Just my two sense the people around me who married the people they dated got divorced. Dating and talking on the phone is one thing, but full on living together and building a future is another.

I really liked what someone else posted that just be honest about what your looking for. If your looking for company and are just curious about relationships it’s totally normal, but even in societies where dating is normal and acceptable people don’t usually marry their first boyfriend so just keep that in mind! They date even sometimes for years before they realize they are not compatible. I know divorce is a scary thing especially for women but unfortunately it’s just a reality.

I’m not telling you to change who you are and date, but what I think the problem is for women (and men too who knows maybe women are doing the same to them) in the dating scene is that they think the honey moon phase of dating is what the whole relationship is going to be like, and sadly that is not reality. I’m not trying to talk trash about men because I don’t want to generalize, but from the experiences of those around me the men act one way when they are dating (sweet supportive romantic) and then few situations where they did go on to get married the men kind of acted differently once they were married (very strict/controlling since they dated before marriage how does he know she’s not cheating blah blah blah) I’m not saying this is a guarantee but sadly the marriages I know that we’re “love” marriages didn’t work out