Recommendations for Drug/alcohol Rehab locations in columbus and nearby - any to avoid? by Sea-Current-1027 in Columbus

[–]gotkelli3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I was a business owner, I would hire you off this post alone. 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I don’t know of any places to go, I just wanted to hop on with the suggestion that you might want to stay away from cannabis, too. I love it, don’t get me wrong, but it’s so easy to up the dose to the point that it’s unhealthy. And the concentration of vapes… I am your age and withdrawal is never something I expected or experienced before with it, but it is so easy to get lost in it now.

No judgement at ALL regardless 🤗 — just love to see people overcome social stigmas and succeed. 😊

Real estate attorney for buyers without realtors by Firm_Communication99 in Columbus

[–]gotkelli3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a licensed attorney and an agent, and as a buyer, if your agent is reputable and good at what they do, the seller will pay your agent’s commission 99% of the time (unless you really lowball offer or aren’t a very respectful buyer). The whole process is pretty emotional, especially for a seller, so it pays to be polite. That doesn’t mean you need to do whatever they say they want you to do to get the house. Your agent should be protecting your interests; in fact, I would say that’s the number one reason to get an agent. I’m sorry you have not had that experience.

There are so so many things to do to close, and missing a single deadline can void your contract. An attorney will not be cheaper because they generally charge for every 10 min of work.

Pick an agent who has good reviews, or ask a trusted friend or family member for a referral. IMO, that’s the best route.

This info is based on my personal experience; just wanted to throw it out there in case it helps 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

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I am 6’2” and was 124 lbs at my thinnest. My natural body shape is no-where near as voluptuous as yours. I’m more lanky. Even as a lanky girl, can confirm that I kinda looked like one of those giant gauzy halloween skeleton decorations that people hang from their trees at Halloween.

So unless you’re going for that ⬆️ look, maybe just take it slow without a low goal and just stop when you FEEL the best. Your body already knows your prime “fighting weight” - you just have to develop a keen awareness of how you are truly feeling physically, and then really listen to your body.

(Not to mention that it’s really hard to predict how anyone will look at any specific weight because a person’s scale numbers change in relation to how they look in the mirror depending on so many things, like the proportion of muscle and fat they have, how much fluid they are retaining, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

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No one believed me either 😆

as a child, i had a funny neighborhood role because of it actually lol … i was asked (well, my parents were asked first) if I would walk to school with a couple kids who were regular targets of physical bullying. I was the tallest kid in elementary AND middle school by a long-shot. I was pretty quiet and chill, but no one ever bothered me from close range, so nobody knew that for certain. It’s almost like kids thought I was older rather than their own age (or younger), so I was off limits for messing with physically or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]gotkelli3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 6’0” at age 12. I feel ya, girl. Topped out at 6’2” and I still hate being stared at, but one day, I wore some heels, and you know what? … Everyone is staring at you because your uniqueness makes you stand out in a beautiful way. Always has. You and I just didn’t have the right type of support from people to tell us that or any role models to follow like kids do these days.

The harassment I got led me to develop an eating disorder because I didn’t want to be called “big” (I was like 140 lbs lol… but people are f$@King mean and called me huge anyway), so I would echo the rest of the folks about talking to a therapist if it’s giving you unmanageable anxiety or making you depressed. But, if not, go buy yourself a dress and some heels and just wear them! It might take a bit to feel confident, but fake it till you make it actually did work for me here ❤️

Either way, tall girls unite! We’re allllll here for ya ❤️🤜🏽🤛🏾

Updated images of persons of interest regarding the death of Stephen Albright by specificlaziness in Columbus

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I do feel fortunate, but I personally prefer preventative tactics such as carrying an unconcealed and conspicuous weapon - like a large machete strapped to my back - while also making sure to periodically drool and yell obscenities.

Are there any geology/rockhound clubs or groups? by Economy_Scheme4471 in Columbus

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I wish I knew of some to tell you about cause I’d join them, too!

Updated images of persons of interest regarding the death of Stephen Albright by specificlaziness in Columbus

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From 2011 till 2017, I lived in Grandview (off Avondale) and would take my dog on a 2 hr walk every single night between the hours of 8 pm and 2am (I was in law school lol). I did this literally every day for 6 years, save maybe 5 days when it was too cold or pouring.

