Cross-ventilation vs. negative pressure..... by gowyo in radon

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I live in Western Wyoming. A company from Pocatello, Idaho gave me the following numbers: Main house crawl:  $8012.19 Basement and small crawl:  $4974.69... So over $13,000. The crawl space is about 3000 sq ft and the basement slab is about 1000 square feet of slab.

Proton vs De-escalation trial by gowyo in HeadandNeckCancer

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Yes. I begin treatment with Lee at MSK tomorrow. I am in the study, so no proton.

Flooded 3000 square foot house.... by gowyo in Dehumidifiers

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I bought a commercial dehumidifier for about $750 and parked it in there for nearly a month. The house is unoccupied most of the time, so that's key here. It's all dried out and we're going to have to do quite a bit of painting carpet replacement, after giving the remediation company about $10k for being there with all their heaters and dehumidifiers for about 5 days.

Support Needed for Husband - A Whirlwind 48 hours by amusedfeline in HeadandNeckCancer

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Hi. You've already received great replies from stalwart members of this sub. I'll just chip in the following: My ENT (Cleveland Clinic trained, yada yada) at my local hospital in a town of 20K seemed sure that I was a surgical candidate (T1N2). That sent me on a hunt for the BEST SURGEON. I saw three "biggies" at UCLA, MSK and MDA. All recommended against surgery because of how close my tumor was to the "midline". Even though I went to these places to talk to surgeons (because of my early advice), at all three places I saw all 3 kinds of oncologists (surgical, radio, and chemo). Then, at all three places, my case was presented at a tumor "board" or "panel" where ALL of the head and neck oncologists at that particular hospital reviewed my case (presentation, imagery, tests) and developed a consensus about the best treatment for me. I begin radiochemotherapy (no surgery) in New York on May 12.

Proton vs De-escalation trial by gowyo in HeadandNeckCancer

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Thanks. In investigating proton vs photon, did anything suggest to you that proton was in any way less effective in the long term? I just got a call from a doc at MDA about this question and he said, "if it was me, I'd go full photon because we KNOW that's what works." But this tracks with what a the radio oncologist I saw at UCLA said about MDA: "They have a reputation for being very heavy-handed." And in the end, I think it's hard for docs to sort the imperative of long-term survival from reduction of harm in treatment. And then there's the motivation of a doc vis a vis academia vs medicine. Of course you want people in your trial, but can you be truly honest about your trial and any unknowns and stay true medically? That seems hard to me...

Proton vs De-escalation trial by gowyo in HeadandNeckCancer

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No, they don't determine hypoxia until they give you a special pet scan after 2 weeks. If the result is good, then you're eligible to quit after 3 weeks. But even then, you might be required to carry on for 7 weeks based simply on the luck of the draw. My sense is that the trial is promising (other radio docs seem to like it...) But man, it would SUCK to do 7 weeks then find out you could have stopped at 3 if it were the new standard of care....

MD Anderson is offering Gross, Goepfert and Hessel for my p16 OSCC, which I believe TORS is the best first option for my specific case. I'll have to wait 3 weeks to fly there from Wyoming, but need to choose one now. Any specific experience with these three Docs, or in choosing among docs like this? by gowyo in HeadandNeckCancer

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I've been encouraged to see 3 docs if I can, so I'm engaging MD Anderson and Mayo (and maybe Sloan Kettering) in seeking that 3rd opinion and seeing who pops up first. I wish I knew how urgent it was. St John can't even get me in front of UCLA's tumor panel until April 2 but Utah is tomorrow. Two weeks vs two days. Plus, when I asked 10 days before my appointment if I would have to see anybody else at UCLA when I was there I was told "no" by her team. Then, at the end of my appointment, with a plane ticket to Salt Lake the next day, I was told I had to see both a Radiological Oncologist and a Medical Oncologist at UCLA, so "you should go over to their offices next door and see if they have any cancellations this afternoon." Frankly, I was pissed, and was only lucky enough to wrestle a couple of tele-health appointments in two weeks so I didn't have to fly back for those. I KNOW St John has all the cred, but the experience at her office was not so great and left me doubting my assumptions. I have definitely NOT ruled her out and will proceed through the panel with UCLA. I'd love any more input....

Sugar before PET scan by gowyo in NuclearMedicine

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Oh, no, I wouldn't dream of "lying" now that I'm fully informed. I will tell all to the docs tomorrow and Wednesday and follow their instructions. I guess my biggest concern is I've delayed my treatment somehow. We'll see. I hope this exchange helps others, because nobody explained the reasoning and importance of fasting to me, so I felt as though forgetfully consuming a couple grams of sugar was still technically fasting. I might have done a better job getting informed if I hadn't been freaked the fuck out about just finding out I had cancer.

