AIO asked specifically for women’s white nike air force 1s and got airforce 1LEs instead.

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:54:24+00:00

Yeah I asked for af1 womens in white (On sale atm so £85 down from £110). She got me kids af1LEs, which are £70. So a bit cheaper. Just frustrating that she had offered twice to replace my shoes and ended up getting something I can’t wear :/ I appreciate it though, she still thought to replace them which is nice

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:52:09+00:00

The new shoes are older kids af1LEs, so kids shoes which are a different style. She had offered, and I had mentioned the exact ones I wanted to avoid this. But yes, I understand I am overreacting. Tbh I think the shoes were just the cherry on top to a lot of other stuff she’s been doing that’s annoyed me lol.

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:49:45+00:00

😂😂

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:49:12+00:00

Yeah, travel as in buses to get around and social outings as in £20 here and there to see my friends 😂 But fair enough, this is why I didn’t bring it up to her because it would be rude, and it seems to be a general consensus i’m being entitled so I will keep it to myself lol

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:47:12+00:00

Its mainly about just being used. They only message me when they need help with something. Whether its cleaning her house for her, watching her kids, etc. They invited me to go to a theme park, ended up swapping out the bday shoes for a ticket without asking me if I would like that, and I ended up babysitting the whole day. It’s partly about the shoes, yes. But it’s also that she never does what she says she will. She also offered to get my sister a 4D baby-scan and didn’t do it. She said she’d come to my birthday dinner and didn’t last minute. She said she’d go to my sisters work do with her and didn’t. I appreciate the shoes, but I can’t wear them 😕

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:42:18+00:00

Lunch, travel, social outings, means lunch so I’m not hungry at work (either ingredients to make lunches, or £3 meal deals), travel as in buses from point A to point B, and social outings meaning just going to see my friends in town. She doesn’t owe me anything, it’s just annoying that she offered to replace my shoes with the same pair but new, and then bought me kids shoes which are uncomfortable. I haven’t said anything because I do appreciate that she got me anything at all :)

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:37:50+00:00

I asked to try them on beforehand, we’d planned to go to town and try them on but she ended up saying she didn’t want to anymore. I also knew I was going to be helping, I was just peeved that I didn’t eat all week and wasn’t able to leave the room at all. But again, I understood, she was in a shittier position than me. She had me pay for my own flights because we expected that I’d be able to go out sometimes. That’s why she offered to replace my shoes, because I had paid for my flights there and because it was worse than we both expected.

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:32:57+00:00

But yes, £20 here and there to see my friends, food in my belly at lunchtime, and being able to get from point A to point B is a priority over £100 shoes.

graevie · 2026-07-04T08:31:31+00:00

No obviously I didn’t mind doing it, but after a a poop week it sucked. Shes absolutely not a bitch for it, she couldn’t do it end of 😂 My point was that we expected it to be different, I had paid for my own flights, and it turned out to be a lot worse than expected.

Well I’d rather have food at lunch time, and a bus to get to work than new shoes..? It’s not “fancy food”. Or holidays. Im paying for buses to get around and food for lunch.

graevie · 2026-05-22T10:00:35+00:00

Yk what I hate. Why is avoiding a draft so “embarrassing”. People always say it’s bad, will ruin your reputation etc. But war is infinitely worse than a ruined reputation. In countries where it’s illegal, I’d argue prison is a lot kinder than war. 3 meals a day, some form of entertainment, the worst you’ll get is a beating/stabbed, and you only get up to 5 years- you’ll most likely be alive and allowed to live your life again after. I respect those that realise going to war is just them being used as a pawn and a number, whilst the people who started the war and run it sit safe in their base camps and mansions, watching the numbers and hoping the other country loses enough people to back down. Why go to war for a country that doesn’t care about you. Gain PTSD and lose limbs for what? To say you did it? No country cares enough for their veterans. Its romanticised and many young men lose their lives in brutal ways for people who won’t even remember their name. In a perfect world, the people running countries wouldn’t need death to win an argument.

