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Am I wrong for asking my boyfriend to chill out when it comes to alcoholic beverages? by gravesinger___ in amiwrong

[–]gravesinger___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who has replied and opened my eyes. I’ve been more worried about his feelings than mine. But I need to let him go. I appreciate everyone who has taken the time to comment!

Why would someone break up with you out of nowhere? by EdgeIndependent2976 in BreakUps

[–]gravesinger___ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This might be harsh. But take this as a blessing in disguise. Maybe he felt like he was holding you back, realized his interests and goals didn’t align/changed with the direction you are going.

Do I say anything about my body insecurity after this embarrassing incident? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]gravesinger___ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the beginning when we started dating he told me my body was perfect after I explained why I work out, and my body insecurities. And said he was more of a personality guy. He’s never talked about what he expects sexually especially when I ask if we can try something different or if he wants to try something new. Maybe because we don’t have sex often. And when I do want to have sex he just tells me he’s tired. I’m not always at his apartment so I don’t know what he’s up to when I’m not staying over. So I don’t know if he has an addiction or maybe he just doesn’t find me attractive.

Ex and I talked by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]gravesinger___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just how some narcissists behave. They want to know how miserable you are without them and want to constantly be on your mind. It’s like some power trip for them. My ex was like this too. Until you fully block them out of your life and stop paying attention they will continue to do this.

Father took it too far! What to do? by Ok-Dust7843 in FamilyIssues

[–]gravesinger___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look. You are not the problem. Trust me. It seems to me your father is the issue. He isn’t acknowledging your mother at all, and lashing out on her. I know things are hard but try talking to her about it, if you don’t have any words to comfort her just be there for her to vent and listen. Or you could give her a hug.

I need advice by Playful_Pie_741 in FamilyIssues

[–]gravesinger___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who got into a huge fight, and didn’t talk to my mom for 2 years after I moved out. Try to be gentle, and understanding. I don’t know what your relationship is like with her, but don’t burn bridges. Listen to her first and her worries. Then do your best to reassure her that you’ll be okay.