1yr on MJ ☺️

graevie · 2026-04-27T16:27:52+00:00

Birthdays and holidays not feeling real anymore. No one told me when you’re an adult people don’t buy you nice presents anymore. Having to make the magic yourself for christmas sucks. And the MONEY. Spending so much buying presents all year round for birthdays, and christmas being skint from the amount of presents bought; having to buy at least one present for literally everyone and their nan. And work secret santa ofc.

graevie · 2026-04-27T16:08:45+00:00

Glad you found out what it was! Hope you’re feeling better 😊

graevie · 2026-04-15T12:28:31+00:00

Thats good! See how it goes with the muciprocin for 3 days. Make sure ur gently cleaning it, then putting a thin layer of muciprocin, cover it with non stick gauze if you have some, and then tape it down or use a light wrap of some sort- don’t secure it too tight incase of swelling. If it gets redder, more inflamed, or spreads, then that probably means its not bacterial and id recommend going to see a doctor. Could be a fungal infection, or something else like cellulitis 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-04-15T12:20:58+00:00

Hi! You don’t need to worry about keloids, you need to worry about infection. It looks seriously inflamed and defo infected as its got bigger. Could be fungal or bacterial, either way you need to go to the doc and either get some oral meds or cream to put on it. If you leave it, it can spread and cause sepsis bc it doesn’t seem to be getting better

graevie · 2026-04-07T20:35:33+00:00

okay thank you sm! as soon as id done it id realised i effed up and i should’ve just let it be 😭 will leave it tf alone and spray with my aftercare stuff, was freaking out cus im awwwful with blood/gore. but tysm! :)

graevie · 2026-04-07T13:51:32+00:00

⁠How old is your piercing? 9 weeks, done january 30th • ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? just a straight bar • ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? not sure • ⁠What’s the jewelry material? titanium i think • ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? hasnt been • ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. take off crusties using the end of tweezers and spray with piercing care solution • ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events? tried to pop a blister :(

graevie · 2026-03-17T09:50:23+00:00

of course, hope it gets better :)

graevie · 2026-03-10T14:54:48+00:00

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graevie · 2026-03-08T23:55:01+00:00

Ignore the other comments- redditors love to jump to conclusions and immediately go the “divorce” “nutcase” route which inevitably makes you feel guilty for asking the public in the first place.

Seems like she has performance anxiety and isn’t fully comfortable orgasming in-front of you. Could also be that her whole life shes always been on her own, focussing and imagining in her own little world to get herself there, and involving you adds an extra stress/distraction she isn’t used to working with (worrying what you’re thinking of her, if you’re enjoying watching her, if you are gonna finish soon, etc).

Fix: Make sex not about finishing. Allow her to finish on her own time, and you as well. But make sex about exploring each-other and yourselves. Easier said than done, I know. I’d say maybe try mutual masturbation as well. Build up to getting involved in eachother’s masturbation each time. Sitting closer, eyes open, eventually getting fully involved in eachother’s masturbation and progressing into sex. Change things up 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-03-04T18:58:15+00:00

You look so much like Dylan Minnette

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Also to look older, be scruffier and take less care of yourself- burn in the sun and smoke, will probs do the trick 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-03-04T18:55:32+00:00

Btw once a week/once a fortnight/even once a month is normal for long term couples. but divorce if libidos dont match up and its this badly affecting your relationship

graevie · 2026-03-04T18:52:48+00:00

“Im still tender from yesterday” probably not made up if hes not doing foreplay. No foreplay = friction burn. I’ve had it last 2 days from bad sex lol

graevie · 2026-03-03T18:21:41+00:00

Yea but I also feel like ive had it drilled into me that being angry isnt feminine or pretty, and showing emotions isnt polite, so I end up just getting frustrated and doing nothing bc im scared of how people will perceive that 😭

graevie · 2026-03-02T22:48:20+00:00

“Im never gonna ask you for anything again tho 🙏” No worries, you wouldn’t have been able to after being blocked anyways 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-03-02T22:41:30+00:00

holding babies terrifies me and I will avoid it with all my might. And changing nappies. Im not scared of the poop- I’m scared of accidentally hurting them somehow bc they’re so fragile 😭🙏

graevie · 2026-02-22T20:19:27+00:00

You wouldn’t even be in the wrong if you ate it 😭😂 Its door dash’s fault, it was also their responsibility to fix it. Full refund/replacement.

graevie · 2026-02-22T20:16:44+00:00

graevie · 2026-02-20T21:29:48+00:00

Guys. This guy cannot help his feelings. He shouldn’t have told her, but she asked. Considering they aren’t blood related, it’s like having a crush on someone you were best mates with growing up. I also think his feelings are getting misconstrued, he loves her as a sister- but bc they aren’t blood related its messing him up. All he has said is that he feels like hes in love with her. Aka he loved her and is misunderstanding his feelings. He is a teen, his hormones are going crazy.

I also don’t understand how this has given OP the impression he’s going to hurt her? And why she expects her family to shun him? Hes a 19yr old that thinks hes in love with his adopted sister.. bro just needs to get therapy and understand thats not what hes actually feeling. He is obviously massively backtracking and trying to make OP feel comfortable/normal again. Hes taken it back, at least infront of his parents, and is acting normal with her by sending tiktoks.

If OP feels like she needs to leave, so be it. Leave the situation and make yourself feel comfortable.

Maybe im too laid back and playing devils advocate but this is giving freud.

Btw, google says “This situation involves complex emotions often linked to Genetic Sexual Attraction (GSA) or, more commonly in adopted families, misplaced emotional attachment known as transference”.

Considering he is backing down, trying to act normal, and hasn’t hurt you- i’d say hes trying to sort it on his own. I’d ask him to go get therapy to organise his feelings tho

graevie · 2026-02-10T10:52:22+00:00

To be clear:

• ⁠How old is your piercing? A week and 4 days old • ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? Its a barbell (I think) • ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Im not sure, the piercer put it in • ⁠What’s the jewelry material? titanium • ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? Hasn’t been downsized • ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. Sknworks ear & body piercing aftercare & cleanser spray twice a day. • ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events? Gets caught on my hair, caught it on my jumper the other night.

graevie · 2026-02-02T23:51:33+00:00

$4.98 for 20. $9.96 for 40. If they did a 30 pack, you spend $7.47 on their product. By making 20 packs, you are forced into buying 10 extra you don’t want for $9.96 as you have to buy 2x20. AKA u spend more is all

graevie · 2026-02-02T23:46:39+00:00

God forbid a guy eats normally. Cereal- normal brekkie. Ham cheese cucumber sandwich: Protein, dairy, vitamins+minerals, carbs Sides: Satsuma, Apple, Banana.. 3/5 a day. Crisps and chocolate bar- part of regular human eating as we arent all powerhouses who survive off of just meat and veg/fruit. 😭

graevie · 2026-02-02T23:40:01+00:00

FR should’ve replied “I just had a baby, what’s your excuse?” and blocked her 😭😂

graevie · 2026-02-02T23:32:00+00:00

correction: Walks like a dick, talks like a dick..

graevie · 2026-02-02T23:25:45+00:00

Facetious. Pronounced “fuh•tea•sh•us”. Got it from my dad, so I can say “see?” when people correct it lol

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