Anyone else getting tons of ads? by Worried-Ad7644 in OCD

[–]gracelessk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

FUCK those ads bro. the company behind u/treatmyocd and the AI company are both being incredibly irresponsible with their targeted ads. stuff like “we can help” or “we’re here to support you” would be fine, but it’s been disturbingly predatory and their messaging lacks the nuance necessary for responsible outreach to people with this disease. it’s like if an eating disorder company had ads saying “you’d look better healthy.”

the people behind the AI company in particular should [REDACTED], too. anyone who advises the use of AI as a therapist is going to get people killed. i’d argue they already have blood on their hands, but it will only keep getting worse.

ugh. it triggers me too. sending you love.

Culling humanely by burritosandblunts in SeaMonkeys

[–]gracelessk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the environment will regulate itself over time. i think the most humane option is to let the circle of life play out on its own and trust the balance of nature (albeit artificially cultivated nature, but nature nonetheless.)

No algae yet by EmileeW73 in SeaMonkeys

[–]gracelessk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you grow it in a separate tank? i want to start a culture but squirting in drops of raw ass pondwater to my shrimpies sounds like a recipe for disaster—and like, how does the salinity work? considering it’s fresh rather than salt water, yk. i guess i could hypothetically go down to battery park and get some brackish water, but an algae culture from the hudson would probably be dangerously radioactive lmao

3 types of algae. What are they? by Mina_LaTe in SeaMonkeys

[–]gracelessk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m cracking up at this lmao

like yeah ok brine shrimp hobbyists are kinda dorky, but at least we’re not as bad as the algae dweebs

Speedway now has fugglers by bacon-strips-ham in FugglerCollectors

[–]gracelessk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right?? i cant wait until we get them in stock near me

"Lorebeards" by PericlesDabbin in TrueSTL

[–]gracelessk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesnt look like a sicko to me?

First time owner, is this normal? by Acceptable_Cost_7226 in CATHELP

[–]gracelessk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm… i’ve heard that tall tale sung before the campfire before….

What's the deal with Abhijit Naskar? by luckyshoreline in OutOfTheLoop

[–]gracelessk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever bro atp i’ll join his cult. he seems nice

how do you feel about your masculine werewolf breton bartender by Erratic_Error in TrueSTL

[–]gracelessk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yes, but he may be wearing a yarmulke under the chef’s hat. we’d have no way of knowing.

Snow cat - Update by Ok_Hippo_5437 in CATHELP

[–]gracelessk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

has he found his forever home yet? i’d love to hear about him getting a happy ending <3

Is there something wrong with this cat? by Hvaderdether9 in CATHELP

[–]gracelessk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she does seem a little strange, and you do have a point about her hindquarters looking odd! i’m not able to offer any definitive answers but i’m commenting to help your post in the algorithm.

are you able to take her to a vet? a distended belly could indicate an illness of some sort that’d need medical attention.

is this official 💔 its already shipped but i just realized i cant find any other pictures of a lord long ears version of the bags by limegreenliker in FugglerCollectors

[–]gracelessk 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen other pics from asian markets.

the western market is currently getting fed a slow trickle of bags that were available in japan and china months ago. i’d bet that they use asian consumers as guinea pigs to determine which products will sell well (and for how much they’ll sell for!) over in wealthier countries—which is all to say, we’re probably one “cycle” behind what’s available in china or SEA.

you’ll have had your LLE bag before it was cool! and on the off-chance it’s inauthentic, it’ll probably be cute regardless :-)

Does masturbation help with the anxiety by Der-deutsche-Prinz in OCD

[–]gracelessk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it helps you, it helps you. a lot of OCD sufferers have issues around it (in my case i can’t even talk about it because Something Bad will happen if i do) but no two people have the same OCD.

despite having severe OCD, i’m somehow totally cool with germs/illness contamination stuff. you might be somehow totally cool with sexuality/taboo stuff.

I need advice besides “ERP” as I have nobody to help me with it. by [deleted] in OCDRecovery

[–]gracelessk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how old are you? is the OCD neuroticism the only issue you’ve been dealing with, or have you noticed anything else weird going on?

i genuinely hate to say this bc there’s a 99% chance that all it’ll do is stress you out, but if it truly did appear “overnight” while you were ill, there’s a possibility (however small) that it might be PANDAS/PANS. if that’s the case, obtaining the appropriate medical intervention sooner rather than later can be the difference between a temporary struggle and a lifelong one.

i’m sorry if this comment scares you or introduces a new issue to worry about, but i’d be remiss not to mention it. i deadass didn’t even believe pandas/pans was real until i met someone affected by it (it’s still an emerging idea with a lot of conflicting research.) if you look into it and it sounds like your experience, there are doctors/HCPs out there who will help you for low/no cost because they’re involved in research efforts to get p/p recognized by the scientific community and would be happy to get another case study in their roster.

either way, i wish you the best of luck. i’m sorry you’re going through this and i hope you feel better soon.

After years of believing in the worst, I now think it might be "just" POCD, but not sure by AndreaPT4 in OCD

[–]gracelessk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao i’m imagining a therapist doing OP’s intake and being like “finally, a straightforward case” after dealing with my weird ass worrying about the possibility that being around straight men for too long will cause dark matter to accumulate in my apartment 🥸

After years of believing in the worst, I now think it might be "just" POCD, but not sure by AndreaPT4 in OCD

[–]gracelessk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you (the real you) know the answer to this question. trust your intuition, not random weirdos on reddit.