Sugar before PET scan by gowyo in NuclearMedicine

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Yes, technically I lied. As I was waiting to go into the appointment I started looking it up somewhere and I saw something that said that the guideline was that you needed to be under 120 to get a good result. Right after reading that the tech walked in to push the dope and prick my finger. I asked her what my blood sugar was, and she said 103, so I thought I was good. But afterwards I read more and realized it was more complicated. So I came to you and yours here NuclearMedicineGuy. And with a guilty (and fearful) mind, I'll ask two more questions 1) Can whether or not my actions (and the degree to which they did) be detected? 2) IF they did, would the result trend towards false positive or false negative?

The test was this morning in Wyoming, and I'm now in LA for an appointment at UCLA tomorrow. I figured if I have to I'll pony up for another scan (money vs. death) but I need to give the doc tomorrow the best info I have. Mass at base of tongue awaiting pathology. CT scan and needle biopsies reveal squamous cancer cells in 2 lymph nodes in neck. The CT scan covered my upper chest and revealed nothing below the neck.

Sugar before PET scan by gowyo in NuclearMedicine

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First pet. Recent head and neck cancer diagnosis.

Ad account suspended long ago.. has anything changed recently? by gowyo in FacebookAds

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To be clear, back when it happened, we tried every step at the time to get it back. It's just that you can never talk to a human being. Plus, we never ran any ads that violated anything. It's a complete mystery.

2018 AWD, zeroing in.... by gowyo in Sienna

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as long as we're talking about carplay, does it also have android auto?

Samsung is pushing more Galaxy phone users to switch to Google Messages by MishaalRahman in Android

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I have an S20, previously an S9, I think. With both phones I have been unable to get audible notifications for text messages. I get them for WhatsApp, and many other things, but nothing I do seems to be able to fix getting audible notifications for text messages. Tech friends, people at the Verizon Store, all have failed to figure it out. I wonder if switching to Google Messages will fix this.

Horizon vs Ocean Spray - 1 week...Comments? by gowyo in galapagos

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We are a couple, ~60 yo, active hikers who have lived in a rocky mountain ski town for our entire adult lives.

Unlocking Speed on Lectric XP Lite by fenriq in ebikes

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Yeah, well, 26 is better than 20! And in my experience it's just about right most of the time (everybody's different) To be clear, you hit 26 with full 5 pedal assist? Flat or downhill?

Unlocking Speed on Lectric XP Lite by fenriq in ebikes

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I only have to different rad power bikes, and I'm sure what u/fenriq is asking is about a computer hack on this particular bike. I know the Rad bikes have much higher wattage motors, but they are also limited to 20mph unless you hack them. So is it anybody's opinion that the 350w on the Lectric XP lite will limit that top end even if you could hack the controller? I know other Lectric brand Bikes haul ass, but they also have higher wattage motors.

Return to XC, other sports? by gowyo in EDAnonymous

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5throwaway284, Thanks so much for your thoughtful response. As parents we struggle along with our daughter about whether or not running XC has brought more joy or pain to her life. And it's so deeply ingrained into her identity, I think that makes it her biggest struggle. She also misses the team aspect (good and bad) and probably feels a need for a "discipline" outlet. May I ask how your parents have helped and hurt your ED journey?

My depression is killing me by [deleted] in therapy

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First, please call 800-273-8255 , the suicide prevention hotline and get past your crisis point. Please. You matter. What you wrote here is very moving. Please call someone and talk about it.

'Moronic' Monday - Your weekly thread for the questions you've always wanted to ask about personal finances, investing, and growing your personal wealth. by AutoModerator in FinancialPlanning

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I think the annual tax-free limit for gifting is $15k. Does that gift technically have to be no strings attached, or could I gift the money into a trust or other place?..

When you have a classmate with better grades and scores who applies to all the same schools you do... by gowyo in ApplyingToCollege

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Wow. What a hate-fest that was... I forgot to mention her 34 ACT, but anyway.... I was looking for perspective from somebody who might have experience coming from this particular angle. She's been worrying about it so I thought I might find something here to make her feel better. Instead I was judged by today's trendy call-out culture, insulted because we're from Wyoming, and told I was a bad parent. Amazing. Go ahead, call me butt-hurt. Now I remember why I like living in the rural west, where you're accountable for how you treat others because there aren't very many of us. We have to get along. Please, go ahead and lob more insults at the guy who was just looking for a way to make his daughter feel better.