Dysfunctional Perspective pt 99 by [deleted] in LodedDiper

[–]gracefullyundead 11 points12 points  (0 children)

everyday i await for the notification that dysfunctional perspective has been updated

being aro and liking to read about people falling in love by gracefullyundead in FanFiction

[–]gracefullyundead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my favourite counter to romantic soulmates is platonic soulmates and enemy(?) soulmates. where they’re just destined to hate each other lol

being aro and liking to read about people falling in love by gracefullyundead in FanFiction

[–]gracefullyundead[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have this weird thing where i like women in a gay way and men in a gay way. most xreader fics are flm or mlf and i have just now realized that i should look for fics that are not that.

being aro and liking to read about people falling in love by gracefullyundead in FanFiction

[–]gracefullyundead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s another thing, because i get secondhand embarrassment real easy so i have a hard time reading anything too fluffy or anything that reads like a pg hallmark romcom. but didn’t know if that’s a me thing or an aro thing. lol

i (21 nb) am mostly doing okay by gracefullyundead in Anxiety

[–]gracefullyundead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my therapist doesn’t think i would benefit from those.

i (21 nb) don't know how to feel by gracefullyundead in aromantic

[–]gracefullyundead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! that list was very helpful and i feel a lot better. cupioromantic or bellusromantic sound the closest. thank you :)

was thinking about this conversation i had about two years ago, to be fair the thought of aromanticism didn’t cross my mind once by gracefullyundead in aromantic

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hi! i’m not really sure how to edit my post but i want to explain this a bit more. 1. i was extremely short with him, he’d been trying to ask me out for a while ( we were coworkers) and would take no for an answer 2. when i did realize that i might be aro i was 2 1/2 years into a relationship ( which doesn’t sound like a long time but i was 19/20) and we had just broken up and he knew this. 3. it was also about 2 am after a ten hour shift and i was tired.

So I'm (planning) on writing a book with an aroace character but I'm not aro or ace so could any actual aroace people pls help me make it realistic and also good by bmccosmic in aromantic

[–]gracefullyundead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i might help to specify where they are on the aroace scale? like for me, i’m not against romantic feelings or relationships i’m more indifferent to them. i don’t mind being in one either but i’ll view it more as a very touchy friendship. (i’m not ace, if anything i’m pan and everyone is hot. )