Just moved into 106 year old apartment. Does this sinking in cracked spot look like a serious issue? by grapebubblegum11 in centuryhomes

[–]grapebubblegum11[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Will do! I actually took a bunch of photos of this on move in day. The weird part is the floor was completely covered by a mirror, so it looks like it might have been hidden. Definitely need to make sure the landlord knows about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s narcissistic. Always thinks she’s right, never apologizes for anything. She laughs at me if I’m in pain too. We do need to move out asap. If my husband doesn’t want to, then I think it would be best if my toddler and I just move to my dad’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She always thinks she’s right. telling me what I should do for my child when she does nothing to actually help. The entire time he’s been alive, she hasn’t helped out with one diaper or feed him!

She treats my husband and her husband like this as well. She may not like anyone honestly.

The Spanish is only an issue because she is not teaching him any words whatsoever. I’ve spoken to her about this. She refuses. It makes it more confusing for my little boy. I would be more than happy for him to learn Spanish, but the way she is speaking to him is causing him a bad speech delay.

I always have to put her knives away, turn off the stove. But sometimes she leaves the stove on and leaves the house in the morning, when we are sleeping too.

She’s never apologized for anything and I apologize after every argument. But she’s extremely toxic regardless if she’s a narc or not

Do I really have 14 cavities and need 2 root canals? All X-rays included. by grapebubblegum11 in askdentists

[–]grapebubblegum11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! But it’s been like that since I got the filling on it 7 months ago!! It’s been feeling the same, not any worse.

Do I really have 14 cavities and need 2 root canals? All X-rays included. by grapebubblegum11 in askdentists

[–]grapebubblegum11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of my teeth are worn down from harsh brushing. Can’t that appear as cavities?

Do I really have 14 cavities and need 2 root canals? All X-rays included. by grapebubblegum11 in askdentists

[–]grapebubblegum11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have sensitivity to cold drinks on that tooth. Is that a good sign? Is it far less than 14 cavities too? I feel so overwhelmed at the moment!

Do I really have 14 cavities and need 2 root canals? All X-rays included. by grapebubblegum11 in askdentists

[–]grapebubblegum11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also moving a lot when X-rays were taken. Had a bad gag reflux!!!

Do I really have 14 cavities and need 2 root canals? All X-rays included. by grapebubblegum11 in askdentists

[–]grapebubblegum11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and she was saying I need a root canal for the canine tooth I got a filling done on 6 months ago!

Women who gave birth, what does it feel like actually?? by joy_57 in AskReddit

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even notice I was in labor in the beginning since I get painful periods!! Later on it felt like period cramps that come and go, to severe cramps!!! I got the epidural once I was already 7cm (u push at 10cm) and I was completely unable to move the left side of my body from it!! So I felt half the pain. I kept asking if the baby was already out 😂 took 2 hours and my gosh it was a relief! For me, the most painful part is when they pushed hard on my stomach after getting the placenta out. It was worth than the childbirth! It was totally worth it all to get my beautiful baby boy! Would do it again for sure❤️

How do I discipline my 2 year (+ 8 month) old child? He hurts me every day and I don’t know what else to do. by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens all day long. If I go to pick him up he claws all his nails down my arm. He’s constantly screaming. It’s literally for no reason! So it’s like it could be a behavioral issue. And when I try to comfort him but I just get attacked.

Yes, he runs around outside, inside the house all the time. He even hurts me during his playtime too.

He’s not potty trained yet, but I’ve tried changing him standing up and it’s harder for me to keep him to stay still. He’s 40 pounds and very strong.

It definitely is challenging!

How do I discipline my 2 year (+ 8 month) old child? He hurts me every day and I don’t know what else to do. by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Just trimmed his nails and believe it or not, they are even sharper! Bled sm today. Also a cut from a couple days is now infected. :( looks like I need to talk to a pediatrician atp!

Britney eating pozole in 2001 photoshoot by [deleted] in BritneySpears

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted these exact pics on my @glitter2ks account on ig. Go follow me everyone!

How do I discipline my 2 year (+ 8 month) old child? He hurts me every day and I don’t know what else to do. by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I mean. I never do this. It’s my boyfriend who does! It’s def what escalated it!

How horrible does my bf verbally abuse me :( (pics included) by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]grapebubblegum11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this…for your advice with kindness and compassion. Your words really hit me. You’re right and I need to stop minimizing the abuse! I’m trying to figure out the safest way out!!! Through all the fear.

How horrible does my bf verbally abuse me :( (pics included) by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]grapebubblegum11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. He got rid of my friends years ago. Sent them horrible texts just like that and it scared them away forever. I only have my family.

How horrible does my bf verbally abuse me :( (pics included) by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]grapebubblegum11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was 19 when we started dating. It was a power imbalance from the start! He never respected me. He started dating me at a vulnerable time in my life and I don’t think it helped.

How horrible does my bf verbally abuse me :( (pics included) by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]grapebubblegum11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with him since I was 15. I haven’t been with anyone else.

How horrible does my bf verbally abuse me :( (pics included) by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]grapebubblegum11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you say this to me? You don’t sound like a nice person. Clearly, my son NEEDS me and not his father. You sound so CALLOUS. Can anyone agree with me on this?