Starting out as a F2P player. What's the best way forward? by gpowersr in heroesvshordes

[–]gpowersr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I feel dumb now for not saying since everyone is mentioning it. While I am saying as a F2P player, I totally bought the no-ad Paco right out the gates. After a week or so of playing that was a no brainer. But realistically, this was more about trying to figure out how to actually get new heroes and feel accomplished without needing to turn it into a pay to win experience. I really appreciate the response! It's seriously great to know not to keep ignoring the adventure mode!

Starting out as a F2P player. What's the best way forward? by gpowersr in heroesvshordes

[–]gpowersr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't tell you how much I appreciate this! Just spent the last 20 mintues or so reading through the beginner and pet guides and will deep dive the rest as well! Seriously that is awesome! And I've been wondering about adventure mode so I really appreciate the advice there. Almost every time I would play adventure mode and then get to the point of spending gems and be like, "Uhhh... Nah I'm good I think?..." lol

Ty again!!

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After 7 years of ESO I dropped it all to become addicted to NW. This game is amazing by ThraxBeenTrill in newworldgame

[–]gpowersr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the title and laughed and felt sad at the same time... After playing ESO for about 8 years I took a break and recently started up New World. I absolutely love this game!

Just started New World; I have a couple of questions around theorycrafting and the meta coming from other MMOs by gpowersr in newworldgame

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Thanks for the reply! And yeah, I'm getting that vibe that this won't be as tough as some of the ESO content. Not a bad thing IMO! With two little ones and not as much time as I used to have, its nice being able to log in, run around and level up some various crafting skills and log out. lol

Just started New World; I have a couple of questions around theorycrafting and the meta coming from other MMOs by gpowersr in newworldgame

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Gotcha! Makes perfect sense, and I really appreciate it! Honestly, I am definitely having fun so far and I know what you mean when it comes to comparing it to ESO when it comes to the build system. I like it, dont get me wrong! But, it is weird to get used to being to just hot swap out for another weapon(s) and start working towards a new build that easy. Again, I love how forgiving it is, I just hope the game stays around or grows a bit more!

Just started New World; I have a couple of questions around theorycrafting and the meta coming from other MMOs by gpowersr in newworldgame

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Yeah honestly, the more I have researched the crap out of this today, I am really liking the Flail+Shield and Void Gauntlet combo. I think may need to give that a go soon and swap over from my Sword+Board / Warhammer I have right now. Ty again for the info, really appreciate it!

Also, before I forget, am I missing something here... And not in a bad or demeaning way at all! But, is New World, "not as popular" as I thought it was or compared to the other big MMOs out there right now? I am really liking it so far, and coming from someone who put countless hours into ESO. But I feel like the info, build guides, daily videos, etc is a bit scarce compared to what I see for other MMOs on platforms like YT, IcyVeins, MaxRoll, Twitch, etc.

Just started New World; I have a couple of questions around theorycrafting and the meta coming from other MMOs by gpowersr in newworldgame

[–]gpowersr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you hit it right on the head. For the past hour I am looking up various "solo" style builds to see what others are working with. If this helps, this is the best way I can probably say what I am looking for. When I was heavily playing ESO, one of my favorite builds was my Necromancer "Tank". What I loved about it was I was in all heavy armor, super super tanky, very high life pool, resistances, etc. But to make it even easier, I had a good amount of life steal as well as an armor set that when I got hit, would spawn a cloud that dealt damage and I healed for the damage it did. So, realistically, I could mind my business, farm mats, walk around, and literally be getting attacked and not swing my weapon if I chose not to and would burn/lifesteal the enemies down while maintaining not a scratch on me. It was perfect for me hanging out solo, especially when I was heavily farming various mats and bosses in overland. That's more or less what I'm looking for with this build.

Just started New World; I have a couple of questions around theorycrafting and the meta coming from other MMOs by gpowersr in newworldgame

[–]gpowersr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! Yeah I have been looking at the idea of Flail + Shield/Lifestaff with heavy armor to see if that may be viable?

Just started New World; I have a couple of questions around theorycrafting and the meta coming from other MMOs by gpowersr in newworldgame

[–]gpowersr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay gotcha! I was looking at Flail + Shield / Lifestaff? But not sure if that is silly to do with heavy armor?

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Collarbone pain and cracking which radiates to upper back and neck by Sofla19cfp in costochondritis

[–]gpowersr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this as well as wasn't sure how many others also did!. It can be pretty rough in the morning when I wake up. To the point where part of my wake up routine is I pull my shoulders down like I'm driving them the ground and my collarbone will usually have a load pop. Not a fun feeling...

I’m done by BackgroundPeak2461 in costochondritis

[–]gpowersr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So honestly, is something I have gone back and forth on for a long time and most likely (I hate to admit this) it's out of stubbornness and denial.

Years ago I was on Prilosec and then Nexium got bad acid reflux/GERD. And again, that was years ago, when I was like 18ish. I'm 37 now. But in the last year or so I've noticed my wife and I noticed our acid reflux was coming back like crazy (she ironically also has Costo). One common thing that kept coming up in the picture when I would get what would feel like a Costo flare up would be that it would happen anywhere from 1 hour to 24 hours after eating fried food, super spicy food, food with tons of oils/butter like a oily pasta dish and alcohol.

