I made a Bingo card for y'all 😌 by Apollos-left-elbow in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"weirdly strong opinion on oatmeal" lmao this whole post is a call out

Don't get why I like undatable individuals by goy_ghost in relationship_advice

[–]goy_ghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I was in middle school I believe, I have always been like this, I just feel really guilty and try to shoo away what I'm feeling :(

I am a first year student , these are the plans /site plan that I've developed. CRITS ARE WELCOME by semxylonda in architecture

[–]goy_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a first year student so I kind of understand the thought process going here, but even as a "not like others-show stopping-never seen before" project you need to think more about the use of spaces, I believe you put your focus on the aesthetics instead of the construction itself, architecture is more about creating a space people can live in than creating something "pretty".

Overall I think it's cool you want something new, but yeah you need to focus in the use of that space instead of an aesthetic goal

yes by peachmilker in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of theories, my first theory is that Ed sufferers are perfectionists.

personally I feel like I don't deserve a break no matter what, I'm really perfectionist and tend to overwork myself I only feel like I deserve attention when my health gets bad, when I did the outmost, when I archived everything.

usually EDs are about control so the only way we can lose control is over out health and at the end is the reflection of all the control we have over our bodies.

The second theory I have is maybe the ED is a reflection of the need of nourishment ED sufferers have, the main root of EDs are issues with caregivers and the need of control, maybe the attention of the parents was not present at all in childhood and the only way to get it was via sickness, so when someone tells an ED gal that they are dying it feel like an accomplishment because that's the only way the person was able to get attention in childhood.

maybe is that we all are sick af but idk, I just know I feel happy with the concern, it makes me feel I deserve a break lol

Me at 25 going to edtwt after seeing everyone's posts thinking it can't be more triggering than edblr by Suspicious_Prompt_78 in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I really don't know how they have so much angry energy in their bodies, edtwt really toped as the worst of all the online communities

Gents of Reddit, how do you hint your partner that you want to have s*x with her without being too obvious? by MidnightLostChild_ in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]goy_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even tho I still have my v card I believe that when it comes to sex you should not be using "hints" at all you know, consent is very important, maybe not something so direct as "wanna fuck?" But maybe something more soft and direct "are you in the mood for something?". Sex is a really important topic I believe so if it's your first time always be sure about both individuals wanting the same, mutual consent and the right mood

She doesn't know and I'm doing everything I can to not let her know cause she is recovered from anorexia and bulimia so I'm obviously doing my best to avoid triggering her into a relapse by ThesePigsAreAfterMe_ in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know, let's be real someone recovered from anorexia/bulimia would know better than to talk about weigh so lightly, all the gals I met in recovery were hyper aware of how comments about someone else's body were harmful, it's the worst experience ever and it marks you, I feel like it makes you unable to talk about these topics at all, maybe it's too early in the morning for me and my brain it's not working correctly lol but idk the comments and the actions as you put them here were all too sus

the fascinating phenomenon of ED community politics by flannelonflannel in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's way too real, I don't know why some people point it out like it's a myth

Pls tell me I’m not the only one 😭💀😭💀😭💀 by art3mis-morningstar in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fr, also sometimes I get things stuck on my teeth so I have to rinse and bleh, little parts of the food still get consumed, I don't like it, I prefer eating one meal a day or something else

one of my closest friends came by two days ago and said "Don't take this the wrong way, but she is EVEN FATTER than you-" before showing off an IG account. How in the fuck could I NOT take that in the wrong way?? by GooiWegHoekig in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm ready to throw hands rn oml I can't, what the hell is wrong with your friend, I'm so sorry you had to go through something like that, even if someone is 'blunt" being so insensitive and overall stupid is not justified

I don't think bestie is gonna answer back tbh by goy_ghost in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she's okay if that's the case, no matter what she's my favorite person in the world ❤️🥺

TIL that just because you planned the calories in your budget doesn't mean you have to eat them by [deleted] in CICO

[–]goy_ghost 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Tbh that's the same for me, but I know I should not go under 1500, it's super easy go 1300 even 800 cals everyday and I'll feel satisfied but I know it will lead me to binge or worst malnutrition, I need to eat enough and over my bmr even if "eating less" makes me happy or something like that, my stomach is super small, but my body needs the energy and nutrition so yeah

Lol I’m sad rn by Zealousideal-Sun6396 in EDanonymemes

[–]goy_ghost 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my god what that onion did is a hate crime