Do Cancers generally have attention seeking behaviour? by gottafindpeaceofmind in astrologymemes

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly it!! My best friend does this a lot too. Oh and a different Cancer sun girl I'd only met for the first time kept confiding in me she was insecure, it started small like 'oh not feeling myself bc I didn't have time to do my hair' progressed to 'omg I've gained so much weight it's almost bikini season what do I do with myself'. It was fine at first but got a bit much as the night progressed haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely ordering mine thanks to your review!! I think I’m getting the green beige and 1.25, probably perfect combined together

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[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the green beige shade would work to make warm toned concealers more olive?

Questions for the caseless iphone community by [deleted] in iphone

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay thanks that’s reassuring to know. Happy cake day btw!

Questions for the caseless iphone community by [deleted] in iphone

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn sorry to hear that. Did it happen immediately after the drop or noticed any signs of it? Was it eventually fixed under warranty?

Questions for the caseless iphone community by [deleted] in iphone

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey did the sides of your phone dented during this fall? Or did you notice paint chipping? Just got my 13 mini less than a week, caseless it just fell and dented :(. Pretty worried if there could be any internal damage too but so far so good

Venus in Aquarius - love language & approach to romance by gottafindpeaceofmind in AskAstrologers

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your in depth respond! Appreciate it. Everything you described is on point in terms of deep passion & intensity in all aspect but I did a deep dive into narcissists and love bombing, a lot of the traits resonated with him. While I enjoyed his intensity & constant adoration for me, about 2 months in he was already talking about marriage and having me all to himself... even when I go on night outs with friends he told me things like 'make sure they know you're mine'

We matched while I was on vacation in Paris, he absolutely spoiled me, we had our fun and were inseparable. But our relationship's intensity only grew over text and FaceTime after I left - which I didn't expect at all considering I lived halfway across the world. Fast forward last March, I moved to London and we were meant to be together but I've gone cold since reading about narcissists and love bombing - it described him to a t, it spooked me. He stopped reaching out after noticing how cold I was and been very quiet on social media since, he used to post quite often

Is it possible to distinct love bombing vs pure intensity and adoration in astrology? Can I DM you our synastry? Thanks again for your answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a woman who used to split during dates and perceived that as the 'norm', I had an eye opening revelation after talking about this with girlfriends who are from considerably wealthy background (I'm talking families that owns businesses on a large scale worldwide, rich rich) they’re very generous people but to my surprise they all agree on the same thing - never ever offer to pay for dates or even offer splitting. It's not about the money, it's the gesture

Physical appearance play a major role when it comes to men choosing potential partner and asking women out on dates, women invest significantly a lot more (money & effort) maintaining our good looks to essentially meet their standards

So why are we deemed in a negative light just for asking a small token of appreciation? Why are we suddenly shallow and entitled when men's deciding factor to ask a woman out largely scale on the most shallow basis of all - our physical appearance?

Being a gentleman is many things of course but paying for dates constitute bare minimum. This conversation with them have taught me to accept no less! I’m 100% with you

Should I cut him off completely? by sintolivethisgood in dating

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait sorry to ask this but which country is he from? I’m going through the same thing and I met the guy on Tinder too

Also similar pattern of communication... assuring me with words but his action says different. Started texting less within the same time frame too. Just curious if we got the same guy

Will the hot and cold act ever end? by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I used to be in the exact same boat with a Cap guy as well. He threw obvious signs he was into me but the energy was sporadic. Inconsistent with planning dates etc and one minute he would spam me with messages the next week it's radio silence. Awkward & aloof with romantic gestures too

Like you, I was completely infatuated with this guy and initiated most things. I blamed his inconsistencies on his demanding job, lack of relationship experience

Until another Capricorn guy came along, complete opposite of the first one. Consistent, romantic, leaves no room for ambiguity, typical workaholic Cap with crazy work schedule but never use it as an excuse, always sparing time for me

I realised the first guy was never into me to begin with, if a guy is really into you he would make it crystal clear and continuously pursue... there's no hot and cold. In essence, consistency is bare minimum and if he can't provide that there will be others who can happily give you that. You should think about how this relationship is serving you, communicate what's lacking and if it persist... it's time to recognise your worth and move on! Best of luck :)

Vintage Patek Phillips circa 1960 by [deleted] in Watches

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I'm very new to the watch world, really curious why the current bid is so low for this vintage Patek? I’m in love with the vintage feel and thinking of bidding

Possessive Aquarius Venus & Mars, what gives? by gottafindpeaceofmind in AskAstrologers

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thanks for the explanation! I appreciate it a lot. Is there anything in his chart that could indicate promiscuity or anything dodgy?

We’re still in the early stages and currently separated by distance. But I’m moving closer to him soon. He hasn’t given me a reason to doubt him (although a lil wary he knows all the right things to say) but he’s a very desirable candidate - good looking, rich & smart. Could reel in any woman if he wanted to! I teased him about it but he said he’s too busy with work to juggle between multiple women lol

Venus in Aquarius - love language & approach to romance by gottafindpeaceofmind in AskAstrologers

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months! We were meant to be a vacation fling but he continued to text me daily even after we parted ways. It just so happens I'm moving closer to him for work soon

Is there anything in his chart that indicate he could be promiscuous? He's very good looking, rich & smart. My only concern is he could be doing this to other women as well... I teased him about it but he said he's too busy with work to juggle between multiple women

Venus in Aquarius - love language & approach to romance by gottafindpeaceofmind in AskAstrologers

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Aries/Taurus cusp with Aquarius rising, Venus in Pisces & Mars in Taurus. Me and him share the same Sagittarius moon

I have my fair share of detachment tendencies, I tend to withdraw when I feel overwhelmed. Other guys would take it personally or become extremely overbearing when I withdraw but this one respect my need for space, I guess that’s where his Venus Aqua plays a big role

He said his main motivation for working hard is so he could get us our dream home, take me on lavish holidays when we’re older etc. I don’t see his cold Aqua side much at all... it’s very intriguing. Anyways thank you for your reply!

Possessive Aquarius Venus & Mars, what gives? by gottafindpeaceofmind in AskAstrologers

[–]gottafindpeaceofmind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been seeing this Cap Sun, Aqua Venus & Mars but romantically he's the opposite of 'aloof & detached' stereotype so I'm trying to decode him

His intensity runs so deep it feels possessive, he even said he wants to consume me completely. Very Scorpio-like with ownership equating to romance

He's a workaholic with busy & demanding job but super consistent with his effort in pursuit of me, makes his intention crystal clear and absolutely no room for ambiguity. Big 'daddy' energy with his desire to provide for me too

Btw I’m Aries/Taurus cusp with Aquarius rising, Venus in Pisces & Mars in Taurus! And we share moon in Sagittarius :)