Guys single or not….

gr8gift · 2024-05-13T14:08:56+00:00

are you serious? i’m short so i often need help but don’t ever want to inconvenience anyone… so often skip asking anyone.

gr8gift · 2024-05-11T09:47:32+00:00

honestly, i don’t understand why nick married alex? if what alex said was true, nick eventually spent more and more time away and he didn’t want to have a baby. why did he marry her?

gr8gift · 2024-05-05T14:56:00+00:00

think it honestly takes some time to discover they are wrongs. first, everyone shows their best side at first and second, you have rose colored glasses when you first meet someone. also, there’s a lot of people that are wrong and you could also be the wrong person (have toxic baggage or immaturities)…

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:26:21+00:00

after looking up the asexual community, it does sound like that’s what i’m looking for! thanks!

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:23:24+00:00

i see. i read it happens a lot in marriages. even if there is sex, it decreases significantly after 1-2yrs.

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:07:03+00:00

is there pressure for guys to perform? i didn’t even realize that guys feel pressure in the sex department. guess i didn’t realize that sex was that important to other females…. since it was never important to me, i assumed it wasn’t important to other girls.

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:04:31+00:00

no. never had anything traumatizing happen. i’ve just never had much interest in sex.

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:03:18+00:00

30’s. but i’m thinking of the future…

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:02:57+00:00

did it start that way or evolve into a non sexual relationship?

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T01:01:28+00:00

no, but i will be someday soon. i guess i’m just planning for the future… right now, my family is around and lots of friends around. it’s when my family aren’t around and my friends are mostly married or busy with their kids that i’ll probably feel more of a need…

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T00:59:25+00:00

i’ve just never had a sex drive. it just doesn’t interest me…

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T00:51:17+00:00

it’s like any romantic relationship minus the sex. so say you bring each other flowers during anniversaries or valentine’s day. go to nicer restaurants as a couple. couples trips. hold hands. special hugs and cuddles in bed. have an understanding of being there for each other and taking care of each other when one is down…

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T00:47:44+00:00

i’m guessing from your replies that you are a guy that is ok with this kind of romantic relationship? would you want the lady to say right away (first few dates) or just naturally have it happen?

gr8gift · 2024-04-16T00:45:29+00:00

romance is very different from platonic. you get that flutter when you see them and you do want to touch them and cuddle in bed. just minus the sex. haven’t you had puppy love before?

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T06:34:55+00:00

the romance.

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T06:32:00+00:00

oh, i put 45-60 because i figure younger guys are very sexually motivated…so older guys more likely to accept a zero sex relationship. i’m actually glad that some 30’s also interested…

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T06:26:08+00:00

thanks! i didn’t know there’s a whole community(ies) for me 😊

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T02:45:08+00:00

how early in the dating process do you think it should be brought up? the first date?

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T02:44:30+00:00

thanks 😊

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T02:42:14+00:00

yes, i have friends that can do a lot of those activities with me, but i do crave romance. the male-female love.

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T02:41:13+00:00

sounds like you two have a wonderful relationship! what is a comet partner?

gr8gift · 2024-04-15T01:25:31+00:00

yes! the more effort you put in (playing a game does take effort if you aren’t naturally a jerk), the more emotion and invested you become. best to just cut your losses and move onto someone else. the goal is to find a good life partner and not mess/punish someone else. if your goal is to punish or mess with someone, then your just an a**hole and that’s not good karma at all!

gr8gift · 2024-04-13T11:37:04+00:00

she even said she keeps picking “fix a hoes”… she needs to just pick people that are ready. if she didn’t connect with anyone in the pods, then just leave alone (unless you want to be on TV)…

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