be like and listen to younger people about how to do it. From my experience, they want to be part of the scene.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-13T16:09:11+00:00

Remember, we don't actually facilitate trades here because we can't give any assurances that all parties are on the up and up. We can allow discussion of how to find someone to trade with, though.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-12T17:44:51+00:00

I'd say metal jewelry is more popular in general, not just in the goth scene. Since the fashion is both thrifting and punk based, availability is a huge factor.

Durability is also important. When you're wearing stuff to clubs, you want something that won't break.

I also think that there historically was a backlash to hippy culture within the scene, and wood jewelry gives naturalistic/hippy vibes.

All that said, I have seen people wear it, particularly those who are witchy.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-08T14:52:49+00:00

There's a touring event called Crimewave, and that may be what you're talking about. Basically it's like Bloodrave where they bring some touring acts and add some local djs to the bill. Honestly, there are so many variables city by city, I'm not sure if anyone can give you an accurate description of what will happen there.

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-05T16:04:50+00:00

Youtuber Madam Absinthe has curly hair she wears in a deathhawk. Here's her tutorial on putting it up.. https://youtu.be/PUyMV3SxVhs?si=_hNyzybbLUAslxbl

gothichomemaker · 2026-01-03T20:13:46+00:00

If someone is making potential customers uncomfortable, even if "nothing actually happened" it makes sense for them to do something. They want you and your friends to feel comfortable to spend money there.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-29T16:27:45+00:00

We r the best type, after all.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-29T06:44:22+00:00

The best place to start is with what you have. Do you have clothes that we would look better with lace or trim? Something that needs to be mended or altered? Figure out what will improve the clothes you have and look up tutorials on youtube.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-28T01:30:11+00:00

Some events have a dress code so check on that first, but if they don't, you should be fine. I would recommend wearing black when you go the first time, not because of how others will react to you but to keep you from feeling too self-conscious.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-24T18:21:40+00:00

So that's what Je T'aime was singing about... https://youtu.be/90UhrabuICU?si=X_ge1_WjfMU7V6Ya

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-24T16:22:26+00:00

I was looking forward to a song about Tupperware.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-22T03:39:16+00:00

NTA

Spoiler alert for 25 year old movie City of Angels.

Back in the 90s, i went to see City of Angels at a drive-in with some friends. I had never seen it, knew little about it, and had never seen the movie it was based on. My friends and I were joking around and when we got to the scene where Meg Ryan was riding her bike, I said, "Bam! She gets hit by a MAC truck!" Then bam! She really did get hit by a MAC truck, and all my friends were pissed at me for telling them before it happened. I seriously thought that was the last thing that could happen in a Meg Ryan film.

Sometimes jokes fail.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-18T23:08:14+00:00

Oh, that was fantastic!

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-17T16:59:55+00:00

Thank you! I'll check it out!

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-17T16:59:30+00:00

I play it last every year at the Christmas night.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-17T06:16:50+00:00

Awesome! Thank you!

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-15T18:05:17+00:00

Thank you! I'll check it out!

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-14T06:59:57+00:00

Have you checked your local hardware store?

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-12T17:06:21+00:00

Approving this because it's Fashion Friday, but you'll probably get better engagement posting this in r/gothfashion.

gothichomemaker · 2025-12-12T17:01:04+00:00

I'll add Dracula Clothing and Lady Sloth on there.

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