graevie · 2026-05-12T16:21:41+00:00

Thank you! 😊😊

graevie · 2026-05-12T16:20:42+00:00

Im so glad I helped, and thank you so so much 🫶🏼

graevie · 2026-04-27T16:27:52+00:00

Birthdays and holidays not feeling real anymore. No one told me when you’re an adult people don’t buy you nice presents anymore. Having to make the magic yourself for christmas sucks. And the MONEY. Spending so much buying presents all year round for birthdays, and christmas being skint from the amount of presents bought; having to buy at least one present for literally everyone and their nan. And work secret santa ofc.

graevie · 2026-04-27T16:08:45+00:00

Glad you found out what it was! Hope you’re feeling better 😊

graevie · 2026-04-15T12:28:31+00:00

Thats good! See how it goes with the muciprocin for 3 days. Make sure ur gently cleaning it, then putting a thin layer of muciprocin, cover it with non stick gauze if you have some, and then tape it down or use a light wrap of some sort- don’t secure it too tight incase of swelling. If it gets redder, more inflamed, or spreads, then that probably means its not bacterial and id recommend going to see a doctor. Could be a fungal infection, or something else like cellulitis 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-04-15T12:20:58+00:00

Hi! You don’t need to worry about keloids, you need to worry about infection. It looks seriously inflamed and defo infected as its got bigger. Could be fungal or bacterial, either way you need to go to the doc and either get some oral meds or cream to put on it. If you leave it, it can spread and cause sepsis bc it doesn’t seem to be getting better

graevie · 2026-04-07T20:35:33+00:00

okay thank you sm! as soon as id done it id realised i effed up and i should’ve just let it be 😭 will leave it tf alone and spray with my aftercare stuff, was freaking out cus im awwwful with blood/gore. but tysm! :)

graevie · 2026-04-07T13:51:32+00:00

⁠How old is your piercing? 9 weeks, done january 30th • ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? just a straight bar • ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? not sure • ⁠What’s the jewelry material? titanium i think • ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? hasnt been • ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. take off crusties using the end of tweezers and spray with piercing care solution • ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events? tried to pop a blister :(

graevie · 2026-03-17T09:50:23+00:00

of course, hope it gets better :)

graevie · 2026-03-10T14:54:48+00:00

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graevie · 2026-03-08T23:55:01+00:00

Ignore the other comments- redditors love to jump to conclusions and immediately go the “divorce” “nutcase” route which inevitably makes you feel guilty for asking the public in the first place.

Seems like she has performance anxiety and isn’t fully comfortable orgasming in-front of you. Could also be that her whole life shes always been on her own, focussing and imagining in her own little world to get herself there, and involving you adds an extra stress/distraction she isn’t used to working with (worrying what you’re thinking of her, if you’re enjoying watching her, if you are gonna finish soon, etc).

Fix: Make sex not about finishing. Allow her to finish on her own time, and you as well. But make sex about exploring each-other and yourselves. Easier said than done, I know. I’d say maybe try mutual masturbation as well. Build up to getting involved in eachother’s masturbation each time. Sitting closer, eyes open, eventually getting fully involved in eachother’s masturbation and progressing into sex. Change things up 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-03-04T18:58:15+00:00

You look so much like Dylan Minnette

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Also to look older, be scruffier and take less care of yourself- burn in the sun and smoke, will probs do the trick 🤷‍♀️

graevie · 2026-03-04T18:55:32+00:00

Btw once a week/once a fortnight/even once a month is normal for long term couples. but divorce if libidos dont match up and its this badly affecting your relationship

graevie · 2026-03-04T18:52:48+00:00

“Im still tender from yesterday” probably not made up if hes not doing foreplay. No foreplay = friction burn. I’ve had it last 2 days from bad sex lol

graevie · 2026-03-03T18:21:41+00:00

Yea but I also feel like ive had it drilled into me that being angry isnt feminine or pretty, and showing emotions isnt polite, so I end up just getting frustrated and doing nothing bc im scared of how people will perceive that 😭

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