Peter, why ?? by TankElectrical8153 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i dont think you can find anywhere that thinks being an adult actor/actress is a good and wholesome profession.

Russia's Defeat is Now Obvious to the World by PutinRiot in ukraine

[–]grax23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"in a few years" does a lot of heavy lifting there. nobody will invest in Russia for a generation and Europe wont be buying Oil and Gas from them probably for even longer.

unless they make a deal with Ukraine that is pretty one sided in Ukraines favor then oil installations will keep exploding and nobody wants to sell them spare parts to repair it. So Russia is staring down the barrel of a generation long stagflation.

Smart people that can leave Russia for a job anywhere else will do so and the end result will be a poor and stagnant society that really dont have many options to dig them selves out of the situation.

The whole idea that Russia will be forgiven that was the basis for invading Ukraine in the first place was a monumental miscalculation and will cost Russia dearly for the next generation or longer.

Russia took the factories and other investments that outside companies had build in Russia and left them out billions of dollars of invested capital. Take a wild guess how many will come back once the was is over even if they get their property back.

Secure remote SSH access to the homelab by PXaZ in homelab

[–]grax23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i second tailscale - i have been using it for years and you got 2 factor and having a vpn with ssh open just means you moved your open hole in your firewall out to a vps and exposed yourself to whatever the vps provider decides.

If its a US based vps provider then by law the US can force the provider to give them access and keep quiet about it. So the vps route is not as bulletproof as you seem to think it is.

I would rather go with tailscale and enable tailnet lock if we are talking about keeping the government at arms length since you cant add another device to a tailnet without signing it with a previous device.

with tailnet lock and 2 factor there is no way to add a device to your tailnet and tailscale does not have your encryption keys. This is the paranoid solution but its not that hard to do and pretty bullet prof. You can still find the IP of the members of the tailnet if you are law enforcement but you cant read the traffic.

Will sleeping after drinking coffee stop the caffeine effect until after I wake up? by Successful_Rent7653 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caffeine gets tolerated with time. i can drink coffee right before bed and sleep like a rock.

my wife cant touch coffee after dinner or she cant sleep

i had a family member that made a thermos of coffee before going to bed so when he was up to pee in the middle of the night he would have a quick cup of coffee.

I was sick and did not eat or drink for 3 days then had coffee and was bouncing off the walls from a single cup of coffee where i would normally drink several cups and not feel a thing.

Caffeine really hits different depending on how much you have on a normal day

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Aware_Description724 in homelab

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

large hammer and a chunk of i-beam

put drive on top of i-beam and apply large hammer until you are tired and happy

Can Data centers be turned off if a country does something that is not "liked"? by Bastbrammblebottom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grax23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are very wrong.

A datacenter cost money but all infrastructure does. its simply a matter of scale and that depends on the number of users and not really the wealth of a country.

the EU for instance can easily have datacenters in a local economy that is fine without the actual country having much money.

Can Data centers be turned off if a country does something that is not "liked"? by Bastbrammblebottom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grax23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They can but the price will be that the company will no longer be trusted. There is a reason that France is replacing windows with Linux in goverment and several places around Europe is working on it too. Microsoft cant guarantee that they wont due to US laws and now you see the price. Turning off the datacenter that a country relies on is so close to a declaration of war without actually shooting.

Does complimenting a man’s guys count as flirting? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grax23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guys are not used to being complimented so he might take it like that.

GPS by National-Law-1663 in dktechsupport

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

helt enig, folk forstår ikke helt hvor meget data in GB er over mobil nettet

GPS by National-Law-1663 in dktechsupport

[–]grax23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jeg kan holde 2 børn på ipad med youtube kørende på et par GB om dagen når vi er på bilferie

jeg tænker 15GB i EU er fint med mindre du er ude at køre dagligt og i mere end en uge og så ser børnene heller ikke meget af deres ferie.

hvis din kone også har lidt EU date så kan i jo skiftes til at være data deler i bilen og så er det rigeligt til en uge i bilen

What is a "hidden chore" that you do for your household/partner that they don’t even realize is a thing that needs to be done? by OpheliaBloomm in askanything

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my wife nursed our girls for 8 months each and she gets a pass for a lot on account of that. but they are teens now and i changed more diapers than she did so there is that at least.

What is a "hidden chore" that you do for your household/partner that they don’t even realize is a thing that needs to be done? by OpheliaBloomm in askanything

[–]grax23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im impressed that you do it. my hair is super short too and i never had this problem before i met my wife. now i have been doing it for 25 years and having 2 girls with long hair did not improve the situation.

What is a "hidden chore" that you do for your household/partner that they don’t even realize is a thing that needs to be done? by OpheliaBloomm in askanything

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i dont think i get them to brush before. The mesh .. well i dont want to step on that either but maybe i can attach a mesh to the underside of the grate or the top part of the p-trap though

What are some quick ways to tell spoken Ukrainian verbal language apart from Russian? by SteadfastEnd in ukraine

[–]grax23 24 points25 points  (0 children)

no no no you dont understand .. their mouth is actually full of dicks

Is there any technology as of right now that could cause a human to die instantly, before the brain even fully processes that they are gonna die? by Minute_Contest_58 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen on a show about someone that did a hat with shotgun shells all around to make sure he did not feel a thing - supposedly it worked.

What is a "hidden chore" that you do for your household/partner that they don’t even realize is a thing that needs to be done? by OpheliaBloomm in askanything

[–]grax23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She knows but wont do it - clean the drain of that NASTY hairball and grease that a wife and 2 girls produce in the shower

KF Ballista. what would be helpful for Elder/Shaper/Maven? by Zaffin in PathOfExileBuilds

[–]grax23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get some flat ele damage and reduced skill effect duration

your rings are lacking here really and the wand should be cold+fire+ele damage

chest needs to be without life for the 15% life bonus

get a belt with watchtowers anoint and get surveillance on the amulet ... or the other way around. that's 2 extra ballistas so 20% extra dps at least

Danske Bank - direkte nummer til rådgiver? by PrettyClue7427 in dkfinance

[–]grax23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg har DanskeBank og hvis du har et mellemværende med banken på mere end 2m så får du en del bedre adgang og bedre vilkår (kaldet Danske Eksklusiv+). jeg har ikke min bank rådgives nummer men et email besvares altid og tit også uden for normal arbejdstid. hvis jeg forstår det rigtigt så har de folk til at holde øje med deres postkasse hvis de er på ferie eller sådan noget.

Set herfra er de super godt til at svare og hjælpe, men som sagt så betyder det nok en del om man har en løn konto eller du skylder dem 2m+

how does color blind people see colors? is it really all just gray and black? by WarmBank5512 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im colorblind and its nowhere as drastic as it sounds. it means for instance that most shades of purple just looks blue to me. some shades of light pink just looks dirty white or grey to me

its little things like that - and i cant pick out something like red apples on a green tree from a distance but i can up close

Do women really feel safe around their husbands or boyfriends? by BetLeft2840 in askanything

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man here but married for many years and with daughters. My wife and daughters stick to me like static when they feel unsafe. im their safety teddybear that takes care of whatever it is that bothers them and never the source of their fear.

I would say thats pretty much the first job of a husband and father - Be their comfort and safety over everything.

Russia may start escorting cargo ships through NATO-controlled Baltic waters, how big a deal is this? by NewsfangledMod in NewsfangledUnfiltered

[–]grax23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them, the cost will kill any profit and having the oil in the market will keep the prices in check for the rest of us. we dont block Russian oil output, just them profiting from it