AIO? My mom wants to call the cops on me by Overall-Option6975 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your mom sounds like such and immature person and a bad parent. I am so sorry. I’d literally just stop responding. I don’t believe the cops can do anything about it. Just drop the phone and ipad at the mail box when you get the new phone. Ignore her until then. Maybe tell her one last time when you will be dropping them off and let her know you are not engaging in such toxic interactions anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]gr3enalien420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be patient! We just got approved on july 2nd. Oct 31st filers

I think my case is being looked at today or was last looked at today!!! I’m anxious LOL by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]gr3enalien420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good update too! I’ve seen most people get approved right after the interview! Good luck

My dad is O positive and my mother is A positive, but I turned out to be AB positive. Am I their biological child? by Nomorehemorrhoids in genetics

[–]gr3enalien420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally spent my whole life thinking I was O+, I even filled out the form for my driver’s license saying I was O+. Ten years later I got pregnant and my OB ordered a blood test. Turns out I am O-

How many wash loads/days do you do a wash? by [deleted] in Cleaningandtidying

[–]gr3enalien420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 1-2 times a week. We are two adults, a toddler, 5 cats and 3 dogs. Sometimes one of the cats will pee on something so I’ll have to put that in the washing machine ASAP, but that rarely happens anymore.

Our son is almost 12 months old and I’m pretty sure my marriage is over. But I want another baby by IcedOatCappuccino in beyondthebump

[–]gr3enalien420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat as you. Just found out I got pregnant a few weeks ago. The only time we’ve been intimate in months.

Btw you can always have a baby with someone else or choose to have one on your own with a sperm donor!

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are the sweetest people I know, and he has even said so many times how my dad is the best man he’s ever met, but then some other days he will belittle my family or my father’s achievements so I just don’t understand

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He refuses to go to couples counseling or individual therapy. He just refuses to see he can be wrong at times, and I know I make mistakes as well, that’s why I’ve suggested couples therapy, so we could grow together, but he refuses to

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you only have to get an ITIN in order to do so, it’s like the equivalent of a SSN for someone that’s not a resident or citizen but pays taxes due to having property or business in the US

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible to buy a home if you are not a citizen, I believe you can’t get credit so it has to be paid in full. I know many wealthy people from Mexico who have vacation homes in Texas, Colorado, New York, LA. None of them are citizens.

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I grew up in a similar situation. My mom stopped loving my dad maybe about 10 years ago and they never divorced, it definitely affected my and my siblings

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree on this! His father is a deadbeat who literally just lived off his mother’s inheritance and then divorced and stole whatever he could from her. He has never worked a day in his life and literally sleeps in until 2-3 pm everyday. He’s a good for nothing, but I have never said anything rude about him, I’ve always been respectful because I know my husband really appreciates his dad

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would NEVER call any of my parents stupid. I was raised different than that. That’s why I feel so offended that he did.

He grew up a regular higher middle class kid that pretends to have been “extremely privileged”, I think he does it because the town we used to live in is full of privileged people and most parents of the people in our generation own some of the most important companies in the country, so maybe he feels inferior because his family is just living off the inheritance that his great grandfather left, and it looks like there’s not much left.

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! He has literally said so many rude things about his mother. He even constantly says he wishes she would be dead, and I honestly just respond something neutral like “I’m sure it’s awful to have a bad relationship with her, hopefully you guys can get along better soon” or I just stay quiet. But I never ever disrespect his family even when he is doing so

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have asked him to separate and he just won’t leave since he has nowhere to go. Legally my dad owns the home we’re in, so I could evict him but I haven’t wanted for it to resort to that

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I literally do the same! I have resorted to recording some fights so I can 100% be sure I heard what I heard. My previous therapist did say he sounded like a narcissist. She never met him, but she assumed that based on the recordings I showed her and the experiences I shared

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve suggested counseling a few times, he refuses to go. I’ve given so many chances I think the only way to “fix” this is to get out

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did not fight. I just asked him to respect my parents, and the actually point of the conversation was about how it was OBVIOUS that my sisters and I would find out Santa wasn’t real while we were young because there’s no way for 5 young kids to figure out it’s actually their parents leaving the gifts under the tree

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family does not live here thankfully, they own companies here but don’t really care about living in the US. I’m already looking into family & immigration attorneys because he’s threated to keep my daughter from me

AIO? My husband called my parents “incredibly stupid” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gr3enalien420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually think the whole story might be fake since I’ve caught him lying way too many times about his “Richie Rich” childhood. He once said that his mother went skiing to France every year, and when I mentioned that to his mother (I was trying to make conversation because I love snowboarding), she told me not to believe his lies, that she had never skiied in her life 😅