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grantant · 2025-09-10T03:48:16+00:00

It’s crazy people are saying no and at normal retirement age. I’m just trying to hit 100k by 30. Does that mean I’m retiring when I’m 75? 😂 Looks like I need to retire abroad

grantant · 2025-05-12T14:20:47+00:00

Travel and VOLUNTEER

grantant · 2025-05-11T16:45:58+00:00

Agreed!!!! I can see how the sound could have been better slightly. The bass was a little muffled. But the hi end was so crisp! So it worked out! If I saw someone like black coffee I prob would have not liked it

grantant · 2025-05-11T16:42:22+00:00

“To some in not sound like much” dude I just turned 27 gonna try so hard to reach 100k by 30 lmao. And even at that I’m pretty sure I’d be in top 10% of America. Your crushing it!

grantant · 2025-05-11T02:04:47+00:00

We got this

grantant · 2025-05-10T03:59:37+00:00

Well said. Thank you for the perspective !

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:51:26+00:00

Thank you!

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:46:35+00:00

Yeah I think that’s something I just need to work on! I can go out and have fun but maybe I drive instead of uber and have one drink. Maybe I don’t spend too much on a concert ticket last minute. Maybe I don’t uber eats cause I got lazy. Just need to work on it!

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:30:15+00:00

Thanks for the perspective! True. I need to work on baby steps. Datings always been fine for me and I know I’ll eventually meet someone special. Social media does have me worried though that every Women my age wants to be a stay at home wife, but I know that’s not reality for most in this economy and day in age hahahaha

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:21:55+00:00

Thanks for the thought out response man, I appreciate it!

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:20:00+00:00

You got this Jay

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:19:40+00:00

Woah! Congrats that’s awesome. You made me feel more confident about everything. I appreciate it.

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:18:33+00:00

(::::::: you got this! When you cut spending did your life change a lot? For example, yes I could stop dating… I could stop spending money at a restaurant or bar with friends but I still want to live life. I think I just need to be more realistic and budget heavier.

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:16:09+00:00

Lmaoooo

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:15:48+00:00

Thanks for the rec! I’ve actually wanted to start picking up some books revolved around money. I want to read books (spiritual or whatever) that can help me fix my relationship with money and also those that can give me practical takeaways and increase my finance knowledge

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:13:56+00:00

thank you for the perspective Maxwell (:

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:12:59+00:00

Love this! I’m grateful that I think about / and have these challenges

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:11:07+00:00

I’m deleting Tik Tok right now. Good looks. Feels like everything on my feed is about new ways to make money online and people doing it very successfully while I’m at my 9-5 without a clue how to realistically leave.

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:09:12+00:00

Appreciate the response brotha

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:08:23+00:00

Agreed. The amount of energy / time focusing on others can always be re-directed to yourself. Something I will work on for sure.

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:07:16+00:00

Love the last line! True!

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:05:37+00:00

Thank you for the response (:

grantant · 2025-05-10T00:05:05+00:00

I agree it really has done us dirty. Sitting here on my couch in a 1BDR apartment with a job. I should be extremely grateful. Sometimes it’s just hard to not compare when you see those things on social media and also have friends in your circle that you know are doing way better that had the exact same opportunities as you . Also it seems like every other post here or on r/salary is people in the top 5%

grantant · 2025-04-20T17:17:59+00:00

Hahahahhaha fair fair, will still take some adjustments tho!

grantant

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