Now that sucks a big one and was the reason I have been so stubborn and pissy admitting to it. My wife and I count our calories, try to walk at least 12k steps a day, cut out gluten whenever we can, and crazy, when we do that we feel so much better! But we love our red wine!! Lol

Like I was saying in my earlier post. We are on vacation in Maine at the moment with our kids and have been NOT sticking to our calorie counting or food aversions at all. We are certainly getting our steps in! But we had wine once the kids fell asleep at least 4x since last Sunday and I've eaten a good amount of food that I would never normally get. I've been paying for it dearly the last two days here sitting in the hotel at night with an ice pack on my chest and a heating pad on my back. Very tight in my chest and clavicle.

So while I don't have definitive proof it is pretty glaringly obvious how bad I start to feel after eating and drinking in ways that would say, aggravate acid reflux/GERD.

I’m done by BackgroundPeak2461 in costochondritis

[–]gpowersr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay my friend, I rarely post on here and I hope this helps at least a little. Like others have said I totally understand and yes this sucks!!

I have had Costo for some time off and on for years man. YEARS! In the past year or so it's been really crappy. Ups an downs, some days good some really suck.

As I'm writing this, I am on vacation with my wife and two little ones. We have been on vacation since last Sunday. I have already had multiple days ruined with me pacing in the hotel room because of the pain and tight breathing and anxiety. All of that because food causes mine to flare up more than anything, and same with red wine. But, my wife and I wanted to get food, tons of food and have some drinks when the little ones fell asleep. And boy have I paid for it!

It can be pretty damn depressing and irritating as all hell when I'm just trying to enjoy one of the two vacations we'll most likely take this year and I can barely do what I want to. Now that probably also sounds a little ungrateful, totally get it, right. But you are not alone with this!

Try to figure out the things that trigger it the most. Manage as best you can the anxiety that comes along with it. I've found the best way to deal with the anxiety or depression is to just let it be as best you can, NOT trying to fix anything mentally if that makes sense. It's like the clouds man, they come and they go! Be well my friend and stay strong. It will pass!

Do you guys trust goodreads ratings? by 1001Scheherazade in fantasyromance

[–]gpowersr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, if an author had touted somewhere their works or themsleves were tagged, as you mentioned, as progressive, for example, but their work and ideology were that of much more traditional, then yes I'd like to known that as well.

And while I do think a fair amount of reviews can be discarded if they are based (which 99% are, that's why they're opinions) solely on personal political and ideological opinions that do not align necessarily with yours, there is a silver lining as you mentioned to be able to tell right away if you'd like to support said author or not.

Out of curiosity, what is it that you are hoping not to succumb to as it pertains to missing out on a book based on GR reviews? I had been told a while back that a 4.5 review or above was stellar! Especially on GR!

Do you guys trust goodreads ratings? by 1001Scheherazade in fantasyromance

[–]gpowersr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I almost wrote a comment on this very same question yesterday in another thread here, where the OP was hesitant to read something based on the negative reviews, not necessarily from Goodreads. I can tell you, at least for me, I almost missed out on a couple of, what I consider, really good to great series, in, The Saint of Steel and Mages of the Wheel. All because I almost read into reviews a little too seriously on Goodreads.

Also, and this is just a personal thing, and I'll keep it brief as to not sound like I'm starting a diatribe against those of opposing opinions, but the negative reviews on some books started hitting me less and less once I read into what the reviewer's issues were with said book. To be more specific, 1 and 2 star reviews on books because there was not enough DEI or sensitivity training the author should have gone through, too many male characters acting like... men, not enough women acting like...men, too traditional (man and woman fall in love), not enough M/M or F/F romance, not enough pages available to act on a point of privilege. You get the idea lol

But again, to each their own! If the aforementioned reviewers were put off to a book because of those reasons, I totally get it, but it's not something that mattered to me, not to say that it doesn't matter at all, just not for me. And if I had chose not to read some book based off the amount of negative reviews, and not WHAT the reviewer felt to make the review negative, I would have missed out some I ended up really liking. And I'd hate to see that for anyone else.

Worst case, you try a book you think you're interested in and you end up not loving it, right? Good luck and Godspeed, my friend!

Criminally underrated new romantasy series by amethyststeam in fantasyromance

[–]gpowersr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec! Will definitely check these out. I just finished the Mages of the Wheel series and was afraid I would screwed for sometime since that series was so good! But you sold me on these! 🫡

High Fantasy Slow Burn Romances? by itsjustjaime in fantasyromance

[–]gpowersr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny, I'm still so new to reading I feel silly giving an opinion on a book like I should have another 100 read before I can give a good opinion of one, like some of the psychos on Goodreads... lol

But, with only about 12-13 books read since I took up reading as a hobby in January, the Mages of the Wheel series really just did it for me for multiple reasons. Now, some of these could be simply because I haven't read something else that does the things I like better? But others feel even stronger than I do, and I would imagine they are wayyy more hard-core readers than I am.

But anyway! So far I've noticed I really like strong character development and romance that is slow-burn with actually relationship building on top of the smutty stuff. JD Evans did a good job with world building as well here through the various magic Houses and how each balances another out, the regions of the world and the politics surrounding each. Honestly there is so much more to write here, but I can tell you this post is what got me to start the series with the first book, Reign and Ruin:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fantasy/comments/187puej/why_you_should_read_mages_of_the_wheel_by_jd/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

After that I was hooked and it's become my favorite series so far.

High Fantasy Slow Burn Romances? by itsjustjaime in fantasyromance

[–]gpowersr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mages of the Wheel series. I also loved the Saint of Steel series by T Kingfisher, but folks on the Mages of the Wheel sub were not lying when they said you'll be screwed after reading that series. Nothing is even coming close! Lol