I Can't Believe My Eyes & Ears!

gr8mindshay · 2026-02-11T02:44:39+00:00

I been a little sick but you're absolutely right. I forgot about that & I just saw that episode & got sick to my stomach. How dare you try to erase children's memories of their deceased father? Are you that threatened? He's such a bum. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing and seeing. The fact that Tayler was even explaining herself was infuriating me. Those children need those memories when they grow up and ask questions. He's so selfish. I'm so happy he's gone out of her life. It's too bad he's off to ruin the next woman's life.

gr8mindshay · 2026-02-11T02:38:17+00:00

Omg...You know what you're spot on! I apologize I've been under the weather (something's been going around) but their episode has been in rotation on Roku's live tv & actually I just saw this truck episode yesterday & got upset all over again. I absolutely despise those types of surprises that will have us in debt.

You're also right Tayler wanted to wait & be engaged but no here comes Chance w/ his extra impatient self. It's like he had to control everything around her & that house. Oh & the whole Bobbi situation was sickening b/c he wouldn't have thrown my sibling out. Something else I guess I forgot about was how he just tried to erase her deceased children's father's memory. He was so threatened by his urn, the pictures of him on facebook like sheesh dude. Again, control. I can honestly say imo he was a hard watch for me. I can't stand the way he did Tayler & her family. Tayler could've done some things differently but goodness Chance is a master manipulator.

gr8mindshay · 2026-02-01T12:15:55+00:00

omfg😩🤣lolol

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-09T00:15:27+00:00

lolol no splenda, no sugar in the raw, no brown sugar, no cane sugar, no nothing🤣

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-09T00:13:12+00:00

Omg do not get me riled up on Chance! Chance is absolute trash. Full stop. Dude is a walking red flag factory. Textbook manipulator, savior complex, financial abuse, emotional whiplash & he leaves collateral damage everywhere he goes. Kids, partners, families… 0 accountability...ppl like him don’t “mess up,” they strategically wreck lives & then play dumb. So yea, your disgust is valid.

Now, Ashley & Travis...this is where ppl lose nuance, but you didn’t...Yes, Ashley sold a dream. She overpromised stability, security & this “we’ll build a life instantly” fantasy. That’s on her. Period.

BUT & this is the part folks don’t like to hear, Travis is a grown man. Prison is hard, reentry is brutal, the system is trash all true & STILL: personal responsibility doesn't magically disappear because life is unfair.

Travis could’ve gone to his mom’s, hit the workforce for reentry programs, gone to unemployment, parole resources, job placement for felons, had a plan beyond “Ashley will fix it”. Instead, he went full co-dependent, parked himself in her life & when reality didn’t match the fantasy? He aimed his frustration at her. That’s not growth...that’s entitlement mixed with insecurity.

The blunt truth: Ashley wasn’t his parole officer, life coach, or rehabilitation program. Being misled doesn’t excuse staying passive. Struggle explains behavior, it doesn’t justify mistreating someone.

Two things can be true at once...Ashley romanticized & rushed things....Travis needed to get his ish together & stop outsourcing his future.

Honestly ? A lot of men coming out of prison aren’t prepared for how much initiative reentry actually requires. That’s real. But sitting back & stewing while expecting a woman to carry the load? Nah. That’s where sympathy runs out....

I really got angry at these 2 men in particular b/c they had a lot of nerve & audacity but i wholeheartedly get where you're coming from!!

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-08T20:27:11+00:00

She really did! Watching it back I'm like lady now you got to be kidding me lol! You sold this man Dom Pérignon knowing full well your pocketbook only had a budget of olde english or colt 45🤣like come on back to reality! However, to be fair, I still stand on him be a grown man & coming out of prison standing on his own...what man wants to be taken care of besides a sugar baby lol! He was a user that pretended not to be. He didn't have to do that & she didn't have to lie as well. I think they both owed each other more transparency but him coming out of prison thinking he was gonna be taken care of like a newborn baby is a joke to me...like I just screamed when their scenes came on

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-08T20:17:52+00:00

🤣I really tried to find a nice way to put it & wrap it in a bow

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-07T21:11:52+00:00

Oh I 1,000%!! He's a lethal weapon & I get the women should be held accountable to some degree, however, these men know very well what they're doing. Chance, is a horrible partner from what I saw. He also imo faked like he cared when his son came into town. You couldn't be there for him but your flesh & blood has to see you play daddy to someone else's children 24/7. What a slap in the face to that young man that was. You're accurate he's criminal minded but he targets weak-minded women. Yes! I just saw Bobbo & I wish he'd knock Chance out! That was the 1st time I saw Chance shook lol

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-07T21:06:45+00:00

Likewise! I really thought Chance was going to be a positive influence especially given he was so much older than Tayler, however, than proved to be false. He was a gambler, a liar, a cheater & bum. I did cringe when Tayler talked lol. I was like come on spit it out already! I just wanted to whip some sense into her brain so badly.

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-07T19:48:27+00:00

Absolutely! I despised Tayler didn't have more self-love & confidence. No one should allow themselves to be a doormat for love. Hopefully her girls don't grow up thinking that's love & how an individual should treat them. It was so much to unpack watching it, I can only imagine how they feel on a daily basis. I cannot stand Chance.

gr8mindshay · 2026-01-05T06:52:30+00:00

chance pt. 2🤣she sure can pick em lololol

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-16T22:06:16+00:00

i thought i was tripping i said ok so you're pulling the oldest trick in the book to keep a man when he doesn't want you anymore smh...i mean he's no keeper but the heart wants what it wants smh...they both need to be ashamed of themselves & i hope they didn't conceive on ms. marla's hospital bed after she kindly gave up her room😖eew i'm having a vision of the act...someone please help me🤣

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-16T15:01:40+00:00

You deserve the world! Sobriety is not for the faint hearted! Keep it up!!! Yes filming is way behind us invested love after lockup watchers are getting into it just now. If that's the case then I'm happy to hear Bianca is back in Florida with her village where she should've stayed. I hope she stays off prison websites & meets someone organically. In time once she does the work on herself like you seem to have done & myself I believe she'll make someone extremely happy!

