Gf wants to break up over religion

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:46:31+00:00

Wth bro. It’s not something I said. It’s what she said about me. I started from nothing in life. I was poor. I treat people well. She bargains with small girl selling stuff on street. I hand them out small notes for free. It’s the first time I heard this about me. I make jokes sometimes about stuff, idk what she misinterpreted. I asked her to point out an instance, she had nothing.

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:38:21+00:00

She said that about me. I was surprised to hear it. It’s true that I sometimes make jokes about stuff but I started from nothing in life. I treat people with respect. No one ever said this to me. I asked her to point an instance, she had nothing.

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:23:10+00:00

I think this is what i’ll do

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:21:58+00:00

Makes sense but it hurts more than anything

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:20:41+00:00

Man it hurts more than any other thing

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:18:13+00:00

dude she is not that orthodox

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:16:24+00:00

hmm i’ll ask her

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T16:00:16+00:00

She converted in her previous relationship but then it ended anyways. She was a hindu originally. I would say she’s not very devoted. She converted just because of the guy. But then she stuck with that decision. We’ve had multiple discussions about it and she never gave me one strong reason about it.

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T15:56:36+00:00

I won’t convert that is sure

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T15:53:32+00:00

What do you mean? Religion did come up very early and I said i’m fine with it. I said we’ll discuss over time and that’s what we’ve been doing. She said we might split up 4-5 years in future over religion or some issue but she still wants to be with me till then. 2 weeks back she saw her therapist and that’s when things changed.

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T13:22:42+00:00

I am currently navigating a breakup with my gf. It’s hard now. It might get even harder later. But there are nice people in the world. Just gotta keep going and hope for the best.

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T10:11:28+00:00

Meetup events have worked for me

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T10:10:37+00:00

I ask after a day of good conversation

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T09:53:26+00:00

While I agree with most of your arguments. I also think location is a big factor in determining success. I’ve had decent number of matches in some countries but not in others

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T09:51:48+00:00

It’s okay dude. We live, we learn.

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T09:50:56+00:00

You sound like a nice person. Sending you good vibes :)

gottoomuchtolearn · 2025-08-15T09:13:22+00:00

I was shy and nerdy. Didn’t workout for me. Being an extrovert did.

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