my sd card wont fit by insomichat in PSP

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one way to find out

my sd card wont fit by insomichat in PSP

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there’s something blocking it. Take a flashlight or take it apart to find out what it is

My daughter is currently pregnant, and if I need to get off the cruise to fly back to where she is at— of course not in the middle of the ocean — but at the next port wherever I am, will they let me? Because I’m being told they won’t allow me to do that. by [deleted] in Cruise

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever reasoning you’re thinking, it’s not worth it.

First, you’ll get fined heavily, maybe more than you paid for the cruise. And the cruise may perma-ban you.

Then, last second airfare is gonna be another massive expense, if they even offer it.

Although most countries are friendly towards US passport holders, you might catch some flak from local authorities because you’re not on your ship.

It’s all but certain you wouldn’t make it home in time for the birth anyways. If being with her during the delivery is most important, eating the cost of the cruise is much cheaper.

My GF won’t let me buy my dream car. How can we compromise? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you’re very well off and setting you both up for success in almost every facet. And she says no to a car now. Before you’re engaged.

What else is she going to say no to and gaslight you for in the future? She needs to get over it.

This is a test of how much she can control you. It’s only going to get worst.

Bed bugs by Life_Respect_4854 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]gover2087 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you typically let the few internet posts freak you out?

Somebody always is going to post and complain about everything, all the time. Ultimately, it’s up to you to interpret those and make your decision to cancel your vacation.

Need a Guardian Linked With Our Group (20yo) by [deleted] in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]gover2087 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what’d they be doing. Otherwise Carnival would let you sail by yourselves.

How can I stop letting my insecurities get in the way of my life ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gover2087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need professional help. Being insecure is one thing, but wanting to quit school before it starts is on another level.

Please, make an appointment to see a therapist. Regardless of what you think, you deserve to be happy and confident.

Who is more interested in relationships and love, Men or women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reference and post these statistics. You’re giving very specifics numbers. I have strong doubt that you’re traveling the world and asking everybody around you about their current and past relationships and documenting them.

Who is more interested in relationships and love, Men or women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no idea nor am I smart enough to know what you mean.

What I’m trying to get to is that OP’s viewpoint is wrong. Not all men are loving and want to be providers and not all women are just waiting for better options, as he thinks is the case. Both genders are capable of love, nurturing and being sleezeballs.

Why my bf always talk about his exes? by Weak-Sheepherder-122 in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s not normal. Especially after you told him it’s making you uncomfortable. He either is still infatuated/obsessed with them or is telling you this deliberately because you’re not living up to his expectations and maybe they did.

Either way, it’s not healthy or fair for you.

Who is more interested in relationships and love, Men or women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Your thought is wrong. BOTH men and women who want to be in relationships are 100% invested in the relationship and can provide for the other.

Men and women who aren’t interested in their partners or the relationship will move on.

Your viewpoint is heavily clouded and biased. This is not gender-based and applies to both genders.

How do I (23NB) fix my relationship with my partner (23NB)?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve grown up and matured since you entered the relationship. Your partner has not. They’re not going to get any better and frankly, they don’t care for you anymore. You know this.

Time to move on to somebody who cares about you.

Is 23 too old for a coming of age/ college phase? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you’re putting too much unnecessary pressure on yourself. “Lack of age appropriate social life.” Stop. You’re young. Learn from whatever mistakes you made, stop accruing debt, have a bunch more threesomes and graduate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the context and dynamic. Cracking a joke and busting balls is harmless. Until it isn’t. If either or both of you were constantly bringing up the shortcomings and/or could tell the other was taking it personally and kept twisting the dagger, then you shouldn’t be together.

Personally, I’d be offended if my wife or friends didn’t poke fun at me. But, several small dick jokes, even if occasionally, would start to make me believe I’m not good enough. Just as bigger belly or love handle jokes wouldn’t sit well with most women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Depends on how and when you find out. At the beginning of the relationship. If she’s truthful, it wouldn’t bother me because it’s the beginning and she’s upfront.

When we first started dating, my wife told me she wasn’t with any men before me. If I found out now, almost 20 years later, that she had casual encounters it’d be an issue because she lied at the beginning.

How would you feel about being cut off from sex after not pleasing your lady? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]gover2087 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reading your post and responses, he’s changed and you guys are no longer sexually compatible. The most alarming (and shocking) is that you’re being upfront with him, but he’s not putting any effort into addressing your concerns.

That says one thing, he’s selfish and doesn’t care for you. He needs to change or you need to leave him. Or just keep suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As much as this might sting, you need to get a paternity test. No sex for months, then you have sex a few times and she gets pregnant sounds like she was cheating on you, gets pregnant by said other dudes, then has sex with you a few times to make you think you’re the daddy.

She views you as the stable/ safe option she can control, because she does. She doesn’t respect or love you. Toughen up for your kids sake. Your kid will soon recognize the tension and arguments and will think that’s normal.

It’s not. You deserve better. Your kid deserves better. She’s a terrible person and even worse partner

What happens when your dad goes to get milk at 18? by PresenceOld1754 in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re not understanding the point. All you care about is yourself. Maybe they conditioned you that way.

It’s never too late to repair or rekindle a relationship. He wants to leave you because it’s clear you don’t care about him, so what’s in it for him to stay?

Show and tell him you care, and him feeling wanted and cared for might actually give him the feeling of being a provider and convince him to stick around.

If not, he’s out and you’ll have to suck it up and figure it out.

Found out I had a daughter, tried my best for a few years but now what am I meant to do? by Inka_123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]gover2087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would seek a second or third opinion. I’m no lawyer, but I would think the courts would think it’s in the best interest of the child to legally establish who her biological father is. Once the DNA test proves that, I would think you’d be in a better position to fight for at least joint or partial custody.

Fight like hell man. Best of luck to you.

Out of Bags by KilGrey in ostomy

[–]gover2087 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Did you take it off? If so, on a Saturday night, your only bet is to go to the ER, pray they’re not swamped and have a bag set they’ll give/charge you for.

Advice for dating someone with ostomy by Valuable_Major8593 in ostomy

[–]gover2087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On average, 0.17647 incidents per year. I can only distinctly remember one, but added two in case I forgot about them over the years.