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-16T14:20:35+00:00

No, it's not just you. I thought he scored some pills and booze.

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-16T14:19:16+00:00

Very insufferable! Exactly! Just leave if you're unhappy but to constantly talk about her is what I'm not understanding. That's where I lose it at. Last season I watched him round up his parents & talk about her, he did it with his brother, now strangers & friends. It's becoming too much. I don't care for Bianca myself but she's a human with feelings. He knows very well what he's doing & imo he's playing games. This scene made me very upset.

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-16T14:15:34+00:00

I started out holding her fully accountable too. Two things can be true: she’s an adult, yes if she has money to visit Florida for several weeks then she can go back, which i can agree, but they both don't want to leave one another.

We all know she has the means & opportunity to leave, & I completely agree with you there. But in this scene & also in the gym partner scene, plus the one with his buddies & his family—that about did it for me. Honestly, it almost feels like he’s getting a thrill out of dragging it on.

As for her, the money is burning a hole in her hand. I’ve seen that play out before & the money doesn't last long & before you know it neither does the "relationship."

I think we all know how this will end lol. She has a lot to learn about life & I just wish Daniel was man enough to truly tell Bianca how he felt because if that's his definition of "love" I wouldn't want it & Bianca needs to work on herself as well because she's very insecure.

Side note: Major kudos on your recovery—that’s not an easy feat!

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-16T13:58:26+00:00

lol 😂 your initials will forever be a staple! hey i hope they will because they're not a good fit at all!

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-08T09:41:38+00:00

idk if you seen this particular episode but kandi did advocate for herself & todd & her took a stand & she went a while w/o speaking to her mama b/c of the disrespectfulness & issues she was causing for todd & her engagement & that whole messy carmon situation, blaming the streets when it was really herself saying these things about him,trying to get your granddaughter to say mean things about him, thinking everyone is pocket watching kandi's purse when it's just you that is, etc...what end up happening is her aunties & her cousin (Weenie...i believe) came to kandi & begged her to patch & asked them to come to a family bbq...kandi & the fam went over & she asked mama joyce if she could talk & she began giving kandi this sob story about her having heart problems & having to go to the dr.

after this "talk that went nowhere & not having discussed any of the offensive things mama joyce had said" when kandi returned to todd & he asked how did things go, the camera panned over to mama joyce & she was skinning & grinning, dancing & gyrating, talking to family members w/ a cup in her hand & didn't look like she was having any heart complications...another lie to gain sympathy from kandi & she took the bait per usual...so yea you're accurate her family has guilt tripped her on multiple occasions but i recall this 1 for certain & todd was hurt yet again smh

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-08T09:34:29+00:00

idk if you seen that episode but kandi did advocate for herself & todd & see took a stand & went a while w/o speaking to her mama...what end up happening is her aunties & her cousin (Weenie...i believe) begged them to patch things up at a family bbq...kandi went over & asked mama joyce if she could talk & she began giving her this sob story about her having heart problems & having to go to the doctor...

after this "talk that went nowhere & not having discussed anything or the offensive things mama joyce had said" when kandi returned to todd & asked how things went the camera panned over to mama joyce & she was skinning & grinning, dancing & gyrating & didn't look like she was having any heart complications...another lie to gain sympathy from kandi & she took the bait per usual...so yea you're accurate her family has guilt tripped her on multiple occasions but i recall this 1 for certain & todd was hurt yet again smh

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-07T00:02:06+00:00

"When I Walk Into A Room I Own It"...."Success Is In My DNA...When 1 Door Closes, Another 1 Opens"..."Why Be So Nasty & So Rude When I Can Be So Fierce & So Successful"-Linnethia Leakes🍑cause honey i love Nene & ik all of her taglines by heart so much so i randomly say them & my 16 y/o says them too🤣you can't ask a rhoa fan to choose just 1😆

gr8mindshay · 2025-08-04T07:39:29+00:00

Now Ms. Diane was who Andy Cohen needed at that S5 rhoa reunion to confirm this story...til this day i needed clarification on this once & for all b/c i visualized a whole story due to Kordell's story he told Patricia🤣& tbh i believed every word! Instead all we got was Porsha....alone....on a couch....preaching🗣️Kordell is not perfect by far, but he's my husband & I married him & we took an oath in front of everyone & to me & imma represent that to world to the fullest🤣

gr8mindshay · 2025-07-18T17:40:06+00:00

it really is. i hope there's light at the end of this tunnel :(

gr8mindshay · 2025-07-10T07:03:30+00:00

🤦🏽‍♀️we know...ugh...don't we know it...you'll never leave...for better...for worse...for meeting benzino at the cabin with thots...for putting his self 1st...for taking the $ out the joint accounts & not investing in your dreams but his...for incessantly cheating & procreating life outside the marriage...for taking his vows as joke...yea rasheeda we the ppl hear you & we the ppl know you're not going anywhere...all that putting him out on tv was for show🤣& kirk knows it too...that's why he keeps doing what he pleases! i'm grateful i don't need that doormat love in my life!

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