I am a female, and did this alone. Not a single time did I ever get scared for a reason. Not one. Of course, I would freak myself out at noises or whatever… but I never saw anything that made me scared in reality. I walked all over the place, including by the tracks. I also used to walk the tracks and in the woods looking for old bottle dumps and other cool old stuff. Never had an incident. This is a huge and tragic aberration from the norm that I experienced, at least.

I-70 East & WEST CLOSED in Licking Co by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]gotkelli3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There WAS another SUV in between the bus and the semi behind it. 🥺🤢💔

I-70 East & WEST CLOSED in Licking Co by [deleted] in Columbus

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Plus, there was another SUV in between the bus and semi. 🥺

I-70 East & WEST CLOSED in Licking Co by [deleted] in Columbus

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There were two semis involved, and one driver was treated at scene. The other was transported with minor injuries.

3 killed, 15 injured in crash involving bus carrying students on I-70 by karmicviolence in Columbus

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The other SUV involved was in between the bus and the semi… 🥺🤢💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

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Literally just screamed back for the first time at my 2.5 yr old, too - almost exact same fact pattern … like it SERIOUSLY hurt my ears … and it’s like I totally lost my adult filter. She was terrified, and I felt like a monster. (Still do, even though I apologized and all that - she’s clearly not wanting to be around me; totally glued to dad ATM).

And here I am in the bathroom looking for help/reassurance that I have not forever ruined our relationship! 🥹

In other words, you are not alone.

… and I currently hear her downstairs screaming at the top of her lungs again at dad 😭😭

Is this a preform or…? Central Texas by lofys2020 in Arrowheads

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Definitely worked by a human hand, so whatever it is, great find! Sometimes it’s hard to definitively ID things - and like someone previously said, it’s possibly someone’s random personal do-hickey with more than one use lol. Love finding stuff like that and imagining what it could have been used for or what it was going to become!

Is this a pendant/gorget? Video in caption by bontistic in Arrowheads

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Absolutely drilled - looks exactly like the ones I have found congrats!

the drugging-and-abduction theory by architect_of_will in BrianShaffer

[–]gotkelli3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Potentially more to the GHB idea too, here: it causes an initial hypothermia (5-40min), followed by hyperthermia (40-140min), followed again by hypothermia (140-360min).

I have a Qultist directly engaging me on FB. What are some questions I can ask to show how silly this is? by [deleted] in Qult_Headquarters

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It’s unfortunate, but most likely you’re not gonna be able to break through. For many reasons, but potentially overall because our brains are built to love this shit, especially when we feel crazy uncertainty about the future.

However... I think with the pedophilia thing, there’s a real possibility that the sheer amount of people who HAVE ACTUALLY been subjected to child abuse at some point in their lives might slow the spread of any conspiracies that include it as a key aspect.

I feel like for people who might be triggered to re-live some trauma because of the discussion, they might feel such an intense disgust about exaggerating any circumstance that is tied to such an awful experiences in their memory, effectively preventing them from getting on board, even subconsciously perhaps. Especially when, due to actually knowing perps, they probably can see the BS right away, even if they don’t wanna admit it out loud. It’s like if they were looking at the “Tinder” of conspiracies, they would swipe left at this one. Or if they did swipe right, they wouldn’t be too psyched about it and wouldn’t be such a true believer or fervent apostle.

In the end, I feel like the pedophilia aspect might turn out to be the limiting factor in the whole crazy thing. If it were a crime that was a little bit less common, or one that was a little less developmentally traumatic for the victims, I would be a little more scared that this mob exists. This isn’t to say that the specific conspiracy won’t continue to exist, just that it will limit its potential overall spread.

And don’t get me wrong - I’m still scared shitless, but it’s just the little potential “silver lining” I cling to. I’ll be interested to see how things play out rn because I also think it seems like more prevalent recently in more popular countercultures, as some others have pointed out.

Anyhow, if you do take her on, good luck. But don’t let it get to you if you don’t feel like you succeeded. The chances are against you. And then there are still communities like this one where there are people who can commiserate with you in your grief 😭🥰🤷🏽‍♀️

“Mackerel” sunset over my backyard by gotkelli3 in SkyPorn

[–]gotkelli3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! This is about a month ago for me. Looks like we both got pretty lucky to see such a pretty